[QUOTE="WheresKinggiAt"]

[QUOTE="needled24-7"]

well with this chick i'm tryin to get a date with now, first i just told he we should hang out some time, then when i asked her TO hang out, i made sure i used the word "date" so there were no mixed translations :P

needled24-7

Asking a girl to come do X with you is normally better than asking a girl to come on a DATE with you, mostly because this adds more artificial pressure on her and could make it more awkward (speaking for the teenage population here).

Just make sure that things escalate physically and there is flirting on the first date so it's obvious your intentions are known. Most girls like aggression as opposed to awkwardness/cowardice to make a move. Avoid things like "telling her how you feel" or that "you really like her" kind of things -- even if they are true it is bad and just puts pressure/awkwardness on the situation. A lot of inexperienced dudes do this and fail miserably 99.9% of the time.

I'm too shy. Sad at my age.

But, I will tell you what happened the closest I ever got to being asked out:

I was sipping on a Jack and Coke in a dive bar when this woman sat by me and started to talk about how much she hated her husband and having kids.

To help you with picturing this, she was wearing all black, with tons of cleavage showing, and aside from her cleavage she looked just like Rosie O'Donnel.

After awhile of me semi-ignoring her and watching muted Adult Swim (I couldn't ask my friends to get me out of the conversation because they had disappeared 15 minutes back) she finally leaned in towards me a little bit and said "I'm going out for a cigarette. If, uh... you wanna roofie me or something, I won't mind." Then she winked and left.

Luckily my friends were back when she returned... crazy lady.

Yep. That's the closest I ever got to being asked out. (Well, second closest.)

Steyrvolt

well with this chick i'm tryin to get a date with now, first i just told he we should hang out some time, then when i asked her TO hang out, i made sure i used the word "date" so there were no mixed translations :P

needled24-7

Asking a girl to come do X with you is normally better than asking a girl to come on a DATE with you, mostly because this adds more artificial pressure on her and could make it more awkward (speaking for the teenage population here).

[QUOTE="WheresKinggiAt"]

[QUOTE="narutoisapirate"]

i go to clark montessori.

there are alot of unnepealing girls.

im not joking

:|

narutoisapirate

i know everyone going into 9th grade, i would date maybe 2-3.

Who said anything about dating? Maybe start talking to the girls you would date and hanging out with them. How are you going to meet pretty girls and get them to like you in a foreign location when you can't even do it in your high school, which is a much much easier setting? You can easily open conversations based on school and transition into other things. It also isn't awkward since you all know your peers -- whereas you'd have to cold-open at a mall to a complete stranger.

Just based on your posts alone I wouldn't go anywhere like the mall or park looking for girls. Won't help a guy like you. Work on actually talking to your peers at school first.

In high school or college -- ask them to meet you at a party or other social event is the easiest way if you want to hook up. Assuming you are 16-22 the physical stuff usually comes first. If it's an actual date then just invite her along on an activity you were doing anyway (such as going to the mall). Less pressure and not an actual "date" if rejected, but if accepted can easily turn into one.

[QUOTE="WheresKinggiAt"]

[QUOTE="narutoisapirate"]

no, i already stated most dont suit my taste, plus there mean(some)

so its a lose lose situation.

narutoisapirate

Just a minute ago you said they were all mean, now just "some" are mean. What do you mean by "don't suit your taste?" Attractive girls are attractive. Yes you right prefer brunettes to blondes or something like that but outside of that that really makes no sense.

Your high school is pretty much a good sampling of the variety of women your age. It's not like all the 14 year olds at the mall or the park are going to vary that much from the girls at your school. If your behavior is such that all the girls in your school are mean to you odds are you aren't desirable to them so you should work on changing that rather than looking for some silver-bullet.

i go to clark montessori.

there are alot of unnepealing girls.

im not joking

:|

[QUOTE="WheresKinggiAt"]

[QUOTE="narutoisapirate"]

i cant force myself to like someone.

there really just all kinda mean.

narutoisapirate

no, i already stated most dont suit my taste, plus there mean(some)

so its a lose lose situation.

Just a minute ago you said they were all mean, now just "some" are mean. What do you mean by "don't suit your taste?" Attractive girls are attractive. Yes you right prefer brunettes to blondes or something like that but outside of that that really makes no sense.

Your high school is pretty much a good sampling of the variety of women your age. It's not like all the 14 year olds at the mall or the park are going to vary that much from the girls at your school. If your behavior is such that all the girls in your school are mean to you odds are you aren't desirable to them so you should work on changing that rather than looking for some silver-bullet.

[QUOTE="WheresKinggiAt"]

How exactly can your school lack pretty girls? First of all this is impossible. Secondly even if it was true why would the mall be frequented by pretty girls? It's not like all the pretty girls get randomly segregated into the other schools in the area and your school gets all the uggo's.

You're 14, and your options are very limited, use the girls from your school. I'm sure there's one girl who is attractive enough for a young stud like yourself (who is so awesome that the entire student body isn't good enough for him) to talk to.

narutoisapirate

i cant force myself to like someone.

there really just all kinda mean.

How exactly can your school lack pretty girls? First of all this is impossible. Secondly even if it was true why would the mall be frequented by pretty girls? It's not like all the pretty girls get randomly segregated into the other schools in the area and your school gets all the uggo's.

You're 14, and your options are very limited, use the girls from your school. I'm sure there's one girl who is attractive enough for a young stud like yourself (who is so awesome that the entire student body isn't good enough for him) to talk to.

If you put salt on your skin and then rub it in with ice, it creates an acidic effect that burns away your skin!

The more you know....

weaselstomper50

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