Do you feel accepted at this board?

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#1 deactivated-5a79221380856
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This question goes out primarily to the theists, but anyone can answer. I was at the Christian Union and I couldn't help but to think how I didn't feel accepted there. I know that they will say otherwise and insist that they hate the sin, not the sinner, but atheism is a part of who I am, so if they think that atheism is a perversion, consequently they should think I'm a pervert, like the Bible says. Even if they don't admit to it, I can't help but to feel that I am not accepted because of my atheism.

I'm on the record for saying things about Christianity that was borderline acceptable by Terms of Use. In fact, I've been moderated for ridiculing Christians for believing in Christianity and for advocating burning the Bible, which in hindsight, was pretty foolish to say especially in consideration with the recently attempted Qur'an burning. I've said things like, "God is worse than Satan," and yet I got off the hook. I could see some moderators, particularly the devout Christian type, moderating me for that if they ever saw it. I've tried to make my views more acceptable to the Terms of Use. Now, I make certain I put qualifiers, such as "in my view" or "I'm certain that" and try to be less edgy with my expression of the views. The point I'm trying to make is that most Christians consider Christianity a part of who they are and most atheists reject much of Christianity and of other religions. Does that, as a Christian or a person of another religion, make you feel unaccepted when you come to this board?

Personally, this is my favorite board on the Internet and I obviously feel accepted by the community here, despite having some views on abortion and sex found questionable by other atheists.

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#2 ghoklebutter
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I'm pretty sure I'm accepted here.
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#3 foxhound_fox
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*shrugs*

Do I need to be?
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#4 GabuEx
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I've never even really thought about it, but yeah, I've never detected any hostility towards me for my beliefs or anything.  I've been to a Christian forum in the past and I frankly like it here much more. :P 

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#6 Lonelynight
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No, I don't feel that I am smart enough to have a proper discussion here.
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#7 Frattracide
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I've received more hostility for my being a Mormon at the Christian Union than here, although I would not say that I'm particularly accepted in either place. I don't need to be, though.Android339

You are a morman and a libertarian? OMG you're Glen Beck! 

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#8 michaelP4
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Yes, I feel very accepted here, as the majority of the posters are atheists, secularists, liberals etc. just like me. It is because of these similarities, that I feel at home here. It's only natural that one would feel unwelcome if he/she cannot sympathise with others on issues. It would be like someone who holds Republican beliefs joining the Democratic Party and expecting to fit in.
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#9 RationalAtheist
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No. But this is my most favouritist forum.

No, I don't feel that I am smart enough to have a proper discussion here.Lonelynight
 

Go on - it hasn't stopped me trying!

 

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#10 deactivated-5a79221380856
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[QUOTE="Lonelynight"]No, I don't feel that I am smart enough to have a proper discussion here.RationalAtheist

 

Go on - it hasn't stopped me trying!

I feel the same way.

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#11 dracula_16
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I do, but it's not like I would cry myself to sleep every night if I wasn't accepted. I like speaking my mind, but I take it down a few notches when I'm in a christian union.

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#13 Frattracide
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[QUOTE="Frattracide"]

[QUOTE="Android339"]I've received more hostility for my being a Mormon at the Christian Union than here, although I would not say that I'm particularly accepted in either place. I don't need to be, though.Android339

You are a morman and a libertarian? OMG you're Glen Beck! 

I hope you're joking. I'm not a fan of Glenn Beck's conspiracy theories or rhetoric. He describes himself as having libertarian tendencies, but he seems to me to be more of a strong, aggressive advocate of the religious right. He is more conservative, in any case, than libertarian.

Of course I was joking! What a terrible thing that would be to say (seriously) about somebody. 

And I agree, he is not a libertarian, but he does call himself one. 

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#14 RationalAtheist
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[QUOTE="Android339"][QUOTE="Frattracide"]

[QUOTE="Android339"]I've received more hostility for my being a Mormon at the Christian Union than here, although I would not say that I'm particularly accepted in either place. I don't need to be, though.Frattracide

You are a morman and a libertarian? OMG you're Glen Beck! 

I hope you're joking. I'm not a fan of Glenn Beck's conspiracy theories or rhetoric. He describes himself as having libertarian tendencies, but he seems to me to be more of a strong, aggressive advocate of the religious right. He is more conservative, in any case, than libertarian.

Of course I was joking! What a terrible thing that would be to say (seriously) about somebody. 

And I agree, he is not a libertarian, but he does call himself one. 

Surely, Glen himself would be ok with it? I only ask, since Android called me "the Glenn Beck of atheism" only three days ago.

 

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#16 RationalAtheist
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[QUOTE="RationalAtheist"]

Surely, Glen himself would be ok with it? I only ask, since Android called me "the Glenn Beck of atheism" only three days ago.

Android339

Only because of your fear mongering concerning religion.

Is that all? Does he monger religious fear too? You don't like being called names, but don't mind doing just that to others. Is that right?

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#18 RationalAtheist
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[QUOTE="RationalAtheist"][QUOTE="Android339"][QUOTE="RationalAtheist"]

Surely, Glen himself would be ok with it? I only ask, since Android called me "the Glenn Beck of atheism" only three days ago.

Android339

Only because of your fear mongering concerning religion.

Is that all? Does he monger religious fear too? You don't like being called names, but don't mind doing just that to others. Is that right?

No, it's not right.

Would you like to correct me? Or would you like to re-read this thread? 

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#20 RationalAtheist
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[QUOTE="RationalAtheist"][QUOTE="Android339"][QUOTE="RationalAtheist"][QUOTE="Android339"][QUOTE="RationalAtheist"]

Surely, Glen himself would be ok with it? I only ask, since Android called me "the Glenn Beck of atheism" only three days ago.

Android339

Only because of your fear mongering concerning religion.

Is that all? Does he monger religious fear too? You don't like being called names, but don't mind doing just that to others. Is that right?

No, it's not right.

Would you like to correct me? Or would you like to re-read this thread? 

What? I said it's not right that I called you a name when I don't like it myself. I apologize.

And there was I thinking you'd disagreed with my assessment! 

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#22 RationalAtheist
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[QUOTE="RationalAtheist"]

And there was I thinking you'd disagreed with my assessment! 

Android339

Nope.

Yes I was. 

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#24 RationalAtheist
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[QUOTE="RationalAtheist"][QUOTE="Android339"][QUOTE="RationalAtheist"]

And there was I thinking you'd disagreed with my assessment! 

Android339

Nope.

Yes I was. 

I meant that I didn't disagree with your assessment.

Do you understand why we are having these miscommunication issues? 

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#26 RationalAtheist
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Talking over text is always riddled with miscommunication?

Android339

Need it be? 

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#28 RationalAtheist
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Hard to avoid it.

Android339

Hard is achievable - and advantageous.

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#29 inoperativeRS
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I'm mostly a lurker nowadays but yes, I feel welcome here. I consider myself ignostic so I fit in quite well anyway though.
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#30 SpinoRaptor24
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Sort of. I've received some rather negative responses before.