@mrbojangles25 said:
@KungfuKitten said:
So only the people you agree with are setting the bar. The other people are misbehaving.
No, not really the point. Thanks for putting words in my mouth, though.
Sorry. I wanted to edit it, a lot, and immediately removed it because I'm running out of time to type and I was not happy with what I wrote. It was much too mean. I was going to poke you because you made it sound like SJW or PC have a positive meaning, which is not really in line with the way these terms are typically used. But I think what you were getting at is that some people are called SJW just when they're trying to do the right thing, or that some things are considered to be PC when someone is just trying to be friendly, not necessarily with ill intent, to make discussion impossible or to hide the truth. Mislabeling is definitely something that's prevalent today in this age of misinformation.
I hear that there are anti-SJW groups forming that are just as insane as the SJW groups, and maybe you ran into them. I haven't yet, but it's a shame if mistakes are just repeated again, and again from one extreme to another. The action-reaction as you call it. I think you're right that morality is decided by the group (including the assholes). And that the media polarizes us, and they are having that effect on me over time. Not in the sense that I become more in favor of one side, but in the sense that I find myself more agitated over time, sometimes even making the same mistakes.
I do think it's not as simple as 'just don't be an asshole' because it has a different meaning depending on the echo-chamber you're in. Or let's rephrase that. I think you're right, but I do think the culture in which such a thing would be determined is now consisting of many smaller online cultures that are more tightly controlled than in the past that are typically only interacting in negative ways with people who think differently. Thinking Trump has good ideas on Resetera or RPG.net would be akin to being an asshole there (completely within their rights of course), whereas their own policies and responses would make these people an asshole in many places outside of Resetera and RPG.net.
I think because all these groups are keeping to themselves with many restrictions in place yet are also busy taking specific things from outside the group to get real angry about (while being unable to have any form of nuance get a hold because they're echo chambers), it's becoming more of a volatile mess than it used to be. (And like you say I would also like to sarcastically thank the media for driving people to polarization in their hunt for more money.) I guess it's always been impossible to not be an asshole to anyone on the internet because there's always someone who'd think that way, but I feel like these groups are now more effective than ever in becoming upset and mob-like, and more active than ever in trying to actually hurt the people they disagree with. Like actually trying to take people's jobs or platforms, to take people's relationships away, to prevent things from being discussed even at universities, to prevent sides from being portrayed even outside the groups, or to prevent documentaries from being seen by the common people, etc. based on opinions that I fear are sometimes formed by nodding in an echo-chamber and not through an unmoderated discussion.
I find your idea of thinking too much about something very interesting, and ironically I do want to spend some time thinking that over. As somebody who loves to think about things it caught me off-guard and I have no idea how to respond to it. It kind of hit my weak spot because I realized I almost assume that thinking can only be a good thing, but maybe there is such a thing as overthinking something. I do notice that because of the whole gender discussions going on I have become more paranoid about movies, articles, commercials, anything really, in the sense that I worry from the offset that they might try to be political in an underhanded way. That they try to make it harder for people to have a less emotional discussion. And that's perhaps unhealthy. But it's hard for me to just accept that the solution would be to stop thinking about it so much.
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