Why don't girls ever go for nice guys?

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#151 Mikey132
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[QUOTE="Michael0134567"][QUOTE="Pittfan666"]I've been on this Earth 23 years and I still haven't figured the solution to the problem. Nice guys like myself are destined to be forever alone.Riverwolf007

I feel the same way,but I'm only 17.

lol, welp guess what? someday there will be a woman in your life for a few years and you will wish you were alone.

mark my words.

yep

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#152 Mister_Mackey
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Because nice guys aren't "cool". They say that once you get out of highschool, you don't have to deal with petty s*** like that any longer. What a lie that is!
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#153 deactivated-598fc45371265
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Who says the hot/muscular/popular guys aren't nice guys?

Well maybe they're not nice to you, but still, for all you know they could be treating the girl like a goddess.

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#154 Mikey132
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Every time I've been approached by a women in the last 10 years of my life it has soley been because of my looks, nothing else. Physical attraction has and always will be the starting point for a relationship.

Don't online dating sites tell you strait up you'll get more replies with a picture. If you're fat and ugly you can count out that big breasted hourglass blond even if you're fully 100% mentally compatible.

Better luck next time.... plenty of fish in the sea....blah....blah.....blah.

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#155 roleplayer2004
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Women love a challenge. If you want to attract a woman be stong, calm, independant and don't take **** from anyone. The most important thing is to keep them guessing and make them feel excited or as they like to say "ALIVE".

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#156 GazaAli
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look harder.
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#157 mahlasor
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[QUOTE="mahlasor"]

relevant video for this thread:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ejSq-_NzAps&feature=relatedGuys, take what they are sayying seriously, do not delve into cultural relativism.

CptJSparrow

So true. Wish I had learned these things years ago. :lol: People will say it's sexist to say this, I don't care, but most women don't like leading. Even the more aggressive ones don't like making decisions and expect the man to take that role. Doesn't matter if you're a friend or the bf.

So true dude, so true. I disagree with the term sexist, because there is plenty of sexism towards men. By the definition of sexism, if you say something factual like men are stronger than women.. You are a sexist. If you suggest that men and women have different attitudes and behaviors, you are sexist, it is so easy to label someone with such a broad definition. To me it comes off as a socialist word. You also do not want to look young, I am finding this out... It takes a lot of thought to be the "jerk." It speaks about your confidence, they sense it.

Weird fact: women are more likely to go for a guy who does not look at the camera in a picture. I saw it on cracked.com.

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#158 CptJSparrow
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[QUOTE="CptJSparrow"][QUOTE="mahlasor"]

relevant video for this thread:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ejSq-_NzAps&feature=relatedGuys, take what they are sayying seriously, do not delve into cultural relativism.

mahlasor

So true. Wish I had learned these things years ago. :lol: People will say it's sexist to say this, I don't care, but most women don't like leading. Even the more aggressive ones don't like making decisions and expect the man to take that role. Doesn't matter if you're a friend or the bf.

So true dude, so true. I disagree with the term sexist, because there is plenty of sexism towards men. By the definition of sexism, if you say something factual like men are stronger than women.. You are a sexist. If you suggest that men and women have different attitudes and behaviors, you are sexist, it is so easy to label someone with such a broad definition. To me it comes off as a socialist word. You also do not want to look young, I am finding this out... It takes a lot of thought to be the "jerk." It speaks about your confidence, they sense it.

Weird fact: women are more likely to go for a guy who does not look at the camera in a picture. I saw it on cracked.com.

Yeah that comes from OkCupid's statistics http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/the-4-big-myths-of-profile-pictures/
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#160 Jolt_counter119
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I find it funny when guys try to be a girl's friend and get upset when they cant get with her. Here's the thing, she knows you like her and she doesn't want you at all not even a little bit. Here's another fun fact, she is not you're friend, you are HER friend, she is just using you as company. If a girl just wants to be your friend then just say forget it, and ditch her, girls aren't even fun to be around anyways. Girls are a**holes too but guys don't sit around coffee tables on t.v. talking about it.

Just get laid man, approach girls, give off your intentions and forget this whole "loving want to get married and live my life with her forever" thing because it's just going to turn girls off.

