If there was that person who was The One for you...

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#1 hydralisk86
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Would you marry him or her?

For me, maybe not. This isn't rocket science, but marriage brings with it more responsibilities, and i dunno if it is worth it for that.

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#2 CoolSkAGuy
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I just want some lovin.
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#3 hydralisk86
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I just want some lovin.CoolSkAGuy
xD Not meaning to be mean, but you sound very lonely...
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#4 Philokalia
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What do you mean one for you? As in destined?

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#5 hydralisk86
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What do you mean one for you? As in destined?

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Well, maybe that, but more along the lines of is your perfect match, in terms of emotionally, personality.
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#6 metroidprime55
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Not really, there was this one girl who I thought was really attractive and stuff but she was a bit of a b!tch towards me .
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#7 KiIIyou
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I'm not ascared of responsibilities. :3
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#8 Philokalia
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[QUOTE="Philokalia"]

What do you mean one for you? As in destined?

hydralisk86

Well, maybe that, but more along the lines of is your perfect match, in terms of emotionally, personality.

Then yes without a doubt.

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#9 hydralisk86
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Not really, there was this one girl who I thought was really attractive and stuff but she was a bit of a b!tch towards me . metroidprime55
Yes, but what if there was that girl who was pretty, nice, loving towards you, and was your perfect match? You wouldn't be getting along 100%, but you get what i mean...
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#10 metroidprime55
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[QUOTE="metroidprime55"]Not really, there was this one girl who I thought was really attractive and stuff but she was a bit of a b!tch towards me . hydralisk86
Yes, but what if there was that girl who was pretty, nice, loving towards you, and was your perfect match? You wouldn't be getting along 100%, but you get what i mean...

There aren't any girls that are loving to me so no.
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#11 cd_rom
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If that were the case, would marriage be really necessary? (Oh hell yeah I went there.)
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#12 hydralisk86
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If that were the case, would marriage be really necessary? (Oh hell yeah I went there.)cd_rom
Oh no...
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#13 MgamerBD
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I haven't slept around enough yet and by slept around enough. I mean with an Asian chick.
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#14 deactivated-59913425220eb
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Oh yes. For me it would be God who shows me my second half if you wanna call her that, and that would be my 2nd greatest gift in my life. Can't wait till I find that woman that is my best friend and lover.
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#15 3eyedrazorback
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Well, I believe I've found her, and I'm marrying her in (laugh all you want :lol: ) 69 days.
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#16 iHarlequin
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I don't think I'd ever know if said person was actually the one for me :|. But if I ever got into a serious relationship with someone I liked and cared for, eventually, who knows?

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#17 cd_rom
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I'm marrying her in (laugh all you want :lol: ) 69 days.3eyedrazorback
Why would I?
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#18 3eyedrazorback
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[QUOTE="3eyedrazorback"]I'm marrying her in (laugh all you want :lol: ) 69 days.cd_rom
Why would I?

At the 69 part. No...? Nothing..?
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#20 cd_rom
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[QUOTE="cd_rom"][QUOTE="3eyedrazorback"]I'm marrying her in (laugh all you want :lol: ) 69 days.3eyedrazorback
Why would I?

At the 69 part. No...? Nothing..?

No. Nothing.
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#21 iHarlequin
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[QUOTE="3eyedrazorback"]I'm marrying her in (laugh all you want :lol: ) 69 days.cd_rom
Why would I?

He's getting married. That's laugh-worthy, in a sad, nervous manner.

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#22 3eyedrazorback
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[QUOTE="cd_rom"][QUOTE="3eyedrazorback"] At the 69 part. No...? Nothing..?

No. Nothing.

*kicks dirt* shucks...
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#23 ZumaJones07
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only if she's okay with polygamy
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#24 LordsLoss
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I believe I am with the one right now. Yep, marry her I will!
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#25 Salacon
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only if she's okay with polygamyZumaJones07
Well if she's your "The One," then theoretically, she certainly would be, correct?

Anyway, I fail to see the challenge to this question... I was expecting to have to deal with a catch, but why wouldn't I want to be with my so called perfect girl? I don't know if I want to get married, but I wouldn't argue that fervently against it or anything, either. I'd absolutely want to be with her, though, of course, and marriage would be an easy thing to concede to for me. I suppose having to get married is a big thing for some, though, so I guess I get where the challenge of the question comes from.

