Ever since I've been in school, I have always said grace before dinner. At first, my grace was, "God is good. God is great. Let us thank Him for our food. Amen," but then I changed it to something original, "Jesus is Lord. God is Father. Let us share our food from one to the other." I have abandoned Christianity for over two years, but only in the last year have my parents known that I'm no longer a Christian, but even then, my father still insists that I say grace even though I've told him that I don't want to. So, I've used the same one since I was younger, but every time I can't stand it, because I'm essentially lying.
This year, we're having Thanksgiving at my house and I know that my father will want me to say grace. Most of the people who know that I'm not a Christian are my parents and my siblings. Not many people outside of the nuclear family are aware that I'm not a Christian. I said grace for Thanksgiving last year, and it was so hard to make it all up, but I did it rather well, which is why I know that I would make a good liar if I wasn't so fiercely opposed to the idea of it. I can't stand lying, but it looks like I'll have to do it again.
However, I sometimes have dinner with my mom (my parents are divorced), and we don't say grace, and it's so awkward. When I have my own family, I would like to establish some tradition before eating. It's common decency to not eat before everyone is seated and served, and I would like to give thanks for everyone making it through the day enough to be thankful. Dante Gabriel Rossetti said, "The worst moment for the atheist is when he is really thankful and has nobody to thank," but in this scenario, I think we can thank our family for being able to survive another day. The problem is, I'm having trouble thinking of a good grace to say that's not religious. I would be happy if you could pitch in.Â
Anyway, that's enough talking about my situation. What's it like for you? Do you say grace?Â
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