Why are guys sometimes mean to girls they like?

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#51 DigitalExile
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I was with a guy who used to tease me 'for fun', until the day he found it really fun to break my fingers a week before my audition to play violin for the ESO, anyway.

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I think guys get jealous that said girl hasn't chosen them, so will lash out, and call her names and things.

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Hmm, well as I said in my last post teasing is sort of a way of playing in the same vein as teasing my sister or any other friends. Only if it's directed at a girl I like it's just got a hidden meaning. It's all about feeling comfortable enough around someone that you CAN tease them, and it can be playful and a way of flirting.

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#52 Half-Way
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i dont think there is an universal explanation for that. As i think some boys do it for different reasons.

I also noticed there are some boys who are very mean, while others do it in a more flirty manner.

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#53 MissLibrarian
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Hmm, well as I said in my last post teasing is sort of a way of playing in the same vein as teasing my sister or any other friends. Only if it's directed at a girl I like it's just got a hidden meaning. It's all about feeling comfortable enough around someone that you CAN tease them, and it can be playful and a way of flirting.DigitalExile
I think it depends on the type of teasing of course, flirty-teasing is fun and it's obvious enough to most girls I think, when a guy is just playing with them. My opinion on this subject is entirely screwed of course :P Meh it's difficult for me to try and explain what I mean without a wall of text.
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#54 supergoat777
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cause guys have cooties?Allicrombie

Never thought of that one

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#55 supergoat777
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[QUOTE="Lonelynight"][QUOTE="Barbariser"]I don't know how it's like in other cultures, but guys here aren't being "serious" when they say apparently "demeaning" things. It's pretty much all playing around. Get past the joking and insults and the dudes end up being somewhat nice dudes.Barbariser

Is it usually the pretties one who gets insulted the most from your area too?

Yes, unattractive girls don't get any attention whatsoever.

Yeah they do. By unattractive guys.

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#57 J-man45
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Those kinds of girls aren't worth your time.

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#58 Michael0134567
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i honestly don't understand how some guys are so popular when they're complete d-bags.

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#59 Nifty_Shark
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I too use the put down/little jab/slightly picking on method. I don't even think about it consciously. It just happens.
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#60 SaDiZTiKStyLeZ
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I have murdered every female that I have liked.
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#61 MFDOOM1983
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Because they're immature and don't know how to express their feelings like adults?
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#62 Fundai
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Because they're immature and don't know how to express their feelings like adults?MFDOOM1983

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#63 HeavyMetalKirby
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Girls don't like jerks. they might end up dating one but will soon break up because of the way they treat them. Trust me. Girls enjoy more meaningfull relationships with guys they can trust than jerks who treat them wrong. have you ever noticied girls talking about there exes and broke up with THEM and how much of a JERK they were vs. the other relationships that are with caring men where the girl says she misses him and will always remember him.

anyway back on topic. The only time guys are mean to girls is in highschool and vice versa. that kind of behavior should emediatly scease after 12 grade if you ever want to get a girl.

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#64 -Tish-
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Ummm I doubt they're actually being "mean"; more likey teasing them in a friendly way. It's called flirting.
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#65 muffincakes87
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Because it's the jest of flirting...

What you call mean is what other guys just call playful. For example, I know a girl that I make fun of because of her nasal voice. She laughs and doesn't take offense to it. There is obviously a line you don't cross when you are being offensive than playful.

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#66 frostybanana
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Girls do the same thing. You just don't notice because they mature faster.
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#67 mlbslugger86
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I'm a nice guy who might pick on a girl not really tobe mean, more like poking her in her stomach.

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#68 hellraiser_07
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[QUOTE="MistressMinako"]Have you never called your friend an insulting name? Even if they are being mean, they still care about you. Most girls don't like nice guys (even if they say that they do) because most nice guys are either boring or ugly (or both). So, while some guys are on their soapbox announcing how nice they are, maybe they should change something about themselves or just hope someone comes along. To be honest, the nice guys I have been with, the relationship wasn't really exciting or special in any way. I had more fun with the jerks I was with. Same goes for guys.

So very true, it goes the same for both sides just put urself in the position where a girl is mean to u, ur gonna like her way way more than the girl whos constantly being nice to you for no reason cause u just met the girl i mean it doesnt make sense itll just make her look weak desperate n evetually less attractive. Get over it "nice guys" u shud stop sucking up so much to girls cause ud treat the girl the same way if she did that with u...
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#69 DigitalExile
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#70 CoolSkAGuy
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Probably the same reason girls kicked me in the groin in middle/high school.... I don't know.....
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#71 Rod90
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[QUOTE="Fundai"]

[QUOTE="supergoat777"]

[QUOTE="Desulated"]

My guess is that some girls like guys who treat them like garden tools and order them around like slaves.

I don't think girls like em bad boys. I mean in real life not the movies.

Not Bad boys, but i notice that girls give more attention to those that DONT respect them.

That's a sad truth.