Though in my own opinion, this is kind of a paradoxical situation to me. I mean, your "The One" would be someone that's basically perfect for you, yes? So he/she would have the same feelings toward marriage as you, whatever they may be. It depends on how you define a person defined as your "The One," though, I suppose.

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#26 67gt500
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The very notion that just one 'someone' out there is 'The One' is absolutely ridiculous...
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#27 nightshade869
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At this point in my life I would start to date them, but even that for me right now would be a big commitment. I in no way could handle marriage with all I have going on right now and really have no interest in dating anyone anytime soon. I am young, in grad school, work, and training for a 70.3 this July and a potential 140.6 June 2013. I am in no rush to get married and I have a lot of personal goals I want to achieve before I commit to that. Very interesting question though!!
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#28 RandomWinner
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Yep, absolutely. But I don't really understand the question. Are you asking people who don't really want to get married if they would if they found the perfect person or if there would be someone else that isn't "the one" that would be better to marry? Either way, I say yes.

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#30 Wilfred_Owen
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I'm not ascared of responsibilities. :3KiIIyou
What if they needed a sandwich? Right now?
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#31 Gaming-Planet
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Not right away. It would take years for me to decide.

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#32 FMAB_GTO
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I always say I'll marry him I love him etc....but that's just talk. But honestly,when I work and start getting some money,I'd rather save for video games and a Gigantic TV than waste my money on troubling kids.
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#33 markop2003
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If she wanted to then yes.
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#34 markop2003
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[QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"]I always say I'll marry him I love him etc....but that's just talk. But honestly,when I work and start getting some money,I'd rather save for video games and a Gigantic TV than waste my money on troubling kids.

Kids and marriage are not the same thing...
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#35 FMAB_GTO
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[QUOTE="markop2003"][QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"]I always say I'll marry him I love him etc....but that's just talk. But honestly,when I work and start getting some money,I'd rather save for video games and a Gigantic TV than waste my money on troubling kids.

Kids and marriage are not the same thing...

Oh right different cultures I forgot,well I wont have any kids if I'm not married,so hence my point. Unless its marriage without having kids that is.
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#36 hippiesanta
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this is the one for me ...... same s3x marriage lol ...
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#37 ghoklebutter
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Marriage means nothing to me. I'd only do it for cultural reasons. I can still raise a family without marrying my partner.
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#38 invisibletearsx
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I'd probably have to think about it.

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#39 KiIIyou
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[QUOTE="KiIIyou"]I'm not ascared of responsibilities. :3Wilfred_Owen
What if they needed a sandwich? Right now?

Fridge will be stuffed with nothing but sanderchies. always.
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#40 Seraphy-
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this is a... um, silly question if they really were "The One" then I'd marry her, yes would be kind of dumb not to
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#41 en-z-io
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Sure, why not? If you wouldn't be willing to marry 'the one', then you wouldn't be willing to marry anyone. And hey, with marriage you get tax breaks, lol.
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#42 XilePrincess
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Sure, why not? I don't view marriage as a trap (unless they happen to be a trap...) so there's no reason not to, if you're going to be living together, having kids, sharing finances etc. On the same note though, there is no reason to. I would have the same responsibilities whether or not I have a paper bit saying I do.
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#43 Spitfirer
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Maybe, but I don't see the necessity.

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#44 ghoklebutter
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Maybe, but I don't see the necessity.

Spitfirer
But a piece of paper makes such a huge difference!
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#45 PiscesChick93
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Yes I would.
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#46 Artekus
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Heh, I thought I'd found the "One" a couple of years ago but we ended up breaking up, no one since has made me feel like she did. Assuming there is such a thing, yeah I'd marry her, I'd always planned to get married one day, being a traditional kinda guy.

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#47 almasdeathchild
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no i dont have to get married we can be fine and dandy just being called a couple for the rest of our lives

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#48 Charazani
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Marriage is an option I am willing to consider, yes.
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#49 deactivated-5806da829a153
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The very notion that just one 'someone' out there is 'The One' is absolutely ridiculous...67gt500

I agree. Socially enforced monogamy never made so much sense to me.

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#50 Apocalypse324
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Heh, I thought I'd found the "One" a couple of years ago but we ended up breaking up, no one since has made me feel like she did. Assuming there is such a thing, yeah I'd marry her, I'd always planned to get married one day, being a traditional kinda guy.

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I know exactly how you feel buddy