I Really Miss My Ex-Girlfriend and want to Get Back Together With Her.

okay well heres the whole story

i was going out with this girl for a short period of time, but she broke up with me because she said we didnt have anything in common, but i thought we had alot in common, and after that i was honestly heartbroken :(

i later found out from my best friend that she broke up with my because she made out with another guy, i confronted her about this and she admitted it but said he made the first move and when they kissed she felt guilty and thats why she broke up with me, my friend said that was total BS so we met up at a party talked about it, and i was still fuming at her, about an hour later she made out with ANOTHER guy in my friends house he found out and now hes pissed at her too

I didnt feel like talking to her after that incident but later called her and asked her if we could work on our friendship, and then later go out again when we have a stronger connection, she said she would "Really like that" so i thought we were all good

Then 2 of my friends confronted me and told me that she was just trying to be nice, and didn't mean that at all.

Again i was devestated :(

But i dont know if she meant in when she said she was just trying to be nice, because when we walk through the halls at school we always get caught making eye contact then looking away really fast, and in P.E i can see her looking at me but i pretend im looking in another direction

Even through everything she did to me, i still want to get back together with her, its as if no one else is perfect for me like she was, or that i love her more than anyone else i went out with

I'm really depressed too, i get mad at my friends easily, i dont talk during class, i sometimes think of suicide, and i dont really like talking to anyone. My Science Teacher even asked me to come to his room after class and talk because he was worried about me and havent been acting like my normal self like last year.

Please Help you guys.

She's a hoe, there's 2 things you can do:

1) Forget about her.

2) Hit it.

Why would you want to be with a girl whos like that...? :|

Why would you want to be with a girl whos like that...? :|

MrLions

I really dont know, i just like her alot. its hard to explain

[QUOTE="MrLions"]

Why would you want to be with a girl whos like that...? :|

SaintsRowSam

I really dont know, i just like her alot. its hard to explain

Do you want an actual relationship with her?

Find another girl, because it'll never work with your ex ever again. You're just wasting your time trying to get back with her.Pittfan666

Wasting time crying,thinking,and a whole bunch of other things. *sigh*

She's a hoe, there's 2 things you can do:

1) Forget about her.

2) Hit it.

crazy-player

yea or just use her for sex sicne that seem like thats all she wants and it seems like a good deal ;) lol

[QUOTE="SaintsRowSam"][QUOTE="MrLions"]

Why would you want to be with a girl whos like that...? :|

MrLions

I really dont know, i just like her alot. its hard to explain

Do you want an actual relationship with her?

I do. :(

your wasting your time. She seems promiscuous and if shes cheated once she WILL do it again and your story just proves it because shes done it with 2 people. If she felt really guilty the first time it wouldn't have happened again.... I say again move on if not your depression will get worst and worst and NOTHING will happen. Find a new girl and this one wont mean **** to you anymore.bigblunt537

with the second guy, we were broken up by then, so technically she has a right to do as she pleases

[QUOTE="MrLions"][QUOTE="SaintsRowSam"][QUOTE="MrLions"]

Why would you want to be with a girl whos like that...? :|

SaintsRowSam

I really dont know, i just like her alot. its hard to explain

Do you want an actual relationship with her?

I do. :(

Is she hot?

[QUOTE="bigblunt537"]your wasting your time. She seems promiscuous and if shes cheated once she WILL do it again and your story just proves it because shes done it with 2 people. If she felt really guilty the first time it wouldn't have happened again.... I say again move on if not your depression will get worst and worst and NOTHING will happen. Find a new girl and this one wont mean **** to you anymore.SaintsRowSam

with the second guy, we were broken up by then, so technically she has a right to do as she pleases

[QUOTE="MrLions"][QUOTE="SaintsRowSam"][QUOTE="MrLions"]

Why would you want to be with a girl whos like that...? :|

SaintsRowSam

I really dont know, i just like her alot. its hard to explain

Do you want an actual relationship with her?

I do. :(

That's a bad idea. Unless you want to get in her pants just don't even bother >_>.

"Theres more fish in the sea"

"Don't try to find love, love will simply follow you."

[QUOTE="SaintsRowSam"][QUOTE="MrLions"][QUOTE="SaintsRowSam"][QUOTE="MrLions"]

Why would you want to be with a girl whos like that...? :|

crazy-player

I really dont know, i just like her alot. its hard to explain

Do you want an actual relationship with her?

I do. :(

Is she hot?

yeah ;)

[QUOTE="crazy-player"][QUOTE="SaintsRowSam"][QUOTE="MrLions"][QUOTE="SaintsRowSam"][QUOTE="MrLions"]

Why would you want to be with a girl whos like that...? :|

SaintsRowSam

I really dont know, i just like her alot. its hard to explain

Do you want an actual relationship with her?

