Who suffers more from love? Men or Women?

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#1 Ricardomz
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So I just started this discussion with my girlfriend and she keeps attacking men, saying that they are the ones that make girls suffer the most. In a part I agree, but, girls are also very deceivers (sorry for grammar) and liars.

Who do you think suffers more?

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#2 jim_shorts
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I don't think it's love that causes the suffering.

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#3 CycleOfViolence
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Depends on the person and the relationship.

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#4 deactivated-5f9e3c6a83e51
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What do you mean by suffering? Who loses more in a failed relationship?

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#5 Ricardomz
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What do you mean by suffering? Who loses more in a failed relationship?

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Yes, that aswell.

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#6 Canuck3000
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It depends on the situation.
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#7 XilePrincess
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Women because they allow themselves to. Men just eventually pick themselves up and carry on. Women obsess. They think it's because they were fat, they had this or that wrong with them, maybe the guy was cheating, blah blah blah they never let it go. So it's their own fault, really. As for non-self-inflicted suffering, I think it's about the same.
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#8 Legend002
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Is this about money?

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#9 Blue-Sky
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I don't think it's love that causes the suffering.

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#10 deactivated-58061ea11c905
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Men suffer more from women in my opinion. It's much harder growing up as a man these days than a woman.

A good-looking woman has it much easier to find love these days. That's because all she he has to do is to look good. Beautiful women really rule the world.

These is not the case for men however. Poor men who are not so physically desirable have it much more difficult to get love from women these days.

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#11 BossPerson
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Men suffer more from women in my opinion. It's much harder growing up as a man these days than a woman.

A good-looking woman has it much easier to find love these days. That's because all she he has to do is to look good. Beautiful women really rule the world.

These is not the case for men however. Poor men who are not so physically desirable have it much more difficult to get love from women these days.

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Ive seen a lot of ugly ass guys get hot women just become a douch*bag, it'll increase your confidence
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#12 kingkong0124
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[QUOTE="pariah3"]

Men suffer more from women in my opinion. It's much harder growing up as a man these days than a woman.

A good-looking woman has it much easier to find love these days. That's because all she he has to do is to look good. Beautiful women really rule the world.

These is not the case for men however. Poor men who are not so physically desirable have it much more difficult to get love from women these days.

BossPerson

Ive seen a lot of ugly ass guys get hot women just become a douch*bag, it'll increase your confidence

if you're a dbag, you won't attract the right type of girls though

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#13 BossPerson
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[QUOTE="BossPerson"][QUOTE="pariah3"]

Men suffer more from women in my opinion. It's much harder growing up as a man these days than a woman.

A good-looking woman has it much easier to find love these days. That's because all she he has to do is to look good. Beautiful women really rule the world.

These is not the case for men however. Poor men who are not so physically desirable have it much more difficult to get love from women these days.

kingkong0124

Ive seen a lot of ugly ass guys get hot women just become a douch*bag, it'll increase your confidence

if you're a dbag, you won't attract the right type of girls though

....pfff....... yea you can. I've seen "nice girls" go out with dbags all the time. All though that kind of stopped after high school
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#14 kingkong0124
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....pfff....... yea you can. I've seen "nice girls" go out with dbags all the time. All though that kind of stopped after high schoolBossPerson

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are you part of the secular student alliance at your school? heard a lot of pretty chicks are in it

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#16 dkdk999
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who cares ? It just depends on the person. Though men get screwed by divorce more.
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#17 Sphensen
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Men suffer more from a break-up. it's science look that ish up

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#18 Moobopper
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I would say women on average just because men are more programmed not to stay with one woman. I would say 70-60% women suffer 30- 40% suffer. Its dependent on the individual but I say the trend goes to women.
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#19 psymon100
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If the 'love' is proper, then there shouldn't be suffering on either side.

