Would you date someone who is a young parent?

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#1 pero2008
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So would you date someone if they were a young parent like early twenties (college age)?

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#2 xdude85
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No, it would just be weird having a kid around that wasn't yours.
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#3 pero2008
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No, it would just be weird having a kid around that wasn't yours.xdude85
That would be weird.
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#4 LORD_BLACKGULT
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Nope. Children are stupid because they are children. That increases if the stupid children are not mine.

Children are a total put-off...

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#5 Optical_Order
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Hell no.

In an out that's it.

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#7 campzor
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hell no... i dont like children and wouldnt want that responsibility anyways
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#8 hrt_rulz01
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If I really liked the girl & liked the kid, then why not.
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#9 Master_Live
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It would be very difficult.
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#10 Kats_RK
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oh hell no.

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#11 TChaivong
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No, Not interested in raising kids that aren't mine.

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#12 ristactionjakso
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Why not? I have a kid. I like kids. (even though some of them need more discipline than others)

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#13 mrmusicman247
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I currently am.
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#14 OrangeTabbyCat
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Only if their previous partner died. Otherwise I'm going with "HAHAHAHAHA LOL" So no.
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#15 TChaivong
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Why not? I have a kid. I like kids. (even though some of them need more discipline than others)

ristactionjakso

I want to raise a kid with my DNA that's all no hard feelings

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#16 deactivated-5d25ae64ef918
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Only if she were a good parent.
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#17 Ronstera
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I don't mind, I date anyone I'm attracted to..
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#18 iloverikku11
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Maybe when I am older I would consider it, but right now, in College? No way.

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#19 CammiTac
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If I liked the person enough, then yes.

But I imagine it could bring up a lot of difficulties.

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#20 Senor-Dweedle
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depends on how nice her arse is. :P
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#21 CHOASXIII
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Simple answer, no.

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#22 SaudiFury
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not the greatest thing to find out in a partner. really wouldn't like to just raise another person's kid.

Then again it's all circumstantial, totally depends on the situation i find myself in.

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#23 pspdseagle
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No, too young to be considering someone with kids...
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#24 Suzy_Q_Kazoo
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No, too young to be considering someone with kids...pspdseagle
My thoughts.
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#25 needled24-7
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i don't think i would. not that i would judge them for being a young parent, i just think it would be weird being with her and also a kid.

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#26 Solid_Snake325
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No.
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#27 Sandulf29
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if she hot then yes
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#28 Serraph105
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Nope I'm young enough to where I don't want to take care of a kid much less one that isn't mine. Frankly you're off my personal market of you have a kid.
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#29 pygmahia5
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definitely not. i want my own kid, not some random one.
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#30 XileLord
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No, unless I was old, desperate and alone and that's really all that was available but if that was the case I'd probably just stay alone. Who the hell wants to deal with a kid, especially a kid that isn't even yours? I can't even imagine being young and doing that.

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#31 mindstorm
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I have in the past been on a few dates with a good female friend of mine who is indeed a single parent.
No, it would just be weird having a kid around that wasn't yours.xdude85
While I get the point, as one who is very much adamant about the adoption of children I disagree.
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#32 Senor-Dweedle
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on second thought, nah, I wouldnt, she'll probly try get pregnant from you so she can collect more child support, well that would be the case in NZ anyway.
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#33 zeldaluff
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Nah. At this point in my life, I don't want to help raise someone's kid.

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#34 Serraph105
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[QUOTE="mindstorm"]I have in the past been on a few dates with a good female friend of mine who is indeed a single parent.
No, it would just be weird having a kid around that wasn't yours.xdude85
While I get the point, as one who is very much adamant about the adoption of children I disagree.

I think the difference with this and adoption is that if you want the girl you gotta have the kid too. I'm not against adoption one day, but if I do I want to be with the girl for a while already and have a conversation about whether we want to go through with something like that.
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#35 MrsSolidSnake
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I probably couldn't date a young father. That's not to say if I were older (say 30s) and I found somebody and they had a kid, I would probably date him.

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#36 Fightingfan
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Simply no, women with kids already lose like 7 points on the hot radar for me, and girls that smoke lose about 5 points.
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#37 Krelian-co
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no i wouldn't.

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#38 Master_Live
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The hate for kids is strong in this thread.
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#39 soulless4now
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Since I have no kids, heck no.

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#40 fireball_016
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Not a chance.

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#42 THE_DRUGGIE
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No. In fact, the mere sight of such a person would trigger a spontaneous moralistic grandstanding rant in which I persecute said person with the harshest words possible.

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#43 weezyfb
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i am a young cat and can't roll with young dogs
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#44 CaveJohnson1
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No, should have been carful.

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#45 topsemag55
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The hate for kids is strong in this thread. Master_Live
All the more hilarious because some that are posting are teens.:D
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#46 GamerForca
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I have a friend who just married a girl who had three kids with another guy. But me? Hell no. I'd find it way too weird.
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#47 lilasianwonder
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Short answer, no.
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#48 Krelian-co
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The hate for kids is strong in this thread. Master_Live

is not hate for kids, i even like kids, but taking responsability from another ahole, no thanks, so i just avoid girls with children before there is any chance of anything to happen.

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#49 tenaka2
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Only if she was still breast feeding.

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#50 RJLateralus
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[QUOTE="Master_Live"]The hate for kids is strong in this thread. topsemag55
All the more hilarious because some that are posting are teens.:D

Exactly what i was thinking.