I do. :(

Is she hot?

yeah ;)

I see... this might be interesting... one more question.

Does she...

....

..

.

.

.

.

Have..

Big buzzoms?

[QUOTE="SaintsRowSam"][QUOTE="crazy-player"][QUOTE="SaintsRowSam"][QUOTE="MrLions"][QUOTE="SaintsRowSam"][QUOTE="MrLions"]

Why would you want to be with a girl whos like that...? :|

crazy-player

I really dont know, i just like her alot. its hard to explain

Do you want an actual relationship with her?

I do. :(

Is she hot?

yeah ;)

I see... this might be interesting... one more question.

Does she...

....

..

.

.

.

.

Have..

Big buzzoms?

......C's

[QUOTE="crazy-player"][QUOTE="SaintsRowSam"][QUOTE="crazy-player"][QUOTE="SaintsRowSam"][QUOTE="MrLions"][QUOTE="SaintsRowSam"][QUOTE="MrLions"]

Why would you want to be with a girl whos like that...? :|

SaintsRowSam

I really dont know, i just like her alot. its hard to explain

Do you want an actual relationship with her?

I do. :(

Is she hot?

yeah ;)

I see... this might be interesting... one more question.

Does she...

....

..

.

.

.

.

Have..

Big buzzoms?

......C's

What color is her bed?

[QUOTE="crazy-player"][QUOTE="SaintsRowSam"][QUOTE="crazy-player"][QUOTE="SaintsRowSam"][QUOTE="MrLions"][QUOTE="SaintsRowSam"][QUOTE="MrLions"]

Why would you want to be with a girl whos like that...? :|

SaintsRowSam

I really dont know, i just like her alot. its hard to explain

Do you want an actual relationship with her?

I do. :(

Is she hot?

yeah ;)

I see... this might be interesting... one more question.

Does she...

....

..

.

.

.

.

Have..

Big buzzoms?

......C's

If by that you mean a cup C, by all means

GO FOR IT.

[QUOTE="SaintsRowSam"][QUOTE="crazy-player"][QUOTE="SaintsRowSam"][QUOTE="crazy-player"][QUOTE="SaintsRowSam"][QUOTE="MrLions"][QUOTE="SaintsRowSam"][QUOTE="MrLions"]

Why would you want to be with a girl whos like that...? :|

MrLions

I really dont know, i just like her alot. its hard to explain

Do you want an actual relationship with her?

I do. :(

Is she hot?

yeah ;)

I see... this might be interesting... one more question.

Does she...

....

..

.

.

.

.

Have..

Big buzzoms?

......C's

What color is her bed?

i havent gotten that close to her.

[QUOTE="SaintsRowSam"][QUOTE="crazy-player"][QUOTE="SaintsRowSam"][QUOTE="crazy-player"][QUOTE="SaintsRowSam"][QUOTE="MrLions"][QUOTE="SaintsRowSam"][QUOTE="MrLions"]

Why would you want to be with a girl whos like that...? :|

crazy-player

I really dont know, i just like her alot. its hard to explain

Do you want an actual relationship with her?

I do. :(

Is she hot?

yeah ;)

I see... this might be interesting... one more question.

Does she...

....

..

.

.

.

.

Have..

Big buzzoms?

......C's

If by that you mean a cup C, by all means

GO FOR IT.

Perv -.-

[QUOTE="MrLions"][QUOTE="SaintsRowSam"][QUOTE="crazy-player"][QUOTE="SaintsRowSam"][QUOTE="crazy-player"][QUOTE="SaintsRowSam"][QUOTE="MrLions"][QUOTE="SaintsRowSam"][QUOTE="MrLions"]

Why would you want to be with a girl whos like that...? :|

SaintsRowSam

I really dont know, i just like her alot. its hard to explain

Do you want an actual relationship with her?

I do. :(

Is she hot?

yeah ;)

I see... this might be interesting... one more question.

Does she...

....

..

.

.

.

.

Have..

Big buzzoms?

......C's

What color is her bed?

i havent gotten that close to her.

[QUOTE="crazy-player"][QUOTE="SaintsRowSam"][QUOTE="crazy-player"][QUOTE="SaintsRowSam"][QUOTE="crazy-player"][QUOTE="SaintsRowSam"][QUOTE="MrLions"][QUOTE="SaintsRowSam"][QUOTE="MrLions"]

Why would you want to be with a girl whos like that...? :|

MrLions

I really dont know, i just like her alot. its hard to explain

Do you want an actual relationship with her?

