Am I a loser because I don't have a job at 20 years old??

Well, if you wan't to live with your parents the rest of your life....

Nevermind

Get a job

Yes. You should be ashamed. Go in the corner and cry! :P

No, you shouldn't. You just need to search for the right job for you. I'm sure it will come in time. Don't worry about it so much. :)

get a job man thats the only way u will survive.

That's dumb. If your parents died, you wouldn't be poor, you would get all their munnies! Yay! :D

I say don't worry about it too much yet.

No, that doesn't make you a loser. But, in about 4-5 years, if you are still unemplyed, you should be worried ;)

enjoy it for as long as you can...are you in school?

I am 20 years old, just started my first business. But evryone lives their life different it depends what you want to do with your life?

If you're out of full time education and arn't on a gap year traveling the world ect then yes you are a loser.

You should just get an easy job in retail, it's something atleast and the experience can get you a job pretty much anywhere in retail

I am 20 years old, just started my first business. But evryone lives their life different it depends what you want to do with your life?

daftdog

what's your business doing?

[QUOTE="daftdog"]

I am 20 years old, just started my first business. But evryone lives their life different it depends what you want to do with your life?

markop2003

what's your business doing?

We specialise in digital marketing.

Well some people (who are on welfare) have told me I am a loser because I don't have a job.
I do try to find a job but it is hard to get one.. They said if my parents ever died I would have to live on the street because I don't currently work..

So am I a loser?? Should I worry about my parents dying because I won't have money anymore??
People also said if my parents die I shouldn't care about that, they said I should only care about the fact I will be poor.

So what should I do?? I do try to get a job but should I start to worry because I don't currently have one??

Would you consider me a loser because I don't have a job at age 20??
I sometimes think I should not be alive, I am not trying to sound emo or get attention, but if i live on the street someday, wouldn't it be better to not be alive??joshrocks2245

at least you are the greatest guitar player who ever lived, you can fall back on that if you have to.

enjoy it for as long as you can...are you in school?

superheromonkey

Not right now, I have been out of school for a while..

The college in my city is garbage, theres no courses there I can take that would help me get a job.
If I lived in a bigger city I would probably have a job right now..

If you're out of full time education and arn't on a gap year traveling the world ect then yes you are a loser.

You should just get an easy job in retail, it's something atleast and the experience can get you a job pretty much anywhere in retail

markop2003

You know what I just thought of that doesn't make me feel as much of a loser??
Some guy I know, around age 40, he hasn't worked in about 13 years, he lives with his 76 year old mom, and doesn't even have any friends except his mom.
That just made me feel a lot better remembering that :D

[QUOTE="superheromonkey"]

enjoy it for as long as you can...are you in school?

joshrocks2245

Not right now, I have been out of school for a while..

The college in my city is garbage, theres no courses there I can take that would help me get a job.
If I lived in a bigger city I would probably have a job right now..

If you dont go to college, or university (what ever its called in the states) then yes, i would call you a loser, if you have no school, and no job, and people on the welfare think you are a loser, im going to assume you have no social life what so ever, except for online.

If you get money, you can buy a nice car, rent your own house. Socialize, go partying, go clubbing. get mint chicks (if your ugly mabey after some alcohol, jokes jokes :D)

I'm 16 i go to college (which is like before uni, im not sure what the equivielnt to college is in the states)

And i work my ass off every week, i average between 24 and 34 hours a week, thats nearly a average full time job of 40 hours a week.

Now i have alot of nice things, a car with sounds and mags etc, a decent computer which ill a buy a new one soon, i have a 42" tv plus a pionner/wharfedale setup, ill be lowering my car soon which will cost $500.

I drive out to see friends and socialize in the weekend etc, If it werent for work and having an income I wouldnt have as much independance and would be stuck at home, on the computer, not doing alot.

Which would you rather be? some one who was a good life? or an unmotivated loser with no job and or social life?

It's your desicion...

If you dont go to college, or university (what ever its called in the states) then yes, i would call you a loser, if you have no school, and no job, and people on the welfare think you are a loser, im going to assume you have no social life what so ever, except for online.

If you get money, you can buy a nice car, rent your own house. Socialize, go partying, go clubbing. get mint chicks (if your ugly mabey after some alcohol, jokes jokes :D)

I'm 16 i go to college (which is like before uni, im not sure what the equivielnt to college is in the states)

And i work my ass off every week, i average between 24 and 34 hours a week, thats nearly a average full time job of 40 hours a week.

Now i have alot of nice things, a car with sounds and mags etc, a decent computer which ill a buy a new one soon, i have a 42" tv plus a pionner/wharfedale setup, ill be lowering my car soon which will cost $500.

I drive out to see friends and socialize in the weekend etc, If it werent for work and having an income I wouldnt have as much independance and would be stuck at home, on the computer, not doing alot.

Which would you rather be? some one who was a good life? or an unmotivated loser with no job and or social life?

It's your desicion...

headshotnz

I don't really think I am a loser..
I do have a social life by the way..

