My girlfriend wants me to pull out. What should I do?

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#1 Mister_Mackey
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I signed up to join the army today, but my girlfriend doesn't want me to go and asked me to pull out.

I don't want to get in trouble. I'm not sure what to do now.

Any advice?

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#2 Hishiko
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why are you asking us? go talk to your recruiter.

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#3 kittensRjerks
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You could always just make your own decisions. Just a though?

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#4 Omni-Slash
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sigh...misleading topic titles suck..so had a great one-liner too.. :(
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#5 gamer-adam1
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you joined the army without talking about it with your gf. hmmm you seem fit for the army...

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#6 Mega-Mustaine
Member since 2010 • 2130 Posts

This thread is about something completely different than what I had in mind.

Make your own decisions?

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#7 Jackc8
Member since 2007 • 8515 Posts

Do you want advice on the Army thing, or the pulling out thing?

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#8 cybrcatter
Member since 2003 • 16210 Posts

JPL alts.

God help us all.

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#9 masiisam
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sigh...misleading topic titles suck..so had a great one-liner too.. :(Omni-Slash

Yea...in the same lines of thinking..

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#10 biggest_loser
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If you don't withdraw, you can expect two things: a) a 'dear- John' letter and b) a Coldplay montage song over the top of it.
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#12 EmpCom
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Well you are perfect for the srmy as people who cant think for themselves is what they are looking for for
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#13 Omni-Slash
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[QUOTE="Omni-Slash"]sigh...misleading topic titles suck..so had a great one-liner too.. :(MichBelle
I want to hear it anyway!

thanks...but I'm jsut not in the mood....the moment was ruined....sigh...
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#14 zeroking420_666
Member since 2004 • 1009 Posts

sign up for the +20 years of service and that would really get your GF heated lol

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#15 DJ_Lae
Member since 2002 • 42748 Posts

Pulling out won't work - the damage is already done.

Go for the gusto and ride it to the end. Don't sacrifice your masculinity.

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#16 194197844077667059316682358889
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JPL alts.

God help us all.

cybrcatter
Apparently some cannot adapt to the new TOU :(
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#17 VaguelyTagged
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so you just made up that story just to use that title? really?

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#18 deactivated-5e836a855beb2
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this thread blows
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#19 leviathan91
Member since 2007 • 7763 Posts
Only wimps pull out. You don't want to disappoint "your" army, do you?
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#20 194197844077667059316682358889
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this thread blowsJandurin
No, it sucks. "Blow" is just an expression.
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#21 Fightingfan
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She's just your girlfriend, not like she's your wife.
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#22 deactivated-6127ced9bcba0
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If you already went to MEPS and signed your contract, you can't get out of it.

Also, why would you let a girlfriend make a career decision for you? Man up.

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#23 Fightingfan
Member since 2010 • 38011 Posts

If you already went to MEPS and signed your contract, you can't get out of it.

Also, why would you let a girlfriend make a career decision for you? Man up.

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You can always go to Canada.
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#24 deactivated-6127ced9bcba0
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You can always go to Canada.Fightingfan

They EXTRADITE*.

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#25 soulless4now
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Oh this is about the army...not lurk worthy at all.

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#26 ghoklebutter
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*sigh* =|
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#27 Fightingfan
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[QUOTE="Fightingfan"]You can always go to Canada.airshocker

They extradict.

Canada does now? Hmm, Mexico I guess, though they could extradite, I doubt it, everyone there is a drug cartel in the town I'm from.

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#28 Allicrombie
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Oh this is about the army...not lurk worthy at all.

soulless4now
i concur. =(
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#29 Zaibach
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hahaha you son of a B***

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#30 deactivated-5e836a855beb2
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EXTRADITE :x
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#31 deactivated-6127ced9bcba0
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EXTRADITE :xJandurin

Bah, Go away, we didn't miss you!

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#32 194197844077667059316682358889
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[QUOTE="Jandurin"]EXTRADITE :x

I was gonna say that too, but I was too sad to do so.
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#33 deactivated-5e836a855beb2
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[QUOTE="Jandurin"]EXTRADITE :xairshocker

Bah, Go away, we didn't miss you!

don't contradict me
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#34 deactivated-6127ced9bcba0
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don't contradict meJandurin

:lol:

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#35 194197844077667059316682358889
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[QUOTE="airshocker"]

[QUOTE="Jandurin"]EXTRADITE :xJandurin

Bah, Go away, we didn't miss you!

don't contradict me

What if he contradites you?
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#36 CoolSkAGuy
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Just stay in man and see what happens 9 months later ;)
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#37 Bloodseeker23
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Hahaha. Then pull out dammit :O
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#38 LustForSoul
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Extremely misleading title. Anyway, didn't you discuss beforehand? What do you want?
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#39 fueled-system
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It is your life at the end of the day it is YOUR CHOICE but I can understand her position
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#40 CBR600-RR
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She asked me to, now she's carrying my child.

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#41 British_Azimio
Member since 2007 • 2459 Posts

Heh, called it. There should be some new material around here. You can always tell threads with titles like these are never about your first thought. I'm waiting for the day when someone posts a thread with a title along the same lines and actually posts what you think they will not.

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#42 Shottayouth13-
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You stay in there and finish like a man.
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#43 Sunfyre7896
Member since 2011 • 1644 Posts

I signed up to join the army today, but my girlfriend doesn't want me to go and asked me to pull out.

I don't want to get in trouble. I'm not sure what to do now.

Any advice?

Mister_Mackey
This is definitely not what I expected you to say when I read the title. Blame me for being a man. If you chose to join, then it's your decision, not hers. She just doesn't want you to get hurt or killed, but it's really up to you. You can't let what a woman says dictate where you are heading in life. If she's a good girlfriend then she'll understand. Really this is a favor to you. If she's worth it, she'll stick around. If not, then she'll leave and you can focus on finding the right one when you return.
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#44 MgamerBD
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TC ruined the thread. f*ck you TC...I was so looking forward to this thread too :(
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#45 ScottMescudi
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Misleading title TC. Very misleading :(

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#46 Shadowchronicle
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That was really misleading. :lol:
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#47 themajormayor
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lol c wat u did there.

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#48 r4v1rsm
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lol, the title is very misleading

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#49 Ghost_702
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If you truly loved her then you would've talked about it with her first, so who cares what she thinks? You'll be broken up soon enough as it is. Tough love.
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#50 NiKva
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Get her pregnant.