You're telling us about this problem as if we're all living in your head and already know exactly what you're talking about. But the truth is, after reading what you posted, I have no idea what you're talking about. It would be of great help to you if you helped us by better explaining your problem rather than just let all of your frustation out in a forum post. So please try to better explain your problem and perhaps we can help you. I'm someone who's relatively familiar and savvy with counter strike so maybe I could help.
I work 5 days a week, have a full time girlfriend and the most I can manage is 3 games at once, best way to make time for video games though is to wake up extra early and get in a few hours before anyone notices :P