Someone who won't accept your apology-what to do?

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#1 the_plan_man
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What do you do if someone doesn't accept your apology? I created a Facebook page for a local business we opened for our business club at a college, then one of my teammates messaged me to take it down as they had already another official one, but then I sincerely apologized about making and managing the page for two months, and she didn't accept the apology and unfriended me. The next meeting is Monday. What is your advice?

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#2  Edited By deactivated-598fc45371265
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You have to learn to not let bitches bother you. "shrugs"

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#3 coolbeans90
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@the_plan_man said:

What do you do if someone doesn't accept your apology? I created a Facebook page for a local business we opened for our business club at a college, then one of my teammates messaged me to take it down as they had already another official one, but then I sincerely apologized about making and managing the page for two months, and she didn't accept the apology and unfriended me. The next meeting is Monday. What is your advice?

sounds like the guy is a fvcktard, so you should ignore him

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#4 4myAmuzumament
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you went with the wrong plan, man.

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#5 hippiesanta
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@Storm_Marine said:

You have to learn to not let bitches bother you. "shrugs"

lol ..... girls love to make friend request ....... and when they feel they don't need you... they just unfriend without notice ........

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#6 Masculus
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Tell this person to go **** itself then.

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#7  Edited By lamprey263
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learn how to apologize

then again, sometime there's no talking with a bitch

anyhow, if your site is better then tell that bitch what's what

and even if there's an official site, lots of businesses have both their business website and a Facebook page... sheesh, business school

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#8 johnd13
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You already apologized. If she's so butthurt that won't accept your apology then there's nothing you can do about. Stop caring.

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#9 deactivated-5c03000d4b1b4
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Hate her back

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#10 MrGeezer
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@johnd13 said:

You already apologized. If she's so butthurt that won't accept your apology then there's nothing you can do about. Stop caring.

True, but that only applies if it's a genuine apology. Sometimes people make a half-assed "apology" that actually just further insults the person. Like, "I'm SO sorry that you can't take a joke, let me apologize for having a sense of humor."

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#11  Edited By wis3boi
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life is better when you stop caring

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#12  Edited By MrGeezer
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@wis3boi said:

life is better when you stop caring

No it isn't. Life gets a whole lot worse.

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#13  Edited By deactivated-6127ced9bcba0
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You'll live.

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#14 GazaAli
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Dude you really need to take a deep breath and a step back. You're only going to exacerbate the situation by keeping to try and fix it. Let go of it, things have a way of working themselves out, specially once you're in a stage where you've already done everything in your power to fix them.

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#15 the_plan_man
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@GazaAli said:

Dude you really need to take a deep breath and a step back. You're only going to exacerbate the situation by keeping to try and fix it. Let go of it, things have a way of working themselves out, specially once you're in a stage where you've already done everything in your power to fix them.

Should I attend the next meeting, or say something to her then? What should I do?

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#16 GazaAli
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@the_plan_man said:

@GazaAli said:

Dude you really need to take a deep breath and a step back. You're only going to exacerbate the situation by keeping to try and fix it. Let go of it, things have a way of working themselves out, specially once you're in a stage where you've already done everything in your power to fix them.

Should I attend the next meeting, or say something to her then? What should I do?

What you need to do is to neutralize the whole situation by simply being nonreactive for a while. Go to the meeting and if you have something worthwhile to say BUSINESS related say it, otherwise shut up and listen. Give yourself and them alike some time to process the whole thing. As time passes they'll loosen up and become more willing to accept an apology or forget about the whole thing even. Stop obsessing about it, don't push them to the edge.

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#17 the_plan_man
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@GazaAli: What do I do if she or others brings it up?

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#18 GazaAli
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@the_plan_man said:

@GazaAli: What do I do if she or others brings it up?

You say you're sorry and that it was a wrong thing to do. You say it sincerely and if they push the envelope tell them to **** off one way or another.

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#19  Edited By the_plan_man
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@GazaAli: Good advice, thanks. Do I try to explain myself againif they pressure me about it, or should saying sorry suffice?

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#20 GazaAli
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@the_plan_man said:

@GazaAli: Good advice, thanks. Do I try to explain myself againif they pressure me about it, or should saying sorry suffice?

Whatever the situation calls for. Generally speaking, don't let them antagonize you too much. We all make mistakes and unless you cost them some serious damage they don't have a right to beat you up for a relatively trivial mistake.

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#21 the_plan_man
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@GazaAli: Thanks for all this. I've been wondering...is going to the meeting a good idea if some of my teammates will be mad at me?

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#22 GazaAli
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@the_plan_man said:

@GazaAli: Thanks for all this. I've been wondering...is going to the meeting a good idea if some of my teammates will be mad at me?

If its something you have to do for your own good then yes absolutely. You can't allow them to marginalize you and stand in the way just because you made a mistake.

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#23 Master_Live
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This is like the third thread you make about this topic, does this lady has any legitimate power to kick you out out this business club?

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#25 Cynical_Buzzard
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Drop it and just forget about it, it does you no good to dwell on it.

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#26 Mercenary848
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Bro you have been worried and depreesed about this for days, its time to let it go

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#27  Edited By LexLas
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Plant a virus and take down her whole site. Then reopen yours ! Then unfriend her when she tries to friend you again. Thats the way of Neo Matrix ! Lol ..

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#29  Edited By BossPerson
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@coolbeans90 said:

@the_plan_man said:

What do you do if someone doesn't accept your apology? I created a Facebook page for a local business we opened for our business club at a college, then one of my teammates messaged me to take it down as they had already another official one, but then I sincerely apologized about making and managing the page for two months, and she didn't accept the apology and unfriended me. The next meeting is Monday. What is your advice?

sounds like the guy is a fvcktard, so you should ignore him

Seriously, why would you even apologize OP. You deserve to shit on

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#30 GamerForca
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@the_plan_man said:

@GazaAli: Thanks for all this. I've been wondering...is going to the meeting a good idea if some of my teammates will be mad at me?

lol what a beta...

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#31  Edited By the_plan_man
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@Master_Live said:

This is like the third thread you make about this topic, does this lady has any legitimate power to kick you out out this business club?

She is one of three students in charge...

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#32 the_plan_man
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@GazaAli said:

@the_plan_man said:

@GazaAli: Thanks for all this. I've been wondering...is going to the meeting a good idea if some of my teammates will be mad at me?

If its something you have to do for your own good then yes absolutely. You can't allow them to marginalize you and stand in the way just because you made a mistake.

What would the idea of me not going do to me?

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#33  Edited By THE_DRUGGIE
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Put a cigarette out on her arm.

DISCLAIMER: Don't put a cigarette out on her arm.

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#34 plageus900
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I don't apologize to women. I would advise that you follow suit.

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@Masculus said:

Tell this person to go **** itself then.

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#36  Edited By Trail_Mix
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Were you genuinely sincere when you apologized?

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#37 ExtremeBanana
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@the_plan_man said:

What do you do if someone doesn't accept your apology? I created a Facebook page for a local business we opened for our business club at a college, then one of my teammates messaged me to take it down as they had already another official one, but then I sincerely apologized about making and managing the page for two months, and she didn't accept the apology and unfriended me. The next meeting is Monday. What is your advice?

Smack her.

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Buy'em Pizza. Who doesn't love Pizza.