An ugly girl is in love with me... what should I do?

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#1 BenedictArnold7
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There is this girl that works with me who loves me... unfortunately she is ugly.  I slept with her almost a year ago because I was desperate for sex, but now things are weird between us.  I don't want to be with her and I told her that, but she keeps insisting.  How should I deal with this? 

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There is this girl that works with me who loves me... unfortunately she is ugly.  I slept with her almost a year ago because I was desperate for sex, but now things are weird between us.  I don't want to be with her and I told her that, but she keeps insisting.  How should I deal with this? 

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#4 WhiteKnight77
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There is this girl that works with me who loves me... unfortunately she is ugly.  I slept with her almost a year ago because I was desperate for sex, but now things are weird between us.  I don't want to be with her and I told her that, but she keeps insisting.  How should I deal with this? 

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This is your problem right there. Thinking with your pecker instead of the head on your shoulders will lead to such problems due to women being more emotional about sex than most guys are. It's a hell of a problem you got so now you need to find a real girlfriend so she can see that you are taken already.
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#5 michael_1234576
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dude...why would you do that! You can't hit and quit someone you see on a regular basis!
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#6 jeremiah06
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There is this girl that works with me who loves me... unfortunately she is ugly.  I slept with her almost a year ago because I was desperate for sex, but now things are weird between us.  I don't want to be with her and I told her that, but she keeps insisting.  How should I deal with this? 

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What a classy classy guy you are... Just tell her you were only interested in sex and if she says yes throw her one as a favor for giving it up to you last year then tell her thats it... Or just be blunt and tell her she isn't attractive enough(The ideal option) being "nice" will hurt more in this situation...
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#7 BenedictArnold7
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dude...why would you do that! You can't hit and quit someone you see on a regular basis! michael_1234576
I was desperate. Isn't that reason enough.
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#9 Canuck3000
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If you just want it to be over with, and you don't care how she feels. Just be blunt with her. That should fix your problem
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#10 Netherscourge
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So you were desperate and she was doing you a favor. Is that how this really turned out?
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#11 BenedictArnold7
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[QUOTE="Netherscourge"]So you were desperate and she was doing you a favor. Is that how this really turned out?

Well I didn't tell her I was desperate... I pretended as if I was actually into her.
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#12 TheWalkingGhost
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Tell you she can do better than you. Based on your OP she is aiming too low.
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#13 TheWalkingGhost
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[QUOTE="BenedictArnold7"][QUOTE="Netherscourge"]So you were desperate and she was doing you a favor. Is that how this really turned out?

Well I didn't tell her I was desperate... I pretended as if I was actually into her.

Oh for christs sake, how old are you?
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#14 BenedictArnold7
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Tell you she can do better than you. Based on your OP she is aiming too low. TheWalkingGhost
I am being honest. Honesty is the best policy.
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#15 BenedictArnold7
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[QUOTE="TheWalkingGhost"][QUOTE="BenedictArnold7"][QUOTE="Netherscourge"]So you were desperate and she was doing you a favor. Is that how this really turned out?

Well I didn't tell her I was desperate... I pretended as if I was actually into her.

Oh for christs sake, how old are you?

Early 20s.
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#16 LordQuorthon
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Send her a link to this thread. 

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#17 Chris_Williams
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 honestly man you sound like the ugly one here

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#18 Chicken453
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Break the girls heart and tell her she was just a desperate fck and you would never stoop so low, and that she's lucky your not the least bit bi-curious because if the option of fcking a guy or her arose you would pick the guy over her ugly stank ass

. Ok that as mean, tell her that your not into her....anymore?

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#20 Planeforger
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You could always try honesty: "I only pretended to really like you because I couldn't get sex anywhere else. I actually find you to be quite unattractive, but hey, that's how desperate I am"

She'd stop talking to you. Problem solved.

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#21 metroidfood
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Send her a link to this thread. 

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#22 FinalFighters
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if she still wants to be with you i doubt you told her the truth like you said. Tell her you were just feeling lonely and just wanted sex, nothing more. if she still insists on being with you then tell her the OTHER truth..That shes ugly..Trust me she will leave you alone after that with probably a smack in the face to boot, but atleast she will be out of your hair for good.
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[QUOTE="Planeforger"]You could always try honesty: "I only pretended to really like you because I couldn't get sex anywhere else. I actually find you to be quite unattractive, but hey, that's how desperate I was" She'd stop talking to you. Problem solved.

