What do girls want in a guy?

$40,000

kittensRjerks

Got more than that in just one account...I'm not dating currently, so I'm enjoying the hell out of watching my balances grow.:D

The only girls I've ever dated are Leliana & Morrigan, so I wouldn't know.

SkyWard20

Aww. :( This makes me depressed.

Based on my experience, what girls want in a guy correlates nicely with what police sheriffs want in escaped convicts.Theokhoth

[QUOTE="mindstorm"]At least from what I have observed very broadly, love and security. However, this manifests itself very differently and might look completely different from one girl to another. One cannot simply say, "_____ is what all girls want."_7h0m_

they all want the same thing: WHAT THEY CAN'T HAVE.

Something long and hard, i suppose.

They want beards.. 8)Strider_91

they all want the same thing: WHAT THEY CAN'T HAVE.

needled24-7

If anything, this is probably the most true statement of the bunch. I see this all to much. Hell, I've experienced it.

From decent interest to most wanted, just walk around with your girlfriend... it's kind of sick really, lol.

A finely-crafted mustache

[QUOTE="AkhilAnilkumar"]So all real girls in gamespot...please post your replies.kamikaze_pigmy

$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$

Well, different women want different things in a guy, but a pretty common turn-on is sense of humor.

For me, personally, I also want someone who is honest, kind, and interesting.

I thought this seemed appropriate:

Why not ask them directly?:P

Looks (specifically gotta be tall) and money.

Doesn't matter how good you are at making a girl laugh or you have a bunch in common, I have never had a real relationship despite now being confident, making people laugh, and going after girls who I have alot in common with. And believe me, I have been putting myself out there a ton lately thanks to okcupid.com and have been giving all very respectful and personal messages to try and start talking to women.

I am not horrid looking IMO, but I am short (5'4 and almost 22) and have a babyface. I am at a point of pretty much just giving up on trying to find a girlfriend because Jesus Christ the lack of logic astounds me.

BTW women are the last people to ask about this. They always give the same answers no matter how much BS may be in there. A girl is very unlikely to admit to actually being shallow after all, and just in general it seems to me a girl will try and give answers that will make the guy asking happy rather than having the guts to be honest and dissapoint said guy.

Believe me, I have flat out had a girl just kind of randomly tell me she liked and disliked numerous things, I ended up fitting her ideal description well.

Oh but she ended up rejecting me and is now engaged to my friend whom had alot of the traits she listed as NEGATIVES and in general was a way worse fit than I was.

To quote mark rippetoe

Women only care about three things . How much money you have ,how big of a hammer your swinging and if you have a big back squat .

This thread reeks of pessimism and inaccuracies :(

To answer your question TC: it really depends. What one girl wants is different than the other, and you really can't give too sweeping of a one size fits all type of answer. I can tell you what I like and I can name what I deem other girls to favor from personal experiences and just common sense, but then I'd probably be doubted or something.

This thread reeks of pessimism and inaccuracies :(

Suzy_Q_Kazoo

I only know what I have experienced.

I mean seriosuly, not to sound arrogant but I am just completely at a loss now that not even A SINGLE GIRL has given me a CHANCE. I would be hesitant to put my okcupid profile on here, but I mean I am very honest about who I am, make no apologies for being nice, have a decent job, have serious goals in life, have passion, and am RESPECTFUL and don't just go around telling women "hey baby, you look hot!" but instead I focus alot on personality (granted I do have standards of physical beauty too, but they aren't too strict) and show INTEREST in who they are as a person.

I am sorry, but I have been blown off for so long despite having so much going for me and I am sick of it.

[QUOTE="LIONHEART-_-"]

[QUOTE="th3warr1or"]

A hot body, and large dick. Personality? No, girls don't want that.

My apologies to any females to whom this does not apply to. In all seriousness, I have never seen a girl who said personality is the key factor to actually uphold that. I'm not saying that oh I'm a nice guy and I never get any girls. I do have an ****** side but I am not an ******.

th3warr1or

This statement should be helpful, since I have a large dick.

Oh :|

I'm not talking about every single girl. There are exceptions to everything.

I know man, I get your point ;)

I'm only kidding

I only know what I have experienced.

I am sorry, but I have been blown off for so long despite having so much going for me and I am sick of it.

LostProphetFLCL

This cures some problems.:P

Save, and watch those $$$ grow...it's a heck of a good feeling when you can stroll into a dealership and pay cash for the car you want.:)

To quote mark rippetoe

Women only care about three things . How much money you have ,how big of a hammer your swinging and if you have a big back squat .

raiden509

money is not that big of a deal,you can have an average or below average financial level and you can have tons of women if you know how to manipulate them emotionally.Most probably they wont get married to you but many women marry someone for safety not because they like him

[QUOTE="Suzy_Q_Kazoo"]

This thread reeks of pessimism and inaccuracies :(

LostProphetFLCL

I only know what I have experienced.

I mean seriosuly, not to sound arrogant but I am just completely at a loss now that not even A SINGLE GIRL has given me a CHANCE. I would be hesitant to put my okcupid profile on here, but I mean I am very honest about who I am, make no apologies for being nice, have a decent job, have serious goals in life, have passion, and am RESPECTFUL and don't just go around telling women "hey baby, you look hot!" but instead I focus alot on personality (granted I do have standards of physical beauty too, but they aren't too strict) and show INTEREST in who they are as a person.

I am sorry, but I have been blown off for so long despite having so much going for me and I am sick of it.