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#161 Business_Fun
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There is a difference between being nice and being a dull, spineless tw@t.

cybrcatter

I'm not nice but I am a dull, spineless tw@t. One of those things should cancel the other out, right?

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#162 Am_Confucius
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Girl are like abstract art. If you try to make too much sense out of them, your head will hurt.

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#163 ghoklebutter
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[QUOTE="CptJSparrow"][QUOTE="mahlasor"]

relevant video for this thread:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ejSq-_NzAps&feature=relatedGuys, take what they are sayying seriously, do not delve into cultural relativism.

mahlasor

So true. Wish I had learned these things years ago. :lol: People will say it's sexist to say this, I don't care, but most women don't like leading. Even the more aggressive ones don't like making decisions and expect the man to take that role. Doesn't matter if you're a friend or the bf.

So true dude, so true. I disagree with the term sexist, because there is plenty of sexism towards men. By the definition of sexism, if you say something factual like men are stronger than women.. You are a sexist. If you suggest that men and women have different attitudes and behaviors, you are sexist, it is so easy to label someone with such a broad definition. To me it comes off as a socialist word. You also do not want to look young, I am finding this out... It takes a lot of thought to be the "jerk." It speaks about your confidence, they sense it.

Weird fact: women are more likely to go for a guy who does not look at the camera in a picture. I saw it on cracked.com.

As a feminist, I don't think it's sexist to say that men are typically physically stronger than women, because that's a fact. It is when you try to make it seem as though men and women are from different planets because they have intrinsically different attitudes and behaviors with no exceptions that it all becomes deeply sexist. rofl @ "socialist word." I bet you don't even know what socialism is. Also, Cracked is a poor source for scientific information. That you trust that source says a lot about how you forge your opinions. Living life without prejudice may be harder for some, but it's a lot better than being prejudiced.
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#164 ganon92
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Some girls like bad boys, some like nice guys. Some like both.

What is pretty much uniformly unattractive to women is weakness. I think that maybe the spineless sort are too inclined to believe they are "nice guys".

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#165 gun65
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I am a typical nice guy like you describe and my fiance went for me, not all girls go for the self obssesed bad boy or whatever other stereotype you'd like to throw out there. And it's not like she didnt have options, she turned down lots of guys before me.

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#166 lexika
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I'd love to go for nice guys...I would in a heartbeat if I wasn't so shy and if they approached me first.
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#167 Am_Confucius
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I'd love to go for nice guys...I would in a heartbeat if I wasn't so shy and if they approached me first.lexika
You are a girl. You have nothing to worry about.
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#168 themajormayor
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[QUOTE="lexika"]I'd love to go for nice guys...I would in a heartbeat if I wasn't so shy and if they approached me first.Am_Confucius
You are a girl. You have nothing to worry about.

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#169 TonyDanzaFan
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You can be nice and get a girl. The problem is that women don't perceive nice as nice, they perceive it as needy, and clingy. Chicks don't want that. Be polite, be gentleman-like, but don't overdo it.
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[QUOTE="Am_Confucius"][QUOTE="lexika"]I'd love to go for nice guys...I would in a heartbeat if I wasn't so shy and if they approached me first.themajormayor
You are a girl. You have nothing to worry about.

Lisa! (I actually saw the entire damn thing.)
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#171 RandomWinner
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Because they're full of crap.

They know they want me. Can't wait for college, I feel like they'll be lining up based on my HS track record.

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#172 PsychoLemons
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I could say the same for guys, for liking/preferring "bad" girls. But that's just me.

On topic: There is a difference between someone who is "nice" to someone who is "kind".

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#173 shadowkiller11
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I could say the same for guys, for liking/preferring "bad" girls. But that's just me.

On topic: There is a difference between someone who is "nice" to someone who is "kind".

PsychoLemons

OOhhh noo well not for me, bad girl's are draining emotionally and psychologically. Nice cute girls are the best. Then again I have classic tastes and views.

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#174 deactivated-5f9e3c6a83e51
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Probably for the same reason you dont go for ugly nice girls.

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#175 DeadMan1290
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I've been on this Earth 23 years and I still haven't figured the solution to the problem. Nice guys like myself are destined to be forever alone.Pittfan666

Because girls like a-holes who will treat them like sh!t so they can cry about how much they love him and can't forget him on Facebook for their 10,00 friends to comment and like.

