This guy, lets call him "Andy," likes this girl, Erin. They met last summer at a church event. Andy focused on college, so didn't see her at all from Sept. until a few days before Christmas. When they met again at church in December, he told her he remembered her and he asked if she remembered him. She didn't, but continously showed interest in getting to know him after that point.
After getting to know each other more, Andy likes that Erin is kind, smart (takes AP courses), considerate, talented (plays ukelele and guitar, and draws quite good), sings, looks ridiculously cute, and looks at him quite often (when passing by, or performing on stage at church). Andy and Erin enjoy talking to each other and being in each other's company. He feels a deep connection with her. Andy would like to make her his gf, but he found out she's only 14, and he's 20. (The mascara and fact that she's Asian made it difficult for him to tell.)
Andy knows not only her, but her older sister (by 2 years, not as interested in her), her younger brother (about 10-12 years old), her mother, and her father, who is his Sunday school teacher and gets along with pretty well. Andy met them individually, and found out in January they were all one family. Andy has known Erin's family for about 2 months now.
Andy would like to make her his gf, but he found out last month that she's only 14. He's 20. (The mascara and fact that she's Asian made it difficult for him to tell.) Andy enjoys Sunday school and the church service, and doesn't want to put either activity in jeopardy, but at the same time feels a deep connection with Erin and feels he should tell her how he feels about her. What should he do (and/or not do)? Explainations are highly encouraged.
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