What attracts you more in women (or men, or whatever you are into)?

I like boobs lol.

But I think I'd fall in love way easier with her personality. I love nerdy girls. I also value humbleness a lot, and people who are down to earth.

An understanding and (at least somewhat) positive personality, some intelligence, and people who actively work on themselves and maintain themselves.

@luxuryheart I feel like I have to warn you that the type of person you're describing... usually doesn't get to that point without stepping on other people's backs... by not having an empathic/friendly personality or being able to ditch someone on a dime if it risks their career. It's a tall order to find someone like that who is somewhat trustworthy or who cares about maintaining a relationship as more than a controlled distraction from work. I'm not saying you shouldn't go for it, if you're that interested in the power game. It's just going to be tough to find someone like that.

But on the bright side, I think I'm asking for something even less likely.

Men with money. I refuse to date someone broke. I also like men who appreciate the arts, but don't participate in them. I'm very competitive and I'm a sore loser. I really don't want to compete with someone I'm dating or married too. I also need them to be quiet and calm. I hate people who constantly need to do something, and I shouldn't have to entertain a fucking adult. I don't like people who are obnoxious and loud. I need a marriage minded man who's honest and faithful. If a man is going to aggressively pursue me, he needs to have money and offer to take me to a nice place or buy me stuff. Nothing is more of a turn off than a confident man asking me out while he's in the passenger's side of his friend's car, or telling me to give me their number with all the arrogance in the world, and they pull out a flip phone.

I like a tall man who has a lean muscular build. I don't care about his skin color or hair color, he just needs to be well groomed, clean, smell nice, and have the physical attributes I listed before.

I like women who are somewhat more girly than me, but then I've always been a bit of a tomboy myself I guess. At the same time though, it's always refreshing to meet somebody who doesn't take themself or life too seriously.