Why Do Female Gamers Get Treated Differently Than Their Male Counterparts?

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#51 HellZax
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Because i have 1600 microsoft points, and they have live visions cams XD

JK

i dont get mad when i die no matter the gender

but race is an entirely different thing....:D

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#52 themagicbum9720
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i hope none of the girls here were ever asked for explicit photos. this one guy on steam asked a girl i know for some pictures. we were weirded out by it.

but other than that, most of the guys i play with treat girls just fine.

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#53 vaultboy_ninja
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I don't think I get treated differently.

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#54 mitu123
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I could really care less. I'm probably more of a gamer than some boys. :P

I have over 400 games and counting. And many consoles.

Lilyanne46

We need to be friends, we have something in common.:D

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#55 HellZax
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i hope none of the girls here were ever asked for explicit photos. this one guy on steam asked a girl i know for some pictures. we were weirded out by it.

but other than that, most of the guys i play with treat girls just fine.

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i lol'd just now

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#56 Espada12
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because like in the rest of the world there is some unwritten code that allows it.

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#57 KungfuKitten
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I remember the day people started singing, in unison, "there is a w.... in the house"...
Times change though.
I don't think there is really that much different treatment anymore.
It depends what people You put up with.
If You pay attention a lot of boys get a hard time online as well.
The people who are bad are much more present than the people who are nice. But there are many more nice people than bad people.

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#58 mitu123
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I remember playing with a friend of mine on XBL. I used to lol like mad when she used to put down all the 13-16 year olds for giving her lip. She was lethal at COD4 and Halo3.

clyde46

Halo 3 eh, she sounds sweet.

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#59 MrsSolidSnake
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When I be revealed to be female, they didn't go easy. But then again it was the first time I'd ever played CoD and I would have got pwned even if they were going easy on me :)

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#61 the_kidisblack
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Men are probably distracted, wondering 'where is my dinner?'
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#62 deactivated-5e0e425ee91d8
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When playing a game, I often avoid letting on that I'm female because it tends to become a distraction. If I really want to talk on voice chat, I will, but if I don't have anything to say, then I won't just talk for the sake of talking because I don't want people to bug me about being a girl. It's happened before and it gets annoying. I think a lot of male gamers just get excited that there's a female who shares a hobby with them...and sometimes the preteen boy gamers like to just be annoying.t3hrubikscube
Probably this. the pre-puberbecent boys are all like OMGGIRLINDAGAEM! and go all kinds of nuts. personaly dosen't bother me much to have a female in the game. i'll still play as hard as i always to
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#63 joao_22990
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Every man is afraid to lose in anything to a girl. They have to grow out of it by the time they realize it's stupid. Bad thing is, most don't. It probably has something to do with how the man is the physically stronger sex, and to men being strong physicality is and important rank to have. They lose to someone physically "lesser" , they are afraid to admit it.

That's why people still call gaming a kid's passtime. Most of us are nothing but immature kids.

Also, never underestimate the stupidity of the human mind.

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#64 mitu123
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[QUOTE="mitu123"]

[QUOTE="Lilyanne46"]

I could really care less. I'm probably more of a gamer than some boys. :P

I have over 400 games and counting. And many consoles.

Lilyanne46

We need to be friends, we have something in common.:D

Awesome! :D -high fives-

I'll track you. *Gives hug*:P

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#67 joao_22990
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That's not always the case...

Lilyanne46
No offense, but while not always being the case, it's the norm. It's how humans defined their roles in our earliest days.
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#69 joao_22990
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None taken. I see your point and it is indeed valid. Though, a lot of boys I know accept me, and even consider me friends I guess, because I love video games. They are also weaker than I am though. :P

Lilyanne46
Yeah, i'm probably weaker than you too, girl. You should find solace in having such good friends. Unfortunately, we must recognize that not everyone is as good as we'd hope. Kinda meh.
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#70 MrLions
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I treat everyone the same online I troll them :|

But think of it if your a lonely male with a penis and are playing video games which is male dominant you would freak out if a girl was online playing with you too! :O

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#72 freek666
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I don't discriminate, I domm them just as hard as the guys.

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#73 MrLions
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I don't discriminate, I domm them just as hard as the guys.

freek666
Except for me :| I'll make a hole in your face with my AWP :|
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#74 Travo_basic
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I've never had problems with being beaten by a woman in videogames.
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#75 mitu123
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[QUOTE="mitu123"]

[QUOTE="Lilyanne46"]

Awesome! :D -high fives-

Lilyanne46

I'll track you. *Gives hug*:P

-hugs back- :D

Nice, but about 400 games, that's a lot of games, that's probably around how much I played, maybe more, I should write down a list, even if it would take me forever to do so.:P

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#76 PolskaKing
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I dont know if I have ever been beaten by a girl online...but if so...she was dam good then. :P
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#78 shoryuken_
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Female gamers are kind of like Legendary Pokemon, they get so much attention simply by virtue of the fact that they are "Legendary." People tend to overlook the fact that they are generally weird and vastly overrate their own skills.


To date, I've never lost to a female gamer, even when I go easy on them.


You shouldn't judge others by their appearances or your own preconceptions. Whether it be male or female, I won't lose.