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#176 trastamad03
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Meh, go Single. You're FREE! :D
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#177 mitu123
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Girls want their guys to be tough...

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#178 Andrew_Xavier
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[QUOTE="lexika"]I'd love to go for nice guys...I would in a heartbeat if I wasn't so shy and if they approached me first.Am_Confucius
You are a girl. You have nothing to worry about.

A very small percentage of girls have an easy time finding dates. The rest? Be they slightly heavy, awkward looking, overly thin, overly fat, plain, average, etc have just as hard a time as guys in finding dates. To think differently is ignorant.
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#179 noscope-ak47
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Ok what does the TC look like and how old is he ??

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#180 Andrew_Xavier
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Ok what does the TC look like and how old is he ??

noscope-ak47
Honestly, because he is claiming to be "the nice guy", a creeper.
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#181 ghoklebutter
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Girls want their guys to be tough...

mitu123
Nice=/=not tough
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#182 mitu123
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[QUOTE="mitu123"]

Girls want their guys to be tough...

ghoklebutter

Nice=/=not tough

You know what I mean.>.>

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[QUOTE="Am_Confucius"][QUOTE="lexika"]I'd love to go for nice guys...I would in a heartbeat if I wasn't so shy and if they approached me first.Andrew_Xavier
You are a girl. You have nothing to worry about.

A very small percentage of girls have an easy time finding dates. The rest? Be they slightly heavy, awkward looking, overly thin, overly fat, plain, average, etc have just as hard a time as guys in finding dates. To think differently is ignorant.

lol this is so wrong. A girl will almost always have a guy. I've seen some girls and think wow they're gonna need to put in some real work. But to think girls have it as hard as guys in getting dates is crazy talk.

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[QUOTE="Andrew_Xavier"][QUOTE="Am_Confucius"] You are a girl. You have nothing to worry about.Jolt_counter119

A very small percentage of girls have an easy time finding dates. The rest? Be they slightly heavy, awkward looking, overly thin, overly fat, plain, average, etc have just as hard a time as guys in finding dates. To think differently is ignorant.

lol this is so wrong. A girl will almost always have a guy. I've seen some girls and think wow they're gonna need to put in some real work. But to think girls have it as hard as guys in getting dates is crazy talk.

Not really many guys won't even go talk to a 8 or better and the 5 and below most guys don't want unless they drunk. Then many women in the middle won't make the 1st move if a guy gets too many looks.

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#185 Jolt_counter119
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[QUOTE="Jolt_counter119"]

[QUOTE="Andrew_Xavier"] A very small percentage of girls have an easy time finding dates. The rest? Be they slightly heavy, awkward looking, overly thin, overly fat, plain, average, etc have just as hard a time as guys in finding dates. To think differently is ignorant. noscope-ak47

lol this is so wrong. A girl will almost always have a guy. I've seen some girls and think wow they're gonna need to put in some real work. But to think girls have it as hard as guys in getting dates is crazy talk.

Not really many guys won't even go talk to a 8 or better and the 5 and below most guys don't want unless they drunk. Then many women in the middle won't make the 1st move if a guy gets too many looks.

There are a lot of nervous guys but no shortage of guys willing to walk right up to them. And from probably a 5-3 lol I see many with boyfriends and desperate guys or 5-2 level guys will go after them. It's the 1-2s that are out of luck. I'm in college now and pretty much every chick in all my classes gets flirted with.

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#186 Guybrush_3
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[QUOTE="mitu123"]

Girls want their guys to be tough...

ghoklebutter

Nice=/=not tough

"Nice" is girl code for wimp (physical or mental)

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#187 Jericho_Tanner
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[QUOTE="mitu123"]

Girls want their guys to be tough...

ghoklebutter
Nice=/=not tough

i agree
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#188 noscope-ak47
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[QUOTE="noscope-ak47"]

[QUOTE="Jolt_counter119"]

lol this is so wrong. A girl will almost always have a guy. I've seen some girls and think wow they're gonna need to put in some real work. But to think girls have it as hard as guys in getting dates is crazy talk.

Jolt_counter119

Not really many guys won't even go talk to a 8 or better and the 5 and below most guys don't want unless they drunk. Then many women in the middle won't make the 1st move if a guy gets too many looks.

