If one believes that there is no point to life...

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#1 ProudLarry
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...and that even self-determination can bring no purpose or not enough purpose, is suicide a legitimate option? Its certainly not the only option when one decides what they want to do with their life, but is it any less of a rightful choice?

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#2 Pirate700
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If one wants to end their life then let them. The point to life though is to enjoy the short amount of it you have.

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#3 ghoklebutter
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Suicide is totally useless and selfish. It certainly doesn't doesn't help anyone around you, either.

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#4 chessmaster1989
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No, I don't think suicide should ever be the answer... if you're having problems, try to work through them...
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#5 ProudLarry
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Suicide is totally useless and selfish. It certainly doesn't doesn't help anyone around you, either.

ghoklebutter
Is it any less selfish for "the people around" them to concern themselves with what one does with their life?
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#6 DrakonMacar
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When you have no other options it is time to be An Hero.. Suicide is a broad term in some contexts so I'm leaning towards the braodest extent of the term when I say the prior.

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#7 x8VXU6
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well if they want to, I wouldnt do it but yea

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#8 ghoklebutter
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[QUOTE="ghoklebutter"]

Suicide is totally useless and selfish. It certainly doesn't doesn't help anyone around you, either.

ProudLarry
Is it any less selfish for "the people around" them to concern themselves with what one does with their life?

It may be good for the one who commits suicide, but it certainly can have a lasting impact on loved ones.
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#9 LoG-Sacrament
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2 different questions. of course suicide is a legitmate option. most people have the power to kill themselves. but is it right? thats a different question. i could imagine a very select few people with nothing and nobody to live for but pain. however, i think that the majority of people that put themselves into that category are exagerrating and have it much better than they would like to believe. most problems are temporary or adaptable. suicide is final.
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#10 JadeNic
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Suicide is not an answer to a problem. If anything it just adds to the problem. When I was younger, I spent a few months on suicide watch. It wasn't until a good friend of mine killed himself that I realized how selfish the act was. He left his friends and family to pick up all of the pieces he left behind, only bringing more hardship and pain into the world. After that I decided to get my own act together and do what I could to take some of that pain away.

I decided to go to college, and got involved with a lot of volunteer organizations. I had the opportunity to travel to Guatemala, where we built houses, and in exchange the people getting the houses would volunteer 100 hours at the local orphanage. When we weren't building the houses, we were spending time in the orphanage. It is experiences like this that made me realize how good I had it, and I never even knew it. I often wish I could go back in time with what I know now.

My point is, if you feel there is no point to life, make a point. If you think this world isn't worth living in, do whatever the hell you can to make it livable. You've literally got nothing to lose if you are contemplating suicide. Don't settle for less. When you leave this world, leave it behind changed for the better because you were here. Sure, life sucks. So why don't you try and make it a little less sucky?

Is suicide an option? Yes. But is it a good, smart, or even reasonable one? No.

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Where's Albert Camus when you need him?
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#12 ariz3260
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My question would be: why?

The only way I can ever see myself doing it is if I have a terminal illness that is incurable and is taking up a fortune just to prolong my dying life, then I would ever consider committing suicide as a way to release everyone from the ongoing pain, myself included.

Other than that, I have yet to see a good reason for it.

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Suicide really doesn't help you on anyone else around you......unless it's you Wife/Husband and they want to collect insurance and inheritance money, either way, it's nonsense no matter what your reasons are to do it........
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#14 -Fromage-
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The point to life is to live.
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#15 Im_single
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[QUOTE="ghoklebutter"]

Suicide is totally useless and selfish. It certainly doesn't doesn't help anyone around you, either.

ProudLarry
Is it any less selfish for "the people around" them to concern themselves with what one does with their life?

It's not selfish to care and love someone, and to miss them and be devastated by their actions, to kill yourself and inflict that kind of pain onto those who care and love you is selfish.
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#16 get-ka12
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Yeah, it's a free country.
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#17 St_JimmyX
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Suicide is totally useless and selfish. It certainly doesn't doesn't help anyone around you, either.

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Ignorace is bliss.

