..... I wasn't serious. The world is overpopulated, and i wouldn't want to make that any worse than it already is. So i just wouldn't make anyone pregnant.
..... I wasn't serious. The world is overpopulated, and i wouldn't want to make that any worse than it already is. So i just wouldn't make anyone pregnant.
But what happend if you do?If u have a girlfriend thats most likely to happen,even if u take care of each other when it comes to sex life.
I've actually been in this exact same situation, where my girlfriend was pregnant. She'd slept with some guy whilst we were apparently 'on a break' (which I was never told about), and unfortunately for her, luck wasn't on her side and she got pregnant. That was when I left her.
We've discussed that if it happened we'd get her an abortion. Though it's highly unlikely, I still feel its necessary to talk about worst case scenarios before taking any risk in that direction.
Grow up and take care of her and the child as best you can. You don't have to marry her, but be a MAN and work with her. That's what I would do!
-wii60-
I agree with you, but what if your girlfriend is really young and she isn't ready for that?
Then that tells me you were wrong to even have sex in the first place. What the hell do people think taht they can just do waht they feel like no matter how many times they are told, BE CAREFUL. Stupidity is what causes things like this. I am sorry for being like this, but I HATE stupid people. Grow up damn it. There is a reason you posted this. Do the right thing.
I was literally get into my car and drive away, until it ran out of petrol and then get out of the car and run until I faint. Then after a hospital trip for dehydration, go back and find a place to move in with her and get a night job.
That wouldn't happen unless a deranged stalker injected herself with my semen.. In that instance, i would probably just marry her for the usage. Give 'er a sniper rifle and a list of names, done.
I would try to find out who the hell she had been sleeping with. Though it wouldn't really matter. The relationship would be over at that point. No discussion needed. I think of sex as either irrelevant or an act between two people who love each other, and are married. I lean more toward the irrelevant side. Cultivation of the intellect is much more important and long-lasting.
If it was mine I would do the best I could to provide for itdouble_decker
Yeah, same. I wouldn't be able to offer lots of my time, though, or do too much caring at a young age. If I were older and had a job and such, it wouldn't be such a big issue. But being a teenager, that'd really suck for me.
I'm engaged so it's not too big of a deal at this point if it happens, but I really don't want kids for at least another 5 years.
But if it happened with just a casual girlfriend, I'd probably enjoy the 6 months or so of unprotected we'd get to have since she would already be pregnant...then I'd help her take care of the kid, and really regret the whole thing.
If you knock up your girlfriend, just get an abortion already. The last thing this world needs is more teenage parents so stupid they couldn't use a condom and take the pill.
BTW, if you're going raw you're a friggin idiot and you deserve all the kids/aids/stds that come your way.
Break up with her since, as I am female, she has some serious explaining to do.
If I was a man and my girlfriend became pregnant, I'd expect her to get an abortion. By this point, I would have expressed my complete disinterest in ever having and taking care of children; if she didn't feel the same way, I would have left her a long time ago. If, despite what she's told me in the past, she wanted to keep the child, I would leave her.
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