There are a lot of nervous guys but no shortage of guys willing to walk right up to them. And from probably a 5-3 lol I see many with boyfriends and desperate guys or 5-2 level guys will go after them. It's the 1-2s that are out of luck. I'm in college now and pretty much every chick in all my classes gets flirted with.

Ok college is every womans dream cause guys is beating down women left and right at parties. Guys is all about stats in college but after that quality is what matters.

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#189 Andrew_Xavier
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[QUOTE="noscope-ak47"]

[QUOTE="Jolt_counter119"]

lol this is so wrong. A girl will almost always have a guy. I've seen some girls and think wow they're gonna need to put in some real work. But to think girls have it as hard as guys in getting dates is crazy talk.

Jolt_counter119

Not really many guys won't even go talk to a 8 or better and the 5 and below most guys don't want unless they drunk. Then many women in the middle won't make the 1st move if a guy gets too many looks.

There are a lot of nervous guys but no shortage of guys willing to walk right up to them. And from probably a 5-3 lol I see many with boyfriends and desperate guys or 5-2 level guys will go after them. It's the 1-2s that are out of luck. I'm in college now and pretty much every chick in all my classes gets flirted with.

I'm in University and almost every guy I know has a gf...dates are ridiculously easy to find for everyone in University. Also, just because a creepy letchy guy hits on a girl, doesn't mean she wants to date a creepy letchy guy. Same goes for guys, just because a girl flirts with you, doesn't mean you want to date her.
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#190 bebexo
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Girls are already emotional and sensitive as it is. I think there's a difference between a "sweet" guy and a "all round nice" guy... A girl wouldn't want someone to break down with her, she wants someone to be able to hold her and tell her it's going to be okay. A girl likes to know she's going to be taken care of, and not have to always baby the guy. Not saying girls want jerks, we still want that guy thats sweet kind and caring... but yeah I think there's a line.
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#191 mahlasor
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[QUOTE="mahlasor"]

[QUOTE="CptJSparrow"] So true. Wish I had learned these things years ago. :lol: People will say it's sexist to say this, I don't care, but most women don't like leading. Even the more aggressive ones don't like making decisions and expect the man to take that role. Doesn't matter if you're a friend or the bf.ghoklebutter

So true dude, so true. I disagree with the term sexist, because there is plenty of sexism towards men. By the definition of sexism, if you say something factual like men are stronger than women.. You are a sexist. If you suggest that men and women have different attitudes and behaviors, you are sexist, it is so easy to label someone with such a broad definition. To me it comes off as a socialist word. You also do not want to look young, I am finding this out... It takes a lot of thought to be the "jerk." It speaks about your confidence, they sense it.

Weird fact: women are more likely to go for a guy who does not look at the camera in a picture. I saw it on cracked.com.

As a feminist, I don't think it's sexist to say that men are typically physically stronger than women, because that's a fact. It is when you try to make it seem as though men and women are from different planets because they have intrinsically different attitudes and behaviors with no exceptions that it all becomes deeply sexist. rofl @ "socialist word." I bet you don't even know what socialism is. Also, Cracked is a poor source for scientific information. That you trust that source says a lot about how you forge your opinions. Living life without prejudice may be harder for some, but it's a lot better than being prejudiced.

Stfu with your cultural relativism talk, it contributes to nothing of value. Sure everyone can do whatever they want, but there is the way of doing things that is universally going to succeed. We know that for the most part being the nice guy is going to fail. Well my friend, there are a lot of man facts you need to educate yourself on "feminist," men being physically stronger makes a WORLD of difference in shapping attitudes and behaviors. To be honest, I really care for women as I do for my own $hit. The only thing women have going for them is that I am innately attracted to their body, and only at first glance. I am actually quite neutral when comes to women, I can say that I can talk to any dude of any age and have very few problems. But just about every girl under the age of 20 and slightly above, has been a pain in the ass. Though I think this is personal experiences, also to my age, and people I just happened to associate with, so take with a grain of salt. Honestly I have never dated/asked out girls, but I know for people who are trying to do all that, there is way to increase your chance at success. Just be sure to read this before proceeding. http://www.cracked.com/article_18440_6-things-men-do-to-get-laid-that-science-says-turn-women-off.html I LMAO at the "as a feminist", you might as well say "as a socialist." Btw feminism has a negative connotation, my mom even told me not to say that word, and I thought she was one of them at the time.

