are you bullied ?

hey,

are any of you guys bullied or been bullied ? and how did you feel ?

what did you do to get rid of it ?

Im asking this becouse we have a kid that is being bullied in our class and I feel rather bad for him, and would like to know how he feels :)

Ltr

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I was and it doesnt feel good... but i guess it depends on the person, some cry and hate life, while others try to stand up for themselves and fight to earn respect, like i did.. didnt work.sandroDX

that won't ever work, they only like that, or you need to punch someones teeth out or something

do it Fight club style

hey,

are any of you guys bullied or been bullied ? and how did you feel ?

what did you do to get rid of it ?

Im asking this becouse we have a kid that is being bullied in our class and I feel rather bad for him, and would like to know how he feels :)

Ltr

W

whoody12

No I was never bullied nor did i bullie anyone else (Unless they deserved it) if it bothers you take the Alpha male stance and stick up for him. Too many boys are being brought up like litle sissy women nowadays. Oh.. god i feel like really ranting now:evil:

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hey,

are any of you guys bullied or been bullied ? and how did you feel ?

what did you do to get rid of it ?

Im asking this becouse we have a kid that is being bullied in our class and I feel rather bad for him, and would like to know how he feels :)

Ltr

W

debusentel

No I was never bullied nor did i bullie anyone else (Unless they deserved it) if it bothers you take the Alpha male stance and stick up for him. Too many boys are being brought up like litle sissy women nowadays. Oh.. god i feel like really ranting now:evil:

yeah, maybe I will, there is only 1 guy stronger in my class

[QUOTE="debusentel"][QUOTE="whoody12"]

hey,

are any of you guys bullied or been bullied ? and how did you feel ?

what did you do to get rid of it ?

Im asking this becouse we have a kid that is being bullied in our class and I feel rather bad for him, and would like to know how he feels :)

Ltr

W

whoody12

No I was never bullied nor did i bullie anyone else (Unless they deserved it) if it bothers you take the Alpha male stance and stick up for him. Too many boys are being brought up like litle sissy women nowadays. Oh.. god i feel like really ranting now:evil:

yeah, maybe I will, there is only 1 guy stronger in my class

Good hope you do. Believe me here , strength has nothing to do with it. The second you show no fear/confidence. You will have already shaken the other guy. Just make sure you have the heart to back it up.

Ive never been bullied.

There was a guy in year 9 who used to give everyone crap, and when he decided it was my turn i decided to **** him up :). I did it in the changing rooms he was saying stuff right infront of me so i walked upto him and said something to the effect of "wtf do you think your saying!?" he tried to act hard so i pushed him against one of the sort of bench things with hangers on it and he fell over with the bench thing. he got up and tried to swing for me so i started smacking him back, it ended with me kneeing him in the stomach and he just droped to the floor winded :)

he doesnt talk **** about me anymore :)

lonmg story short if your going to stand up against your bully dont do it half-assed.

Yeah, when I was a little kid. I was skinny, short, etc. I didn't do anything about it, mostly because the people who made fun of me were failures in life and I find it humorous.

I'm certainly not one to shoot up my school though >_>

yea i was bullied when i was in secondary school. I wasn't an skinny girl who followed the latest fashion so of course i needed to be put straight (stupid all-girl schools... there evil places). For a while i was really upset- felt alone, an outsider, shunned by the multitude and all that. But then i moved to 6th form and since then lifes been nothing but cool!

Just found out the other day that one of my bullies was ommited to hospital due to her anorexia. Although i feel bad for her, it's kind of strange to feel the one whose better off.

Stand up for him. Bullies only pick on the perceived weak.LJS9502_basic

Yes ! make friends if you want to help. me never bullied but had to stand up for my brother many times ( he was yonger and dorky lol)

yea i was bullied when i was in secondary school. I wasn't an skinny girl who followed the latest fashion so of course i needed to be put straight (stupid all-girl schools... there evil places). For a while i was really upset- felt alone, an outsider, shunned by the multitude and all that. But then i moved to 6th form and since then lifes been nothing but cool!

Just found out the other day that one of my bullies was ommited to hospital due to her anorexia. Although i feel bad for her, it's kind of strange to feel the one whose better off.

HellsAngel2c

Hehe, similarly I was bullied a few times back in high school too. When I hear about the bullies these days, they are mostly bums, whilst I'm headed towards becoming a scientist and a doctor ;) I've met some other classmates after high school, and I've gotten more respect and become more approachable by others.