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#80 Treflis
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Plenty of female gamers has defeated me when I've played online, I kinda find it refreshing when you hear a girl give you that " Sorry for killing you" in a obviously mocking tone over the " PWNED NOOB!" that most male gamers spew out into their mic.
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#81 mitu123
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[QUOTE="mitu123"]

[QUOTE="Lilyanne46"]

-hugs back- :D

Lilyanne46

Nice, but about 400 games, that's a lot of games, that's probably around how much I played, maybe more, I should write down a list, even if it would take me forever to do so.:P

I've played more than 400, but 400 is all I own. :P My cousins are too greedy to let me have some of their games though. :x It's funny how I give them one, but they always buy me something I already have. So, I sell it and use the cash to buy a new game. :lol:

Wow, that's weird of them to do that, but in the end it seems to help you in a way, sounds like you're still doing well, congrats.

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#82 mitu123
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[QUOTE="shoryuken_"]

Female gamers are kind of like Legendary Pokemon, they get so much attention simply by virtue of the fact that they are "Legendary." People tend to overlook the fact that they are generally weird and vastly overrate their own skills.


To date, I've never lost to a female gamer, even when I go easy on them.


You shouldn't judge others by their appearances or your own preconceptions. Whether it be male or female, I won't lose.

Lilyanne46

But, I really don't like to compete. I wanna play to get better, not to prove I'm better than someone else. :)

That's how I feel now, after all, it's just a game.

I love to talk, don't I?:D

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#85 II_Seraphim_II
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There are some idiotic gamers who bend over backwards for female gamers but those guys are idiots, as i mentioned. On the other hand, I hate female gamers who act like they should be treated special.
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#87 dracula_16
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The ones that get treated differently want to be treated differently. The female gamers that get a lot of attention pretty much bring it on themselves. If they didn't want attention, they wouldn't be advertising the fact that they're a girl at every opportunity.

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#88 freek666
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[QUOTE="freek666"]

I don't discriminate, I domm them just as hard as the guys.

MrLions

Except for me :| I'll make a hole in your face with my AWP :|

Good luck bud, shame I don't play CSS much anymore (damn you Heroes of Newerth)

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#89 shoryuken_
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No need to go easy on me! :P I beat a lot of my cousins. They're all boys.

But, I really don't like to compete. I wanna play to get better, not to prove I'm better than someone else. :)

Lilyanne46

It must be a difference of attitude I guess. I get enjoyment out of competition and the thrill of a challenge. I am of the opinion that if I lose at something, it's not because the other person was too good, but that I wasn't good enough at that time. Again, it must be a difference in attitude. I find competition exhilarating. If someone challenges me, it's almost like picking a fight. I don't settle for anything but the best, whether it be in gaming, academics, tennis, etc. I don't really care about proving who I'm better than. I was just stating a simple fact that I'm better than the people whom I play.


And about going easy on you...I've noticed that bad things tend to happen when I use 100% of my potential. People have started crying, deleted their accounts, and have quit gaming when I don't hold back.

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#90 HellZax
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[QUOTE="mitu123"]

[QUOTE="Lilyanne46"]

I've played more than 400, but 400 is all I own. :P My cousins are too greedy to let me have some of their games though. :x It's funny how I give them one, but they always buy me something I already have. So, I sell it and use the cash to buy a new game. :lol:

Lilyanne46

Wow, that's weird of them to do that, but in the end it seems to help you in a way, sounds like you're still doing well, congrats.

It is weird. :P

i quoted a lot of peoplez at once! Go Zack!

but yeah, i get beat by everyone at everygame, i just accept that i suxors to the maxors

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#92 michael_1234576
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I have no problem with female gamers, I know quite a few IRL.
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#93 mitu123
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[QUOTE="mitu123"]

[QUOTE="Lilyanne46"]

But, I really don't like to compete. I wanna play to get better, not to prove I'm better than someone else. :)

Lilyanne46

That's how I feel now, after all, it's just a game.

I love to talk, don't I?:D

Nothing wrong with that! :P Not only do girl stick together like a pack of wolves, we talk a lot. :P

After going out with some girls, I can see that, which is a good thing. Well, looks like I'm going to have go now, nice chatting with you.

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#95 HellZax
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[QUOTE="Lilyanne46"]

[QUOTE="mitu123"] That's how I feel now, after all, it's just a game.

I love to talk, don't I?:D

mitu123

Nothing wrong with that! :P Not only do girl stick together like a pack of wolves, we talk a lot. :P

After going out with some girls, I can see that, which is a good thing. Well, looks like I'm going to have go now, nice chatting with you.

im a one man pack of wolves :P

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#96 garrett_duffman
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because male gamers are so desperate for female acceptance...
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#97 needled24-7
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well the stereotypical gamer guy doesn't get a lot of interaction with girls, so when they do interact with one over xbox live, they're not really sure what to do, so their brain kinda goes squirly

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#98 hiphopballer
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lol i dont go easy on nobody when i play any shooter game i just do what i usually do...

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#99 needled24-7
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[QUOTE="Lilyanne46"]

No need to go easy on me! :P I beat a lot of my cousins. They're all boys.

But, I really don't like to compete. I wanna play to get better, not to prove I'm better than someone else. :)

shoryuken_

And about going easy on you...I've noticed that bad things tend to happen when I use 100% of my potential. People have started crying, deleted their accounts, and have quit gaming when I don't hold back.

oh you badass :P

honestly i have a hard time believing that but if it's true then that's awesome lol

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#100 LP4EVA2005
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Beacause "Boys rule and girls drool!" :P