Am I right or wrong?

I got in a small argument with a classmate regarding the following question:

Do you think you can be friends with a girl whom you have feelings for and you know that she doesn't have them back for you? (of course this applies vice versa, so girls feel free to give your opinion)

I admitted that it would be a difficult situation but that it is possible. What do you think?

I got in a small argument with a classmate regarding the following question:

Do you think you can be friends with a girl whom you have feelings for and you know that she doesn't have them back for you? (of course this applies vice versa, so girls feel free to give your opinion)

I admitted that it would be a difficult situation but that it is possible. What do you think?

ScarTissue9

I was for a while. But it didn't/isn't end/ing well.

yeah its possible just like the movie Just Friendsleonard88

Oh thanx for ruining the thread by mentioning that stupid chick flick :evil:

To be quite honest most of my female friends I have had feelings for, as in I wanted to sex them up.

But, we remain friends. Its all about respect, distance, and not ruining something that is already perfectly acceptable.

And if they break up with their boyfriend, well, I am there in their time of need *schwing!*

Of course you can, I just wouldn't keep saying how I felt for her every time I talked to her.

I got in a small argument with a classmate regarding the following question:

Do you think you can be friends with a girl whom you have feelings for and you know that she doesn't have them back for you? (of course this applies vice versa, so girls feel free to give your opinion)

I admitted that it would be a difficult situation but that it is possible. What do you think?

ScarTissue9

Been there. Done that. Quite possible.

That's not to say it won't be quite an emotional hardship, at times. But possible? Hecks yes.

Doesn't this happen to most people at least once at some point?

Bio_Spark

yes, but so long as you expect it there is no shame (well, maybe a bit of shame, but some drunken friend-to-friend bonding will patch that up) in trying. And who knows, one days one of your friends-that-is-female just might say yes.

Or, in my case, my friend helps me hook up with chicks! I have a female wingman, and it helps lol

(taking into consideration that your girlfriend at the same time yoU're friend)

It is possible for a while...when you tell her you like/love(maybe after a long time you )her everything changes. Either your friendship ends/gets bad or you get even closer which leads to an official relation.

But for your health just doN't try to be that patient and get along as friends with the girl. That really really sucks....Experience speaking here, I had that for 3 years, told her that I loved her. We got closer(YES CLOSER :) ) but still no official relation. And now she is with another one. And she lied to me about that...so she's finished for me.

As you can see that leads to bad things.

yeah, it's possible. It's happening to me right now.. cause i used to have really strong feelings about this girl, but she never felt anything back, and now me and her are bestfriends, and i still have a little bit of a thing for her, even though she thinks that i completely dont, so she talks to me about other guys all the time, and really we're nothing more than bestfriends, and i dont think we ever will becolonicjas2

She remained single all that time and I realised when she isnt then being her best friend would really be very cruel so it was best for me to go aloof.