Moral of the story: Getting bullied in school isn't the end of the world. Stand up for yourself, respect yourself, and make the most of your life. After high school, no one cares about who you were, but moreso who you currently are.

Ive never been bullied.

There was a guy in year 9 who used to give everyone crap, and when he decided it was my turn i decided to **** him up :). I did it in the changing rooms he was saying stuff right infront of me so i walked upto him and said something to the effect of "wtf do you think your saying!?" he tried to act hard so i pushed him against one of the sort of bench things with hangers on it and he fell over with the bench thing. he got up and tried to swing for me so i started smacking him back, it ended with me kneeing him in the stomach and he just droped to the floor winded :)

he doesnt talk **** about me anymore :)

lonmg story short if your going to stand up against your bully dont do it half-assed.

muppet1010

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Ive never been bullied.

There was a guy in year 9 who used to give everyone crap, and when he decided it was my turn i decided to **** him up :). I did it in the changing rooms he was saying stuff right infront of me so i walked upto him and said something to the effect of "wtf do you think your saying!?" he tried to act hard so i pushed him against one of the sort of bench things with hangers on it and he fell over with the bench thing. he got up and tried to swing for me so i started smacking him back, it ended with me kneeing him in the stomach and he just droped to the floor winded :)

he doesnt talk **** about me anymore :)

lonmg story short if your going to stand up against your bully dont do it half-assed.

HmmmIdiot

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aww thanks :) i like how you made a new account for that?

[QUOTE="HmmmIdiot"][QUOTE="muppet1010"]

Ive never been bullied.

There was a guy in year 9 who used to give everyone crap, and when he decided it was my turn i decided to **** him up :). I did it in the changing rooms he was saying stuff right infront of me so i walked upto him and said something to the effect of "wtf do you think your saying!?" he tried to act hard so i pushed him against one of the sort of bench things with hangers on it and he fell over with the bench thing. he got up and tried to swing for me so i started smacking him back, it ended with me kneeing him in the stomach and he just droped to the floor winded :)

he doesnt talk **** about me anymore :)

lonmg story short if your going to stand up against your bully dont do it half-assed.

muppet1010

badass alert

aww thanks :) i like how you made a new account for that?

What makes you think that

What makes you think that

HmmmIdiot

your join date...

NO what makes you think i created just to say thatHmmmIdiot

it was a question... im guessing the answer was no then.

Yeah people have tried to bully me before. I usually just stare at them with a completely emotionless look on my face, and then they make some comment about me staring at them, I continue to stare and then they get freaked out and walk away.

The only people I have bullied are people who bully the younger kids. Doing that makes me feel good inside.

I was bullied at secondary school, it's made me feel bad, angry, sad a whole range of emotions really.

Most of them I don't see anymore but a few of them I do and they don't even recognise me.

Why do you think im homeSchooled.I used to but they stop but I still wanted to be homeschooled.Wolf-avatar

Real great reason for homeschooling there I tell ya..

Stand up for him. Bullies only pick on the perceived weak.LJS9502_basic

NERRRDAH

Back when I was in high shcool, we did not get bullied, nor did anyone bully us. If we had problems with each other, we settled it like men. When I say like men, I mean we FIGHT! Mortal Kombat!!!nonsoville2

You did fatalities?! :shock: Awesomeness!!!

Yes i was and it sucks, it sucks more than suck suck sucks.

Though it can make you angry at times, i found when just talking about it actually stops it from affecting you.

I was kind of bullied when I became the new kid in 7th grade. Nothing physical, some just made me feel like crap. Mostly racism (I'm hispanic, moved to a 90% white suburb) and also I was kind of smart in school while they were smoking at age 12. I just made some friends outside school, but I never had real, good friends until now. It kind of makes me feel sad thinking back.

Oh and I was short and kind of chubby in 7th grade now I'm taller and a little more built. I saw one of the jerks from back then last week - he grew like 4 inches in 6 years, I grew 9 inches (now I'm 5'9or10) and he's still skinny. I felt like I could take him, but I just walked away (he didn't see me). Now thinking about how they made me feel back then I kind of want to try to take him on (but I'd lose lol).

I was, it doesn't feel too great but I know they won't get far in life being addicted to drugs.-dark-shadow-

For a bit, until one day when I decided I was sick of it and told the guy I'd stab him in the eyeball with an AIDS infected needle if he ever said a word to me again.

Interesting, thinking about how I handled it back then compared to what I would do now.