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#20 ArmoredCore55
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I think men suffer from break-ups more. Break-ups are sad.
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#21 Moobopper
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I think men suffer from break-ups more. Break-ups are sad.ArmoredCore55
Well maybe from your perspective but I notice the opposite. Also I am a virgin nerd. I was in two relationships. One broke up with me and was like a year older than me (lasted like a week). The other one actually asked me out... She was a hardcore republican that hated President Obama though so I kind of trolled her. She was gonna break up with me but I did her first. She was one of my only friends and stopped talking to me though.
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Both? I mean sometimes the male loses and sometimes the female loses. Anyone can lie, cheat, or whatever that can end a relationship. Girls might be more lovey dovey but I have seen it the other way around.
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#23 Moobopper
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[QUOTE="MistressMinako"]Both? I mean sometimes the male loses and sometimes the female loses. Anyone can lie, cheat, or whatever that can end a relationship. Girls might be more lovey dovey but I have seen it the other way around.

Exactly, also its not like it matters what breeders choose to do. World will always have more people.
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#24 Teenaged
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How do I even estimate that?

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#25 dramaybaz
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Depends, you just don't hear men, but inside... ;)
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#26 LJS9502_basic
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More an individual case by case thing.....
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#27 Drasonak
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What does WOMEN being liars and deceitful have to do with who "suffers more" from relationships? Just had to get your daily dose of women bashing in? Plus, why do you think generalizations are acceptable in this instance. You only think this is true because of the confirmation bias (look it up), and you excuse others using cognitive dissonance (again, look it up). "Bu-bu-but the biotruths! :cry:"
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#28 LJS9502_basic
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[QUOTE="Drasonak"]What does WOMEN being liars and deceitful have to do with who "suffers more" from relationships? Just had to get your daily dose of women bashing in? Plus, why do you think generalizations are acceptable in this instance. You only think this is true because of the confirmation bias (look it up), and you excuse others using cognitive dissonance (again, look it up). "Bu-bu-but the biotruths! :cry:"

LOL someone had a day of college....
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[QUOTE="Drasonak"]What does WOMEN being liars and deceitful have to do with who "suffers more" from relationships? Just had to get your daily dose of women bashing in? Plus, why do you think generalizations are acceptable in this instance. You only think this is true because of the confirmation bias (look it up), and you excuse others using cognitive dissonance (again, look it up). "Bu-bu-but the biotruths! :cry:"LJS9502_basic
LOL someone had a day of college....

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#30 coolbeans90
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this is a dumb thread

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#31 Moobopper
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this is a dumb thread

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Be quiet and leave the **** thread if you think it. YOU ARE CONTRIBUTING NOTHING BY SAYING THAT. You think you are so cool though... It is in your name. Well, "cool" guy, why do you not chill the **** out of this thread that you hate. I am getting a boiling disturbance by your presence and it is causing me much pain. Leave the topic and I will not report your post.
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#32 mahlasor
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this is a dumb thread

coolbeans90

Dont come into a thread and say "this is a dumb thread," that is dumb.

I know this is a case by case, but men definately do get screwed over more. Women have been proven to be deceitful liars.

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#33 coolbeans90
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[QUOTE="coolbeans90"]

this is a dumb thread

mahlasor

Dont come into a thread and say "this is a dumb thread," that is dumb.

I know this is a case by case, but men definately do get screwed over more. Women have been proven to be deceitful liars.

You must have insanely low testosterone levels to have managed trapping yourself into that persecution complex.

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#34 LJS9502_basic
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[QUOTE="coolbeans90"]

this is a dumb thread

mahlasor

Dont come into a thread and say "this is a dumb thread," that is dumb.

I know this is a case by case, but men definately do get screwed over more. Women have been proven to be deceitful liars.

Well someone has issues....
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#35 Moobopper
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[QUOTE="mahlasor"]

[QUOTE="coolbeans90"]

this is a dumb thread

coolbeans90

Dont come into a thread and say "this is a dumb thread," that is dumb.

I know this is a case by case, but men definately do get screwed over more. Women have been proven to be deceitful liars.

You must have insanely low testosterone levels to have managed trapping yourself into that persecution complex.

Shut the **** up. I agree with him 100% and he did not even go far enough. I actually have very low testosterone and my man parts do not go up (Erectile Disfunction)... So it is pretty offensive what you said. Mr. "cool"
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#36 coolbeans90
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[QUOTE="coolbeans90"]

[QUOTE="mahlasor"]

Dont come into a thread and say "this is a dumb thread," that is dumb.

I know this is a case by case, but men definately do get screwed over more. Women have been proven to be deceitful liars.

Moobopper

You must have insanely low testosterone levels to have managed trapping yourself into that persecution complex.