In short, he is a pig.
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#24 lo_Pine
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Cornhole her.shell want it.
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#25 Nengo_Flow
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[QUOTE="BenedictArnold7"]

There is this girl that works with me who loves me... unfortunately she is ugly.  I slept with her almost a year ago because I was desperate for sex, but now things are weird between us.  I don't want to be with her and I told her that, but she keeps insisting.  How should I deal with this? 

heeweesRus

Give her your umbrella

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA I remember that thread.
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#26 Saedius_Asicion
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Send her a link to this thread. 

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This will work.
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#27 Zeviander
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- work relationship - pity/desperation sex - thinks she has something with you You're boned.
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#28 BenedictArnold7
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[QUOTE="BenedictArnold7"][QUOTE="TheWalkingGhost"]Tell you she can do better than you. Based on your OP she is aiming too low. thegerg
I am being honest. Honesty is the best policy.

So you've told her that you're not interested and you just wanted to get laid, and she's still in love with you?

I conveniently left out that part. This honesty thing is a new concept I am working on. This event occurred before I decided honesty was the best policy.
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#30 BenedictArnold7
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[QUOTE="thegerg"][QUOTE="BenedictArnold7"][QUOTE="thegerg"] So you've told her that you're not interested and you just wanted to get laid, and she's still in love with you?

I conveniently left out that part. This honesty thing is a new concept I am working on. This event occurred before I decided honesty was the best policy.

If you haven't told her this then you're not being honest with her. To claim that you have been honest with her is, thus, not being honest with us.

I never claimed I was honest with her... I claimed I am being honest on this thread.
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#31 Pittfan666
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Get some more freebies and enjoy it while it lasts.
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#32 Nengo_Flow
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Get some more freebies and enjoy it while it lasts.Pittfan666
its the only thing you do TC. try out all those things you wanted to do with a girl on her. But keep telling her you arent looking for anything serious so that way you cant say that she thought you wanted to be with her. If she wants you then go ahead and push the limits on the things you want to do (or dont want to do). If she gets mad at you and stuff, then great cuz its not like you wanted her in the first place.
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#33 Dogswithguns
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Tell her you love her too, and you wanna have like 24 kids with her.. what's wrong with that?
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#34 Sweetbackhair
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You're an idiot
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#35 br0kenrabbit
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Hit on her mom. Ask the girl later when you can see her mom again.

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#36 Bucked20
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Get some money and gifts out of her
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#37 Rhazakna
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Keep her on the back burner for when you're in a dryspell.
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#38 Megavideogamer
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There is nothing you can your fate is sealed.

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#39 Rattlesnake_8
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You slept with her? LOL
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#41 BenedictArnold7
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Sounds like a texas 2-bagger.  

Twobagger.jpg

 

Get it done.  

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That was a good one.
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#42 sune_Gem
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Tell her that she's annoying you so bad you've resorted to asking OT for help.

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#43 MistressMinako
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Fine... I am not going to go into all this why people should not sleep with unattractive people because this happens rant. You can try to tell her again without leaving nothing out nicely but if that doesn't work... You have to tell her bluntly. If you don't really want to... like someone said send her the link to this thread or something. Have fun getting dirty looks, comments, etc for as long as you work there. Do not continue anything. Don't have sex with her, don't give her false hope, nothing. Do not try to make this worse. You might as well marry her if you are going to take advantage of her even longer might as well run while you still have a chance. If you have to change your number or delete her from Facebook or whatever... do it.
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#44 deactivated-5acfa3a8bc51d
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if you're single you have an obligation to love her or just pass her to a friend
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#45 AfroPirate
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Every action has consequences now you have to deal with it.

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#46 SOedipus
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You should quit.

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#48 leviathan91
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Reverse psychology always works.

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[QUOTE="michael_1234576"]dude...why would you do that! You can't hit and quit someone you see on a regular basis! BenedictArnold7
I was desperate. Isn't that reason enough.

Hit up a bar, not a coworker, if you're too young for that, stick to porn, less hassle
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#50 Fightingfan
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[QUOTE="BenedictArnold7"][QUOTE="Netherscourge"]So you were desperate and she was doing you a favor. Is that how this really turned out?

Well I didn't tell her I was desperate... I pretended as if I was actually into her.

Alpha male right hur.