would you honestly ever waste your time with her if she wanted you back? if she's cheating and wanting a dude to be her boy toy, she honestly sounds like a waste of time. You can do better so I say forget her, girls like her jump from guy to guy often by the sounds of itTheNewEraIcon
I think she had all of this suppressed personally. When I met her she was very conservative, wanted to wate until marriage to have sex, the whole nine yards. But I kinda broke that track record. As I had said she has a family history of whoring around. My family and I don't even think her sister's father is the same guy who thinks he is. But I thought she was the acception, honor roll student and graduated with sponsorships and such. She really was a faithful girl and a wonderful girlfriend for the most part. And that's what I miss, but no. I do not want her back now.
I have some of the most immature friends in the world. Always talking about boobies and other women's parts. I will admit I don't do much of that myself. I seem to be the most stable when it comes to such subject matter. But I love my friends, they mean the whole world to me. :oops:
I don't mean to interject, but it seems like you're defending the actions of the girl. :o
I'm not saying you are, that's just how I took it.
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Not whatsoever. Cheating is repulsive and disgusting, and I don't mean to sound as though I'm defending her because I'm not, I would never stick up for a cheater. It's just ridiculous to me to think you have any control over another person after you've ended the relationship. OP won't heal from this if he wants to reel her back in just to smack her down and reject her the way he felt rejected, that's unhealthy and he'll be carrying that anger for a VERY long time. God no, I compute that part in my initial read. But I wouldn't ever think of controlling her. She made her own mistakes, and have even lost friends in return (i made very good friends with her friends with in those 2 years). But no, I wouldn't ever try to control her, not outright at least. Im mostly appalled and really, hurt that she would make such quick decisions. EDIT: If I were trying to control her, it may be a subconscious thing. But it's not in my nature to control anybody, Im the kind of person who will give you the shirt off of my own back, amazingly polite in person to who ever I meet, unless you cross me. I worry about others more than myself, but won't let myself get taken advantage of.
[QUOTE="XilePrincess"]What does it matter whose virginity who takes? You two aren't together anymore, you broke up with her and that means you severed ties, regardless of the reason for the breakup. You have no say in what she does, or whose virginity she takes, how fast their relationship is moving, or anything else or anything else. She's not yours anymore, she stopped being yours when she made the decision to cheat, and you reinforced that by ending the relationship. Cheating isn't a good thing, but there's nothing to "get away with". You can't physically or otherwise attack her for what she did, so if she doesn't care and has already moved on from you, she did "get away with it". If she cheated on you, she's not rebounding, she didn't give a crap in the first place so there's nothing to rebound off of. You flip-flop from loving her/wanting to spend forever with her to being smug about how she couldn't make you a "lap dog" and about how you won't let her "get away with it". I'm sure you're hurt and stuff, but that's so immature. Yes, I know I have been immature about it. I didn't really know what to do myself, and now im just pissed. Not a whole lot of time has passed yet and I haven't had a decent night's sleep, or really ate much since I found out. So this has taken a major toll on me.
I believe I have owned 2 pairs. One pair I wore all through 8th or 9th grade. And a pair I got at a later time. I don't really wear them at all to be honest. But my sister does. Now I wear Draven High Tops, corse I had no idea they were Vegan shoes when I bought them lol. I just liked the pretty colors.
@sagemen28 (damn GS is giving me issues with quoting) Really I wasn't too bad. I would get pissed off and text her, but I didn't blow her phone up with messages or missed calls. Corse if I did decide to call, she would answer. I don't think she ever ignored me once. I think I messed up by not ignoring her though. I wish I had of. I really wanted her back for a spell there. But what can I say? I loved her. Now it's not the same, I can't look at her the same. Broken two fingers over the ordeal, because walls always win. She herself admitted to me that she cheated on me, but she didn't screw the guy in the same night so she says. But her friend told me last night that she did. I freaked out! Threw my phone and broke that, and was quiet for a while. Petty I know, but up to that point, there was a part of me that wanted her back as little as I wanted to admit that. She wasn't my frist love, not by any means. But I hadn't ever really been in a longer(ish) relationship like that.
Recently I broke up with my ex gf because she cheated on me. Her and I had some issues, but I never saw them as "cheat worthy". I ran that risk because not only has her father cheated on her mother, but her sister's a complete WHORE! I will admit I have been kind of a dick to her, I mean c'mon! She cheated on me and wrecked my Christmas all together. But now she's dating the guy she cheated on me with and took his virginity. EEK!. I know he's gonna be her little pet now, which is what I wouldn't ever be. I see this as she's rebounding off of me and this senseless mutt is just setting sail for fail. I know this much, this so called "relationship" has moved way to fast. It took me at least 3 or 4 months to take her Virginity. I myself won't ever take her back, I couldn't imagine being where the oger she cheated on me with has been where I left off. But it would feel nice to think she wan'ts me back anyways. She absolutely destroyed me. But now im getting over it. But still, I don't want this **** to get away with this lightly. I know these threads are troll bait. I don't really care myself, im sure I'll get legit responses from at least a couple decent people. EDIT: Her excuse for cheating on me was because he's supposedly just like how I was in the beginning of our relationship, but as any guy would know, you tend to be really nice to the girl you wanna poke. I loved her, I wanted to spend the rest of my life with this one, she was special for what it was worth, and our relationship lasted more than 2 years, but she couldn't make me her lap dog. This new feller can do that for her im guessing.
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