Do your friends talk behind your back?

I have this one friend, who i have been told by multiple people, that he talks crap behind my back constantly. It really pisses me off cause he never says it to my face.

Do you have friends that talk crap behind your back?

It's possible, but I don't know, if they're talking crap about me clearly I'm not there to know about it.

I have this one friend, who i have been told by multiple people, that he talks crap behind my back constantly. It really pisses me off cause he never says it to my face.

Do you have friends that talk behind your back?

hedden93

Yup,they're contantly busy talking about how awesome I am,apparantly.It's annoying.
/egostroke.

There's a reason why they are called "friends."

Not that I'm aware of, no.

Are there are people at my school that do?

You better believe it.

:lol:

It's human nature for people to do that (and I dunno how old you are TC, but it is especially common in middle and high school), even when you are friends. Most of the time it is just venting a frustration to someone else; however, if they are your friend usually it isnt very frequent or mean so depending on what your "friend" is saying, who he is saying it too, and how often he is saying it....he might not really be much of a friend...you might as well ask him about it.

It's human nature for people to do that (and I dunno how old you are TC, but it is especially common in middle and high school), even when you are friends. Most of the time it is just venting a frustration to someone else; however, if they are your friend usually it isnt very frequent or mean so depending on what your "friend" is saying, who he is saying it too, and how often he is saying it....he might not really be much of a friend...you might as well ask him about it.

Lindsosaurus

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It's human nature for people to do that (and I dunno how old you are TC, but it is especially common in middle and high school), even when you are friends. Most of the time it is just venting a frustration to someone else; however, if they are your friend usually it isnt very frequent or mean so depending on what your "friend" is saying, who he is saying it too, and how often he is saying it....he might not really be much of a friend...you might as well ask him about it.

worthyofnote

[QUOTE="worthyofnote"][QUOTE="Lindsosaurus"]

It's human nature for people to do that (and I dunno how old you are TC, but it is especially common in middle and high school), even when you are friends. Most of the time it is just venting a frustration to someone else; however, if they are your friend usually it isnt very frequent or mean so depending on what your "friend" is saying, who he is saying it too, and how often he is saying it....he might not really be much of a friend...you might as well ask him about it.

Sajedene

I think they do but I don't have much friends.

People who gossip behind your back should go die in a pit far far away.

if a "friend" talks behind your back is he really a friend. a friend is someone who respects you. if there is a level of respect between two parties then there wont be "friends" talkin behind your back. ya dig?

of course, its a minor flaw in society ive come to accept.

hopefully its nothing too bad or, worse, untrue...I am pretty aware of my faults so if someone, for example, said I was too fat behind my back and I caught them, I wouldnt really mind. However if they said I screwed over someone then I would definately mind.

I could care less if they did.

I hope not.

Grrr..:x

i'm sure there are times when some may have. Who knows maybe i pissed one of them off without realizing it.

Yes and for that very same reason I don't consider them "real" friends. Good thing I could care less what they think.

No my friends don't seem to say anything bad about me. So big hugs to them! I get a lot of it around where I surf mind. I'm very misunderstood by a few groups. Started off when someone made a mistake and tried to use me as a scapegoat in my absense. Oh screw it let's not be crptic here; they think i'm a druggie, a gyppo, they think I steal from peoples cars. I don't steal from peoples cars!

Probably. But since I don't know about it I don't really care.

I'd hope they would because then I'd hate to be absolutely loved.

No, I choose my friends wisely.fighter91

Good advice.

I think they do yeah

How are we supposed to know?;)

No because unlike that guy, my friends are actually friends.cd_rom

I dunno...

I don't think so. I'm a very honest guy and I don't get involved in many serious things. I know exactly where I am with all my friends, and they'd have no need to talk about me behind my back.

let's hope they don't :?

No. I can't say that I do. I have some very good friends.

If me or my friends have something to say about each other we're upfront about it so we know if we're doing something to annoy any of us although we do joke about each other behind our backs but they're all inside jokes anyway

I think they do. But probably isnt anything major or super insulting, mostly jokingly.

I have a very very very strict ruleset for the people i afford myself time to be around. The amount of people in the world who's opinion ( of me ) i value could probably be counted on one hand.

I trust these few people to be how they are to my face. Everyone else can say what they want.

People backtalk because it puts focus on someone else and makes them feel secure. Don't get offended by it, usually they don't mean what they say.