I do want money, but i don't want all kinds of friends and always go partying and drinking..
I've had friends I did that with before, they would bug me all the time to go drinking, guess what?? I stopped hanging out with them just after 2 months..

This question has nothing to do with a social life because I have one.

Well some people (who are on welfare) have told me I am a loser because I don't have a job.
I do try to find a job but it is hard to get one.. They said if my parents ever died I would have to live on the street because I don't currently work..

So am I a loser?? Should I worry about my parents dying because I won't have money anymore??
People also said if my parents die I shouldn't care about that, they said I should only care about the fact I will be poor.

So what should I do?? I do try to get a job but should I start to worry because I don't currently have one??

Would you consider me a loser because I don't have a job at age 20??joshrocks2245

You're not a loser, at all! You're trying to get a job, so it's not your fault you don't have one. Moreover, you're still kinda young. Sometimes things just have their time to happen.

I sometimes think I should not be alive, I am not trying to sound emo or get attention, but if i live on the street someday, wouldn't it be better to not be alive??joshrocks2245

Don't think like that, dude. There're more important things in life than just having 'independence' and money.

You have my support.

[QUOTE="headshotnz"]

If you dont go to college, or university (what ever its called in the states) then yes, i would call you a loser, if you have no school, and no job, and people on the welfare think you are a loser, im going to assume you have no social life what so ever, except for online.

If you get money, you can buy a nice car, rent your own house. Socialize, go partying, go clubbing. get mint chicks (if your ugly mabey after some alcohol, jokes jokes :D)

I'm 16 i go to college (which is like before uni, im not sure what the equivielnt to college is in the states)

And i work my ass off every week, i average between 24 and 34 hours a week, thats nearly a average full time job of 40 hours a week.

Now i have alot of nice things, a car with sounds and mags etc, a decent computer which ill a buy a new one soon, i have a 42" tv plus a pionner/wharfedale setup, ill be lowering my car soon which will cost $500.

I drive out to see friends and socialize in the weekend etc, If it werent for work and having an income I wouldnt have as much independance and would be stuck at home, on the computer, not doing alot.

Which would you rather be? some one who was a good life? or an unmotivated loser with no job and or social life?

It's your desicion...

joshrocks2245

I don't really think I am a loser..
I do have a social life by the way..

I do want money, but i don't want all kinds of friends and always go partying and drinking..
I've had friends I did that with before, they would bug me all the time to go drinking, guess what?? I stopped hanging out with them just after 2 months..

This question has nothing to do with a social life because I have one.

[QUOTE="joshrocks2245"]Well some people (who are on welfare) have told me I am a loser because I don't have a job.
I do try to find a job but it is hard to get one.. They said if my parents ever died I would have to live on the street because I don't currently work..

So am I a loser?? Should I worry about my parents dying because I won't have money anymore??
People also said if my parents die I shouldn't care about that, they said I should only care about the fact I will be poor.

So what should I do?? I do try to get a job but should I start to worry because I don't currently have one??

Would you consider me a loser because I don't have a job at age 20??eloyc

You're not a loser, at all! You're trying to get a job, so it's not your fault you don't have one. Moreover, you're still kinda young. Sometimes things just have their time to happen.

I sometimes think I should not be alive, I am not trying to sound emo or get attention, but if i live on the street someday, wouldn't it be better to not be alive??joshrocks2245

Don't think like that, dude. There're more important things in life than just having 'independence' and money.

You have my support.

Thanks man :)
Lots of people always seem to think all life is, is about working and making money, and not doing anything else.

@headshotnz: Dude, I told you I have friends.
I don't get how saying I have no job can make someone think I have no friends..

Friends aren't the most important thing either by the way, and either are woman.

[QUOTE="eloyc"]

[QUOTE="joshrocks2245"]Well some people (who are on welfare) have told me I am a loser because I don't have a job.
I do try to find a job but it is hard to get one.. They said if my parents ever died I would have to live on the street because I don't currently work..

So am I a loser?? Should I worry about my parents dying because I won't have money anymore??
People also said if my parents die I shouldn't care about that, they said I should only care about the fact I will be poor.

So what should I do?? I do try to get a job but should I start to worry because I don't currently have one??

Would you consider me a loser because I don't have a job at age 20??joshrocks2245

You're not a loser, at all! You're trying to get a job, so it's not your fault you don't have one. Moreover, you're still kinda young. Sometimes things just have their time to happen.

I sometimes think I should not be alive, I am not trying to sound emo or get attention, but if i live on the street someday, wouldn't it be better to not be alive??joshrocks2245

Don't think like that, dude. There're more important things in life than just having 'independence' and money.

You have my support.

Thanks man :)
Lots of people always seem to think all life is, is about working and making money, and not doing anything else.

@headshotnz: Dude, I told you I have friends.
I don't get how saying I have no job can make someone think I have no friends..

Friends aren't the most important thing either by the way, and either are woman.