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[QUOTE="ghoklebutter"][QUOTE="mitu123"]

Girls want their guys to be tough...

Guybrush_3

Nice=/=not tough

"Nice" is girl code for wimp (physical or mental)

Yeah. You can be a nice guy but you don't want girls to say you're nice. Weird, I know.
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#193 CptJSparrow
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Stfu with your cultural relativism talk, it contributes to nothing of value. Sure everyone can do whatever they want, but there is the way of doing things that is universally going to succeed. We know that for the most part being the nice guy is going to fail. Well my friend, there are a lot of man facts you need to educate yourself on "feminist," men being physically stronger makes a WORLD of difference in shapping attitudes and behaviors. To be honest, I really care for women as I do for my own $hit. The only thing women have going for them is that I am innately attracted to their body, and only at first glance. I am actually quite neutral when comes to women, I can say that I can talk to any dude of any age and have very few problems. But just about every girl under the age of 20 and slightly above, has been a pain in the ass. Though I think this is personal experiences, also to my age, and people I just happened to associate with, so take with a grain of salt. Honestly I have never dated/asked out girls, but I know for people who are trying to do all that, there is way to increase your chance at success. Just be sure to read this before proceeding. http://www.cracked.com/article_18440_6-things-men-do-to-get-laid-that-science-says-turn-women-off.html I LMAO at the "as a feminist", you might as well say "as a socialist." Btw feminism has a negative connotation, my mom even told me not to say that word, and I thought she was one of them at the time.

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Just ignore that guy. Either he'll figure out we're right when he's ready to or he won't. He hasn't the experience to realise he's putting women on pedestals like any AFC.
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#194 ghoklebutter
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[QUOTE="ghoklebutter"][QUOTE="mahlasor"]

So true dude, so true. I disagree with the term sexist, because there is plenty of sexism towards men. By the definition of sexism, if you say something factual like men are stronger than women.. You are a sexist. If you suggest that men and women have different attitudes and behaviors, you are sexist, it is so easy to label someone with such a broad definition. To me it comes off as a socialist word. You also do not want to look young, I am finding this out... It takes a lot of thought to be the "jerk." It speaks about your confidence, they sense it.

Weird fact: women are more likely to go for a guy who does not look at the camera in a picture. I saw it on cracked.com.

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As a feminist, I don't think it's sexist to say that men are typically physically stronger than women, because that's a fact. It is when you try to make it seem as though men and women are from different planets because they have intrinsically different attitudes and behaviors with no exceptions that it all becomes deeply sexist. rofl @ "socialist word." I bet you don't even know what socialism is. Also, Cracked is a poor source for scientific information. That you trust that source says a lot about how you forge your opinions. Living life without prejudice may be harder for some, but it's a lot better than being prejudiced.

Stfu with your cultural relativism talk, it contributes to nothing of value. Sure everyone can do whatever they want, but there is the way of doing things that is universally going to succeed. We know that for the most part being the nice guy is going to fail. Well my friend, there are a lot of man facts you need to educate yourself on "feminist," men being physically stronger makes a WORLD of difference in shapping attitudes and behaviors. To be honest, I really care for women as I do for my own $hit. The only thing women have going for them is that I am innately attracted to their body, and only at first glance. I am actually quite neutral when comes to women, I can say that I can talk to any dude of any age and have very few problems. But just about every girl under the age of 20 and slightly above, has been a pain in the ass. Though I think this is personal experiences, also to my age, and people I just happened to associate with, so take with a grain of salt. Honestly I have never dated/asked out girls, but I know for people who are trying to do all that, there is way to increase your chance at success. Just be sure to read this before proceeding. http://www.cracked.com/article_18440_6-things-men-do-to-get-laid-that-science-says-turn-women-off.html I LMAO at the "as a feminist", you might as well say "as a socialist." Btw feminism has a negative connotation, my mom even told me not to say that word, and I thought she was one of them at the time.

