I mean one minute women can appear to be happy being with a certain someone or being good friends with someone and they keep up that appearance for a long period of time, then at some point out of nowhere they can up and decide that the person they were so comfortable with weren't right for them. The excuses I've heard are"I just don't like you", them complaining that things are going too good with the relationship(!?),or they were holding them back, etc.
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From what I've seen and just experienced, they make an excuse saying that the problem built up during some period of time where everything seemed cool, but I'm thinking if that's the case how come they wouldn't speak up and let it be known so it could be worked out together BEFORE that "problem" gotten so big? And another thing I've wittnessed no matter how much good a person can seem to be doing for them, whenever they meet someone else or heck go back to an ex-boyfriend or a previous friend, they may decide that the person they were with previously was doing bad and that all the positive things or good times that came out from the relationship will all have been for nothing or a big time killer.
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So my question is why are women so indecisive? I mean I understand men are just as indecisive but this question is being directed at women. Plus I just had a friend tell me about his relationship and this question just popped into my head. Could the reason really be as simple as the person just getting tired of being with the person, or changing ones mind? If that's the case then is there any way to keep a relationship strong if someone could just up and decide they can make up an excuse and no longer care?
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