[QUOTE="joshrocks2245"][QUOTE="eloyc"]

[QUOTE="joshrocks2245"]Well some people (who are on welfare) have told me I am a loser because I don't have a job.
I do try to find a job but it is hard to get one.. They said if my parents ever died I would have to live on the street because I don't currently work..

So am I a loser?? Should I worry about my parents dying because I won't have money anymore??
People also said if my parents die I shouldn't care about that, they said I should only care about the fact I will be poor.

So what should I do?? I do try to get a job but should I start to worry because I don't currently have one??

Would you consider me a loser because I don't have a job at age 20??headshotnz

You're not a loser, at all! You're trying to get a job, so it's not your fault you don't have one. Moreover, you're still kinda young. Sometimes things just have their time to happen.

I sometimes think I should not be alive, I am not trying to sound emo or get attention, but if i live on the street someday, wouldn't it be better to not be alive??joshrocks2245

Don't think like that, dude. There're more important things in life than just having 'independence' and money.

You have my support.

Thanks man :)
Lots of people always seem to think all life is, is about working and making money, and not doing anything else.

@headshotnz: Dude, I told you I have friends.
I don't get how saying I have no job can make someone think I have no friends..

Friends aren't the most important thing either by the way, and either are woman.

Uhh dude I have a life.
How come everyone thinks everyone needs romance to be happy??

"Oh look at me, I have tons of friends and a girl friend, I have a perfect life, I have a wonderful job with parents who love me. I go to the bars every friday night and drink with all my friends who love me and talk to me all the time. When we aren't hanging out we are always texting each other, oh yay!
I always whistle everywhere I go because I have such great life!!"
Yeah I would rather not be a person like that..

I don't need some girl to make me happy, and I don't need tons of friends to make me happy.

I would like a job, but having friends and hanging out with them all the time just annoys me.

[QUOTE="headshotnz"][QUOTE="joshrocks2245"][QUOTE="eloyc"]

[QUOTE="joshrocks2245"]Well some people (who are on welfare) have told me I am a loser because I don't have a job.
I do try to find a job but it is hard to get one.. They said if my parents ever died I would have to live on the street because I don't currently work..

So am I a loser?? Should I worry about my parents dying because I won't have money anymore??
People also said if my parents die I shouldn't care about that, they said I should only care about the fact I will be poor.

So what should I do?? I do try to get a job but should I start to worry because I don't currently have one??

Would you consider me a loser because I don't have a job at age 20??joshrocks2245

You're not a loser, at all! You're trying to get a job, so it's not your fault you don't have one. Moreover, you're still kinda young. Sometimes things just have their time to happen.

I sometimes think I should not be alive, I am not trying to sound emo or get attention, but if i live on the street someday, wouldn't it be better to not be alive??joshrocks2245

Don't think like that, dude. There're more important things in life than just having 'independence' and money.

You have my support.

Thanks man :)
Lots of people always seem to think all life is, is about working and making money, and not doing anything else.

@headshotnz: Dude, I told you I have friends.
I don't get how saying I have no job can make someone think I have no friends..

Friends aren't the most important thing either by the way, and either are woman.

Uhh dude I have a life.
How come everyone thinks everyone needs romance to be happy??

"Oh look at me, I have tons of friends and a girl friend, I have a perfect life, I have a wonderful job with parents who love me. I go to the bars every friday night and drink with all my friends who love me and talk to me all the time. When we aren't hanging out we are always texting each other, oh yay!
I always whistle everywhere I go because I have such great life!!"
Yeah I would rather not be a person like that..

I don't need some girl to make me happy, and I don't need tons of friends to make me happy.

I would like a job, but having friends and hanging out with them all the time just annoys me.

Worst call ever.

"omg, i have no friends yay im so happy."

Mint man. keep it up. great future lies ahead of you.headshotnz

I don't need hundreds of friends to keep me happy dude.

I am happy right now how I am.

Yeah I do have a great future ahead of me, cause I don't go out drinking all the time and waste my life doing that.

I don't waste my time hanging out with friends, which accomplishes nothing in life.


A social life with having lots of friends doesn't make money, jobs make money.

[QUOTE="BranKetra"]No way, Son Goku never had a job (I think) except learning how to drive or something and he's great. Martial artists train in the wilderness and live there and they are probably some of the most healthy and "well" people.headshotnz

Worst call ever.

"omg, i have no friends yay im so happy."

Mint man. keep it up. great future lies ahead of you.headshotnz

Wow. Don't you understand? :shock:

Do you always need people's aknowledgement and company to be happy?

By the way, the most of the 'friends' are dudes with which you can just hang around. NOTHING MORE. When you truly need something, they're not so 'cool'. :roll:

Depends on the person.

I'm 22 and not working. I'm concentrating on school (taking 5 classes) as it's my senior year in college. I've applied to internships from companies such as Ernst & Young, but I haven't really actively looked for work since the summer.

Some people look down on me sure, but I laugh when I see their below average grades and the stress they put themselves through balancing work and school. Right now your education is the most important thing in your life, don't let others tell you otherwise.

If you aren't in school and not working then... what's wrong with you?