This thread reeks of pessimism and inaccuracies :(

To answer your question TC: it really depends. What one girl wants is different than the other, and you really can't give too sweeping of a one size fits all type of answer. I can tell you what I like and I can name what I deem other girls to favor from personal experiences and just common sense, but then I'd probably be doubted or something.

Suzy_Q_Kazoo

oooh, so size does matter, eh? it just varies from person to person. :P

They want a guy with big fisherman muscles.

Looks (specifically gotta be tall) and money.

Doesn't matter how good you are at making a girl laugh or you have a bunch in common, I have never had a real relationship despite now being confident, making people laugh, and going after girls who I have alot in common with. And believe me, I have been putting myself out there a ton lately thanks to okcupid.com and have been giving all very respectful and personal messages to try and start talking to women.

I am not horrid looking IMO, but I am short (5'4 and almost 22) and have a babyface. I am at a point of pretty much just giving up on trying to find a girlfriend because Jesus Christ the lack of logic astounds me.

BTW women are the last people to ask about this. They always give the same answers no matter how much BS may be in there. A girl is very unlikely to admit to actually being shallow after all, and just in general it seems to me a girl will try and give answers that will make the guy asking happy rather than having the guts to be honest and dissapoint said guy.

Believe me, I have flat out had a girl just kind of randomly tell me she liked and disliked numerous things, I ended up fitting her ideal description well.

Oh but she ended up rejecting me and is now engaged to my friend whom had alot of the traits she listed as NEGATIVES and in general was a way worse fit than I was.

LostProphetFLCL

Man, I am in the exact same spot as you.

I'm looking for a guy I find attractive, who is intelligent, with a good sense of humour and preferably has the same interests as me :)

EDIT: Oh and about money; I'd like a guy to have enough money to be able to do things with me and pay for his fair share. Up until my last boyfriend I paid for everything, movies, lunches etc. My last bf and I took it in turns to pay for things which was great ^^

[QUOTE="XilePrincess"]I'm a very simple person when it comes to that, but perhaps that's because I found what I want, so I'm very specific and don't generalize. Be cute. I'm not talking about looks, either. I mentioned a few times to my boyfriend that I'd never gotten flowers before, but he'd never acted on it. After our anniversary date last week, we went home and exchanged gifts. I was surprised as hell when he pulls a cute little vase of fake flowers out and gives them to me. He said that way they wouldn't ever die so I could keep them always. Cue heart melting. That is how you snag yourself a lady, by letting her know you listen and can process thoughts through your Neanderthal head and turn them into something that will make her happy.th3warr1or

Ding Ding Ding!

what if I dont want a guy? =PAllicrombie

you've just fed the cyncial pessimism monster.

im with the same boat as most of these guys. best way to deal with it is to just accept it and move on.

what if I dont want a guy? =PAllicrombie

[QUOTE="Allicrombie"]what if I dont want a guy? =PDeihjan

I'm calling PETA.

[QUOTE="Deihjan"][QUOTE="Allicrombie"]what if I dont want a guy? =PAtmanix

I'm calling PETA.

[QUOTE="Allicrombie"]what if I dont want a guy? =Pz4twenny

you've just fed the cyncial pessimism monster.

im with the same boat as most of these guys. best way to deal with it is to just accept it and move on.

I agree just

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I'm a very simple person when it comes to that, but perhaps that's because I found what I want, so I'm very specific and don't generalize. Be cute. I'm not talking about looks, either. I mentioned a few times to my boyfriend that I'd never gotten flowers before, but he'd never acted on it. After our anniversary date last week, we went home and exchanged gifts. I was surprised as hell when he pulls a cute little vase of fake flowers out and gives them to me. He said that way they wouldn't ever die so I could keep them always. Cue heart melting. That is how you snag yourself a lady, by letting her know you listen and can process thoughts through your Neanderthal head and turn them into something that will make her happy.XilePrincess

I agree with you on most everything you said, but why the insult? =/

[QUOTE="XilePrincess"]I'm a very simple person when it comes to that, but perhaps that's because I found what I want, so I'm very specific and don't generalize. Be cute. I'm not talking about looks, either. I mentioned a few times to my boyfriend that I'd never gotten flowers before, but he'd never acted on it. After our anniversary date last week, we went home and exchanged gifts. I was surprised as hell when he pulls a cute little vase of fake flowers out and gives them to me. He said that way they wouldn't ever die so I could keep them always. Cue heart melting. That is how you snag yourself a lady, by letting her know you listen and can process thoughts through your Neanderthal head and turn them into something that will make her happy.Baconbits2004

I agree with you on most everything you said, but why the insult? =/

Because she is a perfect princess who never farts or goes #2 ofc. ; )

It depends if the girl in question has what I want in a girl. (For a serious relationship I'm assuming this thread meant).

[QUOTE="th3warr1or"][QUOTE="XilePrincess"]I'm a very simple person when it comes to that, but perhaps that's because I found what I want, so I'm very specific and don't generalize. Be cute. I'm not talking about looks, either. I mentioned a few times to my boyfriend that I'd never gotten flowers before, but he'd never acted on it. After our anniversary date last week, we went home and exchanged gifts. I was surprised as hell when he pulls a cute little vase of fake flowers out and gives them to me. He said that way they wouldn't ever die so I could keep them always. Cue heart melting. That is how you snag yourself a lady, by letting her know you listen and can process thoughts through your Neanderthal head and turn them into something that will make her happy.GazaAli

Ding Ding Ding!

Fake flowers I might add.

[QUOTE="Allicrombie"]what if I dont want a guy? =PDeihjan