Shut the **** up. I agree with him 100% and he did not even go far enough. I actually have very low testosterone and my man parts do not go up (Erectile Disfunction)... So it is pretty offensive what you said. Mr. "cool"

ok

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#37 Moobopper
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I have John Huntsman's poster on my wall along with all the other 2012 GOP besides Michelle (last name do not matter because she should make me sandwich, LOL!) even with her I draw mustache on her and call her Mike. I like to Pretend that President Obama did not win and cry in a river a lot.
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#38 ShuLordLiuPei
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Last night I had a dream that LJS got married.

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I felt this was approrpriate to the topic.

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#39 LJS9502_basic
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Last night I had a dream that LJS got married.>I felt this was approrpriate to the topic.

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Odd....and who is that supposed to be?
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#40 nooblet69
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I think it just depends on the individual whether they are a man or a woman. Some people are just more emotional than others.

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#41 ShuLordLiuPei
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[QUOTE="ShuLordLiuPei"]

Last night I had a dream that LJS got married.>I felt this was approrpriate to the topic.

LJS9502_basic

Odd....and who is that supposed to be?

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#42 LJS9502_basic
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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="ShuLordLiuPei"]

Last night I had a dream that LJS got married.>I felt this was approrpriate to the topic.

ShuLordLiuPei

Odd....and who is that supposed to be?

LJS9502_basic.jpg

No.
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#43 ShuLordLiuPei
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No. LJS9502_basic
Yes.

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#44 Fightingfan
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Women. After a divorce women get the shorter end of the stick.

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More an individual case by case thing.....LJS9502_basic

How do I even estimate that?

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#46 psymon100
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I know this is a case by case, but men definately do get screwed over more. Women have been proven to be deceitful liars.

mahlasor

Nothing but propaganda filled flamebait.

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#47 LLYNCES
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So I just started this discussion with my girlfriend and she keeps attacking men, saying that they are the ones that make girls suffer the most. In a part I agree, but, girls are also very deceivers (sorry for grammar) and liars.

Who do you think suffers more?

Ricardomz

Your girlfriend just sounds like the typical self victimizing moron who wants to pin the blame all on men. She's probably a feminist to and lacks any true understanding on any of the gender related issues, and while some men might make girls suffer in relationships it goes both ways equally. Many women are damn good liars too, mostly because many females (at least that I know) have the inability to feel any self guilt. They just rationalize why what they are doing might be wrong, but why they are the exception to the rule - which is something many Women are good at doing from my experience.

There are a few studies that have shown that Women are more likely to lie and cheat too on average here, here and here They are interesting to say the least. In my opinion most Women that I run into in my daily life I want nothing to do with. Loyalty is no longer something you can expect in a relationship these days, and there is a good chance that you'll end up being just another guy who's paying child support and possibly even alimony while she's off with somebody else the moment your relationship ends. The worst part is you wont even see it coming when it all happens.

I'm not trying to gender blame either, I'm sure there are a lot of men who are just as bad. It really does go both ways, but I don't believe it's truly "equal" like some people believe. Which side is worse is really up for debate at this point. Both Men and Women suffer from love, however I do believe that Men are at a far greater risk of losing more when the relationship ends, just look at the legal system if you want evidence for it. How many Women are paying Alimoney or child support in comparison to Men? How many Men win custody over their children? Not many, obviously it's all circumstantial though, but if you are a wealthy and a successful man it'd be best for you to stay the hell away from Women, and vice versa if you are a successful Women.

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#48 tocool340
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Men hurt more from the pockets, women hurt more from the heart I think. Then again, it really depends on the individuals....
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Men hurt more from the pockets, women hurt more from the heart I think. Then again, it really depends on the individuals....tocool340
Not really. It's easier and cheaper to write a $400 dollar monthly check to yo baby mama then to actually raise a kid.
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#50 tocool340
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[QUOTE="tocool340"]Men hurt more from the pockets, women hurt more from the heart I think. Then again, it really depends on the individuals....Fightingfan
Not really. It's easier and cheaper to write a $400 dollar monthly check to yo baby mama then to actually raise a kid.

I don't know, I wouldn't be all too thrill about needing to give half my possessions away. I know Tiger Woods wasn't exactly happy about paying +$100,000,000 to his wife when they divorce, aside from the divorce itself...