@SOedipus: My buddy's wife's family for some reason were involved in bit parts in show business a lot. Two of his brothers-in-law had bit parts in "Addams Family Values" as two of the kids at the camp who hit each other's shoulders on the opening day scene. Their mother (his mother-in-law) was also in "Addams Family Values" as a patron at that cave restaurant they are in at some point.
Anyway, one of those brothers-in-law was also in "Apt Pupil" in a bit part at a relatively early age in his teenage years. He is one of the boys that sued Singer over the under-aged nude scene. Anyway, he pretty much despises the guy and often refers to him negatively, but he refuses to talk about the outcome of the case. Even his parents don't know at this point what became of it because it was settled with him after he came of age. He won't even say if there was a settlement, but the fact that he won't say it indicates to me that there was one. Anyway, the film's nude scenes themselves were, of course, re-shot with adults. If this had only been discovered after release, and the scenes had not been re-shot, it's possible the movie would have been pulled from distribution after the initial release.
Back to the main topic: I've wondered about this question about cancellation a lot lately, particulary around things people said at one time or posted on the internet all of the "woke" stuff awoke in our culture. I think intent has to matter, and I also think if that person has clearly changed or evolved and offered an apology, that this has to matter. I don't like when cancel culture behaves as if there is no way to redeem yourself for something in the past, especially when it's way in the past. People change a LOT. I can see something like this for recent events, but I really don't see why it has to be on-going for things that were simply said in ignorance way in the past when that ignorance has clearly dissipated or been replaced with. As for intent, if someone said something flippantly and didn't intend realize how acidic what he said was, AND offered an apology when it was brought to his attention, then I don't see why it should lead to a permanent disconnection.
I mean, dropping and shunning people over minor issues or even major issues that have been resolved properly is similar to cultic disfellowshipment/excommunication/disconnection behaviors. If we can't allow ourselves to evaluate intent, or cannot allow ourselves to evaluate progress, then I think almost no one could escape the event horizon of cancel culture -- all that's keeping many people from it is the discovery of something they said in their past.
Again though, I don't feel this way about people who are unapologetic for what they said, or in the case of a lack of intent, unapologetic for not making themselves more clear.
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