This girl deosn't flat out reject me, she keeps me hanging

Long story short. I like this girl, blah blah.She knows i like her, heck everyone knows. I told her and everyone else that I do (without being clingy) but she still is giving me mixed signals. The thing is, im giving her a confidence boost by chasing after her, and she deosnt even respect me, she takes away my confidence. I domt know if shes teasing or just being flat out rude. she loves making fun of me, the way I talk, the way I dress, the car I drive etc, im easily teased. I really cant read her signals. When i do seomthing that clearly shows i like her sometimes she gets happy, plays with her hair, other times she shows a disgusted face and walks away. I think she likes the attention i give her but doesnt really like me as a person. Well, shes strong, beautiful and confident and im just another depressed ugly fck out there. she is above my level.

I dont know why i like this girl, shes different than I. Shes has an ego and loves to quietly boast. Please dont ask me to ask her out, the only thing I can do with her is make fun of each others we can barely have a normal conversation. Guys tell me we hate each other cuz we like each other, but meh i know she loves to make fun of my good nature. Everytime I wanna let her go out of my mind, she lures me back into her by acting cute or try to get me interested. But its a trap, she gets me interested then she ignores me. This girl is using my emotions to play me around, and shes doing it well cause ive fallen for her. Even if she rejects me, i dont think ill be able to let her go out of my head.

Any advice on what yo do guys, ill really appreciate somr expert advice.

Are you under the influence of something or using your phone?

@SaintLeonidas said:

That made my night. Dunno why.

my advice would be approach her pack and flirt with the ugliest girl there. (i'm assuming there will be a prettty girl pack...there always is) after that take the ugly girl out and never talk the other one again.

i bet you almost anything you will be far better off.

OK I'm sorry but by the looks of it she's not really interested...ask her out, you dont need to go all "h-hey w-would you like to go to the movies with me? i-its not like its a date! b-b-baka!" on her, if you say that your relationship has a lot of playful teases then just tell her one day like "hey im bored lets do something". if she's interested she'll accept, if she's not then she wont and you can safely move on.

I've been there, just dump her, you won't regret it.

FYI, treating someone badly is not a sign of affection. It is manipulation.

Sounds like she's in love with herself.

Here's a problem in your thinking. As a guy, you should set standards for what you want in a woman, and if she doesn't meet them, then she does not get to be with you. Write down your standards if you must. The fact that you allow a girl to treat you badly tells me that you don't really care what kind of female attention you get, just as long as you get it. Never treat this girl badly in anyway, though. Just walk away from the situation in a gentlemanly fashion. Go work on becoming a better man, on becoming a selfless man who respects and treats women special, but never allow yourself to be in a situation where you're treated like junk either. Believe me, having standards and sticking to them is far more satisfying than being in a relationship where you are breaking those standards, even if it means you have to be perpetually single. Get away from this girl in a peaceful manner.

be a masochist


Just slowly and quietly move away from her. She sounds like one of those 'egotistical' sluts. You'll be far better if you're not with her.

@CreasianDevaili: Haha I was in my bed using writing this on my phone.

ask her out or you will regret it for the rest of your life.

Avoid her for a while, if she's interested she'll call you back.

Your true love would be like your best friend, not a girl playing mind games with you.

Ask her out, the worst she can say is no then you know that she is not interested then move on.

It might be tie to move on! There's just not enough time to fool around like that. I understand you like her a lot. If you want to keep pursuing her, it's up to you. You might get hurt worse than you already are from the teasing. But it can't last forever untilthere is some kind of deal or commitment! That you wsant to be exclusive to her becausee you have these deep feelings.

Move on. You made your intentions known. She said no thanks. On top of that, she makes fun of you all the time in seems to revel in the fact that you dote over her despite her not giving you the time of day.

There's no positive in your scenario. Stop messing with her. Cut her off. She'll either recognize that she does like you actually and wants a relationship or you're on to bigger and better things. It's a win-win.

My suggestion is to ask her out (yes I did read your whole post), and if she says no then as mentioned above to cut her off. Don't get me wrong, cutting her off will suck for a while (possibly a long time), but doing so opens up the possibility of meeting some other cute chick that you can focus on and hopefully she will focus on you as well.

You need to give it some time , i mean just be relax and let things be , let heat goes by , at the same time you can be in a position where you're not desperate and if she really likes you she would do sth about it ..you're not madly in love with her or sth so just control the situation and try to not think about her , it's not like " true love " after all u can find somebody else ....and always there is the choice of "asking out" , straight and simple!

You said yourself that it's a trap. Do you want to be the helpless animal that gets caught in the hunters trap? Do you want to keep being a chump? You like her, but that just goes to show how far her manipulation has gotten into you, she has gotten to your heart. Like a fish that keeps getting caught and thrown back into the pond. When will you realize that under that tasty worm is a nasty fishing hook, just waiting too hook you back up just to get thrown back in while all of the fishermen point and laugh at how the fish never learns.

Not trying to be mean, I really want to help which is why I tried to lay it out like this.

Just remember that the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different outcome.

Long days and pleasant nights. Good luck.

sounds like a **** who's trying to force you into the friendzone by degrading

Yo dude I am having the exact same problem right now? Can u send me a private messages so we can talk please because I need help

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