always F stuff up when it comes to girls? Like, say you actually work up the courage to ask a girl out, and she says yes. so you are feeling good, then you F up the date by being boring, coming on too strong, etc. and are back to being by yourself again?
My best friend is like that and it bothers me. I want to help him, but I don't know how to make him come out of his shell. If we go on group dates, he's more talkative, but in that case both girls will be more into me. When he goes on his own dates, he is really shy and it gets akward. He has gotten his own dates twice.. usually I'd ask a girl out and one of her friends will come too and my friend will too so it will be a group thing. Or I'll try to hook him up with a girl I know or am dating's friends. (that sentence sounds like i used the grammar of a 5th grader).
He is also spoiled, but not rich, 19 years old, never had a job, sleeps a lot, is scared of everything, isn't a fan of social situations, clubbing, etc., he's chubby, balding, hairy, short and has bad teeth. It's seriously the worst combo you can ever have. But the worst part is, his standards are too high for who he is. He wants to date no less than a 7, but he is not good looking and has a pretty selfish and shy personality. He's the person that when I'll invite like 15 people over, with more than half are hot girls, he will hang around me and talk to me and maybe 1 or two people. The girls show him some attention because he is very shy and cute in that way, but more so because they feel sorry for him, i guess. They'll want to give him hugs, and are really friendly to him to try to break him out of his shell, but it sucks becuase they show him this attention, but would never date him.
Isn't this a ****** situation?
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