I do. :(

Is she hot?

yeah ;)

I see... this might be interesting... one more question.

Does she...

....

..

.

.

.

.

Have..

Big buzzoms?

......C's

If by that you mean a cup C, by all means

GO FOR IT.

Perv -.-

:|

Have a sense of humour...

Listen closely to me. Regardless of whatever else you might come up with, your attraction to her boils down to two possibilites. You either...

A) Want to **** her.

B) Want an actual relationship.

If it's B, let me start by saying: smarten the **** up. Taking **** from people throughout your life won't get anywhere, except maybe an asylum. I doubt you really care for her that much, that's likely just influence from the desire for sex.

You might have to think long and hard on this to admit it to yourself, but I'm guessing it's A. From what I can gather, I feel this is a fairly safe presumption. In which case, your situation is actually perfectly exploitable.

Or, you could do what I'd do, and forget about the whole thing right now and start somewhere new.

Listen closely to me. Regardless of whatever else you might come up with, your attraction to her boils down to two possibilites. You either...

A) Want to **** her.

B) Want an actual relationship.

If it's B, let me start by saying: smarten the **** up. Taking **** from people throughout your life won't get anywhere, except maybe an asylum. I doubt you really care for her that much, that's likely just influence from the desire for sex.

You might have to think long and hard on this to admit it to yourself, but I'm guessing it's A. From what I can gather, I feel this is a fairly safe presumption. In which case, your situation is actually perfectly exploitable.

Or, you could do what I'd do, and forget about the whole thing right now and start somewhere new.

Fortier

I'm pretty confident that it's B, i loved just being around her and talking to her and asking how her day went, cheering her up when shes sad, meeting up after school, etc. but i think the reason i take alot of **** from people is because im not a confrontational person, and dont like to get in verbal fights/arguements. but like i said even though she treated me like garbage 3 times, i still love her and want to get back together, its weird...

I got nothing to say to you sir but "FORGETTABOUTIT!!"

;)

Dude Im suggesting to just forget about her. Same thing happened to me in a way but I fell in love and me and her got way intimate and stuff, you know what I mean, I was also her first! but Afterwards she dumped me and then it hurts when you see her with someother guy. I felt horrible especialy when I got the news that she hit it off with him the other night. Trust me just forget and move on I felt depressed and suicidal too and it was probably way worse than you. Just be a man and hang on I KNOW IT HURTS but dont let a simple girl ruin your life for you!geraldwillkill

how long did it take you to get over it?

First, Let her go!!!!

Second, i doubt that this kid is going to really take the awesome advice that we are giving him for free.

But if he is. He is the smartest kid i know right now.

Me too, she broke up with me 2 days ago, and it's been the worst 2 days of my life (I haven't had anything bad happen to me other that deaths of grandparents I didn't know)... what's even worse is that it's following the best 3 months of my life, and now we're back to being best friends, so it's not completely devastating.

EDIT: Forget about her, she's not worth it if she's making out with other guys. Move on, the pain will go away...

[QUOTE="geraldwillkill"]Dude Im suggesting to just forget about her. Same thing happened to me in a way but I fell in love and me and her got way intimate and stuff, you know what I mean, I was also her first! but Afterwards she dumped me and then it hurts when you see her with someother guy. I felt horrible especialy when I got the news that she hit it off with him the other night. Trust me just forget and move on I felt depressed and suicidal too and it was probably way worse than you. Just be a man and hang on I KNOW IT HURTS but dont let a simple girl ruin your life for you!SaintsRowSam

how long did it take you to get over it?

Im suggesting you to get over because today I finally realized TODAY my ex got very promiscuous after we went out, so i bassically got over her TODAY. Lets see it took me around 5 months of internal struggle and sleepless nights, the worst part was she would still comeover to my house and basically use me for food and a room to sleep over the summer, Im 17 Jesus Christ! Im not supposed to be having mental breakdowns at this age so now im free and I feel soooooo good about my self now. I dont regret anything but I have also learned to move on

[QUOTE="SaintsRowSam"]

[QUOTE="geraldwillkill"]Dude Im suggesting to just forget about her. Same thing happened to me in a way but I fell in love and me and her got way intimate and stuff, you know what I mean, I was also her first! but Afterwards she dumped me and then it hurts when you see her with someother guy. I felt horrible especialy when I got the news that she hit it off with him the other night. Trust me just forget and move on I felt depressed and suicidal too and it was probably way worse than you. Just be a man and hang on I KNOW IT HURTS but dont let a simple girl ruin your life for you!geraldwillkill

how long did it take you to get over it?

