Put this here instead of Off-Topic, cuz it has far more to do with politics on a personal level than life in general.
I'm anarcho-liberal, and been pan since I first hit puberty. My girlfriend is trans, lives in England, and is planning to fly over to visit sometime this or next year. I'm doing what I can to vid chat with her on a future physically together. No relationship works without communication.
My father is super conservative, and has made anti-LGBT comments to me in the past. Last time was as recently as early last fall, when he established "there is no such thing as gender fluid, non-binary etc." My mother whom I live with is moderate-conservative, and she's done a far better job of understanding me than him. She watched Pose from the beginning to the end, and I credit it for her being aware.
My father voted for Trump in 2020, and I honestly wasn't as shocked as I should've been. If he could do that, he will definitely explode when I attempt to introduce him to Remi (that would be my gf. I'm 26 and she's 27 if you need to know).
I honestly don't want to put myself through the agony of telling him I'm with her + holding an in person introduction. But I will to show him how wrong he is about love being between "cis men and cis women only."
It's bound to happen. :(
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