Girl in my class stares at me and I know she is in a relationship

she sits right next to me, she stares at me quite a bit, when no one is sitting around us, she will stare even more. Today in class we were sharing our relationship experiences for those who wanted (liberal class lol), she said she had a boyfriend ...blah blah blah. After she was done talking she looked at me again. I'm not going to ask her out or anything but she is very attractive, I did nothing to initate the eye contact that has been going on for weeks, I just started to notice her doing this. What do I make of this? And their is nothing on my face or anyone behind, we sit in the back. I might add she decides to always sit next to me if no one is already sitting their.

To be fair, generally once someone knows you are lookng at them, they will keep checking to see if you're doing it. This makes it so you two keep staring at each other until she get's a restraining order.

She's probably trying to decide if you're wearing a toupée or not.

To be fair, generally once someone knows you are lookng at them, they will keep checking to see if you're doing it. This makes it so you two keep staring at each other until she get's a restraining order.

Pirate700

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To be fair, generally once someone knows you are lookng at them, they will keep checking to see if you're doing it. This makes it so you two keep staring at each other until she get's a restraining order.

SiKh22

Man see where it goes and follow her cues. If you think you can go for it you can get her to cheat on her boyfriend or maybe break up with him. It's easy to pull off just play the attraction card, "I am attracted to you and I think you're attracted to me" etc. and say something about how you think we should let our instrincts guide us to what is right etc. If it's right then you'll get what you want even if she has a boyfriend.

If she was super upfront about having a boyfriend I'd cut your losses though lol cause I mean there are girls who have boyfriends but if they never tell you and never mention them then that means they're interested. If they talk about the boyfriend with you though it's a good sign you've been friend zoned.

Well firstly lets hope their wasn't something on your face...secondly, staring =/= she is into you.

You should do something that would catch her off guard. :P

Raise your hand and announce to the class that she is staring at you

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haha I like this answer!

Just because there's a goalie doesn't mean you can't scoreToriko42

Well firstly lets hope their wasn't something on your face...secondly, staring =/= she is into you.

SaintLeonidas

It sorta generally does, what other reason would you have for looking at someone that closely. I know I don't stare at any of my mates or girls that I don't find attractive

To be fair, generally once someone knows you are lookng at them, they will keep checking to see if you're doing it. This makes it so you two keep staring at each other until she get's a restraining order.

Pirate700

[QUOTE="SaintLeonidas"]

Well firstly lets hope their wasn't something on your face...secondly, staring =/= she is into you.

chaoscougar1

It sorta generally does, what other reason would you have for looking at someone that closely. I know I don't stare at any of my mates or girls that I don't find attractive

Sometimes I stare at people that I don't necessarily even think are atractive. I just find them facinating to look at. It's hard to exactly put but they always have a certain look on their face that I find mysterious and it's hard to stop looking at it. The sig in the poster above me for instance. That's sort of an interesting face.

[QUOTE="SaintLeonidas"]

Well firstly lets hope their wasn't something on your face...secondly, staring =/= she is into you.

chaoscougar1

It sorta generally does, what other reason would you have for looking at someone that closely. I know I don't stare at any of my mates or girls that I don't find attractive

I've been known to stare at people, just because I was so in awe at how ugly they are.

Don't get me wrong...I'm not saying that's what's happening in the TC's case. I'm just saying that there are definitely other possibilities.

she sits right next to me, she stares at me quite a bit, when no one is sitting around us, she will stare even more. Today in class we were sharing our relationship experiences for those who wanted (liberal class lol), she said she had a boyfriend ...blah blah blah. After she was done talking she looked at me again. I'm not going to ask her out or anything but she is very attractive, I did nothing to initate the eye contact that has been going on for weeks, I just started to notice her doing this. What do I make of this? And their is nothing on my face or anyone behind, we sit in the back. I might add she decides to always sit next to me if no one is already sitting their.

SiKh22

why not? Don't let her gigantic boyfriend intimidate you with his snarl and large muscular arms.

Happened to me she stared and I looked she turned away quicky, flirted, etc even though she had a boyfriend but nothing ever happened.

people in relationships are allowed to look at other people, even with a bit of lust. I'd expect a man married to Angelina Jolie to gawk at Adriana Lima if he saw her strut down the street.

ha ha that reminded me of this:

(guy thinking to himself):oh wow,totaly hot chick sitting next to me is checking me out!

(hot chick thinking to herself):eeewwww,is that a booger hanging on the end of his nose?

(guy):she wont stop staring!i cant believe a chick this hot is checking me out!im aepic stud...

(girl):oh god he wont stop staring!and now there is a bubble growing in the booger!please dont talk to me,please dont talk to me,please dont talk to me...

(guy):shesSTILL looking!that confirms it,she wants me,i think i will talk to her.

i think everyone can guess how this ends.true story.

You should really look for more cues before you decide shes in to you.

As many people have said already, staring doesn't always mean someones in to you.

I kinda stare alot and have had quite a few girls i'm not remotely interested in, interested in me.

Don't assume so hastily, because it's no fun if you'rewrong...:(

She is looking at your answers to the tests, that is all.

Keep ignoring her, she'll probably stop eventually.

Look at her and in a really deep black man voice say: "B**** you a virgin?!"

Works every time 8)

Ménage à trois?

Maybe she has a Lazy Eye.

Maybe she has a Lazy Eye.

andalore

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Was in the situation before. She's cute but was in a relationship but kept stalking me. I pretty much ignored her and pretended I had no interest, I'm respectful and don't want a relationship to fall just because the next guy is better.

Having one conversation with her is what sparked it.

I was in the same situation but it was more like 4 girls were staring at me, but I doubt they were interested in me since in Highschool I was pretty horrific. In some classes I would have girls stare at me and smile which at the time I found odd and ignored it. If you want to know so badly just ask the girl why is she staring the worst that can happen is she denies it or never talks to you again. However, it shouldn't matter since she seems to be already taken.

she sits right next to me, she stares at me quite a bit, when no one is sitting around us, she will stare even more. Today in class we were sharing our relationship experiences for those who wanted (liberal class lol), she said she had a boyfriend ...blah blah blah. After she was done talking she looked at me again. I'm not going to ask her out or anything but she is very attractive, I did nothing to initate the eye contact that has been going on for weeks, I just started to notice her doing this. What do I make of this? And their is nothing on my face or anyone behind, we sit in the back. I might add she decides to always sit next to me if no one is already sitting their.

SiKh22

Just go with the flow bro,hit and run you live this life once!don't look back or regret anything!

What is this the 5th grade?

Give her a look back like this and she will feel compelled to immediately dump her boyfriend and proclaim her love and admiration of you.

Talk to her, stop pondering about it... the more you think about it, the more you'll hesitate.... get it out the way by talking to her... by confronting her you are solving two problems: you'll find out why she's staring and how serious her relationship is