Im suggesting you to get over because today I finally realized TODAY my ex got very promiscuous after we went out, so i bassically got over her TODAY. Lets see it took me around 5 months of internal struggle and sleepless nights, the worst part was she would still comeover to my house and basically use me for food and a room to sleep over the summer, Im 17 Jesus Christ! Im not supposed to be having mental breakdowns at this age so now im free and I feel soooooo good about my self now. I dont regret anything but I have also learned to move on

but it seems as if i cant move on....i just love her too much.

[QUOTE="geraldwillkill"][QUOTE="SaintsRowSam"]

[QUOTE="geraldwillkill"]Dude Im suggesting to just forget about her. Same thing happened to me in a way but I fell in love and me and her got way intimate and stuff, you know what I mean, I was also her first! but Afterwards she dumped me and then it hurts when you see her with someother guy. I felt horrible especialy when I got the news that she hit it off with him the other night. Trust me just forget and move on I felt depressed and suicidal too and it was probably way worse than you. Just be a man and hang on I KNOW IT HURTS but dont let a simple girl ruin your life for you!SaintsRowSam

how long did it take you to get over it?

Im suggesting you to get over because today I finally realized TODAY my ex got very promiscuous after we went out, so i bassically got over her TODAY. Lets see it took me around 5 months of internal struggle and sleepless nights, the worst part was she would still comeover to my house and basically use me for food and a room to sleep over the summer, Im 17 Jesus Christ! Im not supposed to be having mental breakdowns at this age so now im free and I feel soooooo good about my self now. I dont regret anything but I have also learned to move on

but it seems as if i cant move on....i just love her too much.

Same thing here, I just felt as If I couldnt move on because no one would treat me the way she would. For me she was the most beautiful thing in the world. When we were going out it was the happiest moments of my life, Honestly I loved her more than my mom (and trust me I love my mama alot). You'll feel like this for the next couple of days but remember you have the power to heal yourself, you cant feel optimisim while mourning over the past.

[QUOTE="SaintsRowSam"][QUOTE="geraldwillkill"][QUOTE="SaintsRowSam"]

[QUOTE="geraldwillkill"]Dude Im suggesting to just forget about her. Same thing happened to me in a way but I fell in love and me and her got way intimate and stuff, you know what I mean, I was also her first! but Afterwards she dumped me and then it hurts when you see her with someother guy. I felt horrible especialy when I got the news that she hit it off with him the other night. Trust me just forget and move on I felt depressed and suicidal too and it was probably way worse than you. Just be a man and hang on I KNOW IT HURTS but dont let a simple girl ruin your life for you!geraldwillkill

how long did it take you to get over it?

Im suggesting you to get over because today I finally realized TODAY my ex got very promiscuous after we went out, so i bassically got over her TODAY. Lets see it took me around 5 months of internal struggle and sleepless nights, the worst part was she would still comeover to my house and basically use me for food and a room to sleep over the summer, Im 17 Jesus Christ! Im not supposed to be having mental breakdowns at this age so now im free and I feel soooooo good about my self now. I dont regret anything but I have also learned to move on

but it seems as if i cant move on....i just love her too much.

Same thing here, I just felt as If I couldnt move on because no one would treat me the way she would. For me she was the most beautiful thing in the world. When we were going out it was the happiest moments of my life, Honestly I loved her more than my mom (and trust me I love my mama alot). You'll feel like this for the next couple of days but remember you have the power to heal yourself, you cant feel optimisim while mourning over the past.

but the thing is is that this didnt happen a week ago, it happend over a month and a half ago.

yea i better delete that...not trying to insult...anyone but most women really arent good people.woobabooba

yet its ironic how people think the man uses the woman

i was still really depressed today :(SaintsRowSam

Of course you are. It's been what, a day since your first post? People say "take it a day at a time" because it's not going to get all better in one day.

PS: I know it's actually been about a month and a half in total for you. Just thought I'd let you know I did read that part, so you won't have to repeat it.

It sounds like you will try to get her back no matter what anyone here says to you, but it would be a mistake.

From what you have said, the girl does not care for you at all and you would be much better moving on. Believe me, there is nothing worse then a break up, I'm going through one now, but it does get better over time and you'll look back and wonder what took you so long to make the decision to move on. Although it might be hard to think this way now, but there are other girls out there that will make you more happy than this girl because they will truly reciprocate your feelings.

You deserve better than that. Listen to your friends and tell them how you feel; they will help you. You will not get the support you need on this board. If you are serious about suicide, talk to someone, trust me on this, you can't take that decision back. Always remember who you would hurt close to you when thinking that way.

Good luck.

A lot is two words.

She's a hoe, there's 2 things you can do:

1) Forget about her.

2) Hit it.

crazy-player