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Suicide really doesn't help you on anyone else around you......unless it's you Wife/Husband and they want to collect insurance and inheritance money, either way, it's nonsense no matter what your reasons are to do it........tocool340
How about watching you're family die and being crippled for life? or being trapped in a desert with no food and water (the only way out being suicide)?
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#20 Saturos3091
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If one wants to end their life then let them. The point to life though is to enjoy the short amount of it you have.

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This post is 100% correct. The end.
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#21 livinitup01
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Suicide is selfish are irresponsible. You'll be hurting a lot more people dead than alive. Think of all the people you'll never meet or the lessons you'll never learn. Don't give up, life gets better. :)
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#22 MJoanne
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Suicide is not the answer but I can see why many consider it an option,

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#24 Johnny_Rock
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Yeah, it's a free country.get-ka12

What country are you talking about? You sound like an American. Life is absolute and not without consequences.

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#25 Pyro767
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If one doesn't enjoy their life, they need to prioritize. If they want to kill themselves over it, they need help.
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#26 get-ka12
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[QUOTE="get-ka12"]Yeah, it's a free country.Johnny_Rock

What country are you talking about? You sound like an American. Life is absolute and not without consequences.

Yeah, I sound like an American because I value freedom and free choice? I'm not socialist. I appreciate the freedom I have to be free and not be chained to a giant wheel just because the wheel wants to churn in a certain direction.

As an American, I have the liberty to forge my own destiny, not eat the one the Fed puts directly into my face.

Freedom is SUCH a bad thing. :roll:

By the way, yeah, if someone does something, there are consequences, and it is up to the person to decide which consequences would be more desirable to have given a choice between various options.

Besides, I was just being funny when I said "yeah, it's a free country." The response was more meant to be dopey than to be taken seriously. I don't know, I don't think there's an absolute "do what you want" philosophy involved and I don't think there's the absolute "don't do it" philosophy involved either. It really depends. Neither "complete free choice" nor "complete control" should be embraced despite reason, logic, and good sense.

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#27 Johnny_Rock
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[QUOTE="Johnny_Rock"]

[QUOTE="get-ka12"]Yeah, it's a free country.get-ka12

What country are you talking about? You sound like an American. Life is absolute and not without consequences.

Yeah, I sound like an American because I value freedom and free choice? I'm not socialist. I appreciate the freedom I have to be free and not be chained to a giant wheel just because the wheel wants to churn in a certain direction.

As an American, I have the liberty to forge my own destiny, not eat the one the Fed puts directly into my face.

Freedom is SUCH a bad thing. :roll:

By the way, yeah, if someone does something, there are consequences, and it is up to the person to decide which consequences would be more desirable to have given a choice between various options.

Besides, I was just being funny when I said "yeah, it's a free country." The response was more meant to be dopey than to be taken seriously. I don't know, I don't think there's an absolute "do what you want" philosophy involved and I don't think there's the absolute "don't do it" philosophy involved either. It really depends. Neither "complete free choice" nor "complete control" should be embraced despite reason, logic, and good sense.

Freedom, to such a degree is a bad choice. Allowing someone to determine their own demise is ludicrous, IMHO. Freedom in America (of which I live) can only be described as precarious. Just ask the girl in Oakland California that was gang raped for two and a half hours, outside a school dance, what she thinks of our "freedom".

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#28 Herrick
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If one believes that there is no point to life and that even self-determination can bring no purpose or not enough purpose, is suicide a legitimate option?ProudLarry

Yes.

Its certainly not the only option when one decides what they want to do with their life, but is it any less of a rightful choice?

ProudLarry

No.

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#29 awsss
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Even if you believe there is not point of life, you can stilll strive for happiness, which makes our existence enjoyable. Suicide is the "easy way out", if you will, that is for cowards and those with major mental disorders.

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#30 CUDCUD
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If you dont want to live then you shouldnt live its your choice.

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#31 get-ka12
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[QUOTE="get-ka12"]

[QUOTE="Johnny_Rock"]

What country are you talking about? You sound like an American. Life is absolute and not without consequences.

Johnny_Rock

Yeah, I sound like an American because I value freedom and free choice? I'm not socialist. I appreciate the freedom I have to be free and not be chained to a giant wheel just because the wheel wants to churn in a certain direction.