I hate cultural relativism just as much as you, so I'm not sure what your problem is. Anyway, first, nice doesn't have to mean "spineless." Second, your claim that men's typically greater physical strength has some significant bearing on shaping attitudes and behavior is completely unfounded - it is not backed up by reliable research. Third, your personal experience and "man facts" are meaningless to me. Forth, Cracked is a poor source for scientific information. Fifth, you have no idea what socialism is if you're making that asinine comparison. Finally, feminism only has a negative connotation these days because people keep misunderstanding its main goals. Feminism is concerned with eradicating sexism and patriarchy and promoting social, economic, and political equality between the sexes. Once a feminist believes in female or male superiority, that person is no longer a feminist by definition. Check and mate. I will not argue with you any further. I hope you take the time to think about my points honestly, but I won't expect you to do that. Good day, sir.
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#195 ghoklebutter
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[QUOTE="mahlasor"]

Stfu with your cultural relativism talk, it contributes to nothing of value. Sure everyone can do whatever they want, but there is the way of doing things that is universally going to succeed. We know that for the most part being the nice guy is going to fail. Well my friend, there are a lot of man facts you need to educate yourself on "feminist," men being physically stronger makes a WORLD of difference in shapping attitudes and behaviors. To be honest, I really care for women as I do for my own $hit. The only thing women have going for them is that I am innately attracted to their body, and only at first glance. I am actually quite neutral when comes to women, I can say that I can talk to any dude of any age and have very few problems. But just about every girl under the age of 20 and slightly above, has been a pain in the ass. Though I think this is personal experiences, also to my age, and people I just happened to associate with, so take with a grain of salt. Honestly I have never dated/asked out girls, but I know for people who are trying to do all that, there is way to increase your chance at success. Just be sure to read this before proceeding. http://www.cracked.com/article_18440_6-things-men-do-to-get-laid-that-science-says-turn-women-off.html I LMAO at the "as a feminist", you might as well say "as a socialist." Btw feminism has a negative connotation, my mom even told me not to say that word, and I thought she was one of them at the time.

CptJSparrow
Just ignore that guy. Either he'll figure out we're right when he's ready to or he won't. He hasn't the experience to realise he's putting women on pedestals like any AFC.

If personal experience is enough to make me forsake feminism, then I should never call myself a feminist. Also, I don't put any group on a pedestal.
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#196 THE_DRUGGIE
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Girls are already emotional and sensitive as it is. I think there's a difference between a "sweet" guy and a "all round nice" guy... A girl wouldn't want someone to break down with her, she wants someone to be able to hold her and tell her it's going to be okay. A girl likes to know she's going to be taken care of, and not have to always baby the guy. Not saying girls want jerks, we still want that guy thats sweet kind and caring... but yeah I think there's a line.bebexo

WHAT ABOUT if there was a really tough girl? Would she want an emotional and sensitive man?

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#197 CptJSparrow
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[QUOTE="bebexo"]Girls are already emotional and sensitive as it is. I think there's a difference between a "sweet" guy and a "all round nice" guy... A girl wouldn't want someone to break down with her, she wants someone to be able to hold her and tell her it's going to be okay. A girl likes to know she's going to be taken care of, and not have to always baby the guy. Not saying girls want jerks, we still want that guy thats sweet kind and caring... but yeah I think there's a line.THE_DRUGGIE

WHAT ABOUT if there was a really tough girl? Would she want an emotional and sensitive man?

Not even close. :lol: The tough ones can't stand a guy who has any insecurity and meekness.
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#198 chad_daddy
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Well cocky guys tend to be more cocky cause thier well equipped for certain situations. Example I always carry a 11 inch sword with me so yeah im confident, girls dig that
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#199 THE_DRUGGIE
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[QUOTE="THE_DRUGGIE"]

[QUOTE="bebexo"]Girls are already emotional and sensitive as it is. I think there's a difference between a "sweet" guy and a "all round nice" guy... A girl wouldn't want someone to break down with her, she wants someone to be able to hold her and tell her it's going to be okay. A girl likes to know she's going to be taken care of, and not have to always baby the guy. Not saying girls want jerks, we still want that guy thats sweet kind and caring... but yeah I think there's a line.CptJSparrow

WHAT ABOUT if there was a really tough girl? Would she want an emotional and sensitive man?

Not even close. :lol: The tough ones can't stand a guy who has any insecurity and meekness.

What if they got issues and want a punching bag for a partner?

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#200 CptJSparrow
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What if they got issues and want a punching bag for a partner?

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That'd definitely be the exception.