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#1 Chepocles
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About some time ago, I slept with someone 30 years older than me, and recently I been sleeping with someone 15 years older than me. I am 19.

I am afraid to tell anyone, as they might loose respect for me. I know I shouldn't care at what people think....but I mean if my family and close friends ever knew...I'm afraid I would loose them. If I don't tell them, I feel I'm lying to them in a way, making them believe I'm a different person.

I don't really post much here in Gamespot, but I just need to get this outside of me...and this seems like the only safe place where people won't actually judge me bad.

Do you guys really believe I am doing something wrong?

Edited some spelling mistakes.

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#2 Darthkaiser
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Aboutsome time agoI slept with someone 30 years older than me, and recently I been sleeping with someone 15 years older than me. I am 19.

I am afraid to tell anyone, as they might loose respect for me. ...and this seems like the only safe place where people won't actually judge me bad.

Chepocles

I just lost all respect I had for you

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While your family might freak out, your friends are gonna be thinking, damn dude, you got a cougar or something like that.

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#4 NintendoNite
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depends on your gender
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so you like em old and desperate eh?
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#6 Chepocles
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depends on your genderNintendoNite
Can you explain how that would change things?
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cougars FTW.

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[QUOTE="NintendoNite"]depends on your genderChepocles
Can you explain how that would change things?

as general akbar would say...

It's a TRap!!!:o

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I don't see much future in it. I've been very attracted to several older women in my life, and definitely wanted to do some things. However, since I (so far) only use physical intimacy with someone who has entered into a committed relationship with me, I think it has no place in my life now. I mean, if I met Charisma Carpenter and she wanted to go, my perspective might change.. but it hasn't happened yet!

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#10 J-man45
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Do you guys really believe I am doing something wrong?

Chepocles

Honest answer: Yes. Completely.

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#11 mrbojangles25  Online
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meh, as long as you like the person and are attracted to them, and the feeling is mutual, then I dont think it really matters.

Society can go screw themselves for all I care. I was in a relationship with a woman with four kids a short while ago, and when I finally told my folks about her they were shocked, and my friend is like "Man, you gotta drop that girl like a bad habit"

All I could do is ask "why?"

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#13 Darthkaiser
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[QUOTE="Chepocles"]

Do you guys really believe I am doing something wrong?

J-man45

Honest answer: Yes. Completely.

I was just kidding on my first post, my honest answer is: Dude! 15 Years older than you is nothing, why? because you are pretty young! 34 is still good. Just imagine you are 10 again you would be sleeping with a 25 year old chick! SCORE!!!!
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#15 Chepocles
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wtf why would you be ashamed of that sex with older woman is so much better than retarded girls our age. It's sex with an experienced partner minus the childish BSAL_GREEN
I think everyone noticed I used the word "someone" instead of "women". I'm just not strong enough to admitt completely what I been doing.....but I guess I need someone to tell me it's ok...as long as there's love.
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#16 J-man45
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[QUOTE="J-man45"]

[QUOTE="Chepocles"]

Do you guys really believe I am doing something wrong?

Darthkaiser

Honest answer: Yes. Completely.

I was just kidding on my first post, my honest answer is: Dude! 15 Years older than you is nothing, why? because you are pretty young! 34 is still good. Just imagine you are 10 again you would be sleeping with a 25 year old chick! SCORE!!!!

Um...

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[QUOTE="J-man45"]

[QUOTE="Chepocles"]

Do you guys really believe I am doing something wrong?

Darthkaiser

Honest answer: Yes. Completely.

I was just kidding on my first post, my honest answer is: Dude! 15 Years older than you is nothing, why? because you are pretty young! 34 is still good. Just imagine you are 10 again you would be sleeping with a 25 year old chick! SCORE!!!!

Too bad he didn't meet her when he was 10.

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Do what you gotta do, but just don't break the law.
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No matter how many days in a row I sit outside that middle school waiting for Mrs. Right, I can't stop thinking about my ex-GF's mom. There's just something about the curves of a woman who knows what she's doing :P Her voice was just a little hoarse from smoking all those years.. but still sexy. You know what I mean? :?

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#20 J-man45
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[QUOTE="AL_GREEN"]wtf why would you be ashamed of that sex with older woman is so much better than retarded girls our age. It's sex with an experienced partner minus the childish BSChepocles
I think everyone noticed I used the word "someone" instead of "women". I'm just not strong enough to admitt completely what I been doing.....but I guess I need someone to tell me it's ok...as long as