As an American, I have the liberty to forge my own destiny, not eat the one the Fed puts directly into my face.

Freedom is SUCH a bad thing. :roll:

By the way, yeah, if someone does something, there are consequences, and it is up to the person to decide which consequences would be more desirable to have given a choice between various options.

Besides, I was just being funny when I said "yeah, it's a free country." The response was more meant to be dopey than to be taken seriously. I don't know, I don't think there's an absolute "do what you want" philosophy involved and I don't think there's the absolute "don't do it" philosophy involved either. It really depends. Neither "complete free choice" nor "complete control" should be embraced despite reason, logic, and good sense.

Freedom, to such a degree is a bad choice. Allowing someone to determine their own demise is ludicrous, IMHO. Freedom in America (of which I live) can only be described as precarious. Just ask the girl in Oakland California that was gang raped for two and a half hours, outside a school dance, what she thinks of our "freedom".

You find a worse case scenario in which freedom is abused. There are limits to everything. You have to find the right balance so that one isn't completely "free" and one isn't completely "chained up."

"Freedom" isn't about "doing whatever you want," it is about being able to make free choices based on various things.

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[QUOTE="tocool340"]Suicide really doesn't help you on anyone else around you......unless it's you Wife/Husband and they want to collect insurance and inheritance money, either way, it's nonsense no matter what your reasons are to do it........St_JimmyX
How about watching you're family die and being crippled for life? or being trapped in a desert with no food and water (the only way out being suicide)?

Hmmm....maybe I should have said there may be some exceptions as I was thinking of something along those lines.....
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#33 deactivated-6016f2513d412
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I think that if one wants to end one's own life, then one should have the option. I'm not condoning suicide or saying that it's a great option, but I don't believe in telling people that they can't do what they want with their own lives. I'm not religious, so I don't see suicide as a sin. I also don't see it as something that should be illegal, as it's YOUR life. Yeah, it may be selfish and all of that, but that's not the point. The point is that it's YOUR life and YOUR life only, though you may choose to live FOR other people if you want, but it's still your life. If someone doesn't see the point in living anymore, then they may choose to commit suicide. I'm not saying that it's good or bad, but it's an option, and I see it as fairly legitimate. I don't see the point in continuing to live if you don't want to. I guess you should consider the people in your life, but honestly, if you absolutely can't stand living anymore, then it's almost selfish of everyone else for wanting to keep you around. It's a really touchy subject though. I almost sound like I'm all pro-suicide, but I'm not. Suicide is a horrible thing that shouldn't be taken lightly, and it never is when a person decides to commit suicide. It's always a big decision, whether it's well planned out in advance or whether it's a quick decision as a response to an event or series of events.
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#35 jimmyjammer69
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Life doesn't need somebody else's dictated meanings to be fulfilling. If you don't feel a failure for not living up to impossible standards, you're probably going to be less stressed and less miserable.

Re. religion: If you imagine that a loss of faith is the loss of a real eternal life and loss of God, then accepting the alternative to religious belief would be seriously depressing, but if you treat it as a realisation of how valuable life really is and an awakening from life-draining delusions, there is no way that suicide would be your first thought.

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#36 chopperdave447
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no, because it's a waste of life. if you had not meaning left in your life, why wouldn't you just spend the rest of your life endangering it for the good of other people? rather than committing a useless suicide, join the army and make your death mean something, if you're that set on it.
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#37 markcaniga
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No.

Life is full of surprises.. You'll never know whats going to happen tomorrow..

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I suppose if you TRULY believe that there is nothing for you to do in life and that you can absolutely find no satisfaction in any SINGLE thing that this universe has to offer, then suicide could be a choice. However, I'm with the train of thought that I know I'm going to die eventually and to enjoy life while I can, for I don't know what happens after death, and I can definitely wait to find out, for it will happen eventually.
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#39 chrisrooR
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You make your own reasons to continue living.
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#40 theone86
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Protestants commit suicide at a higher rate than any other group. Suicide doesn't necessarily rely on your belief system, it's just a matter of if you think you can go on living or not.

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#41 kingdre
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I don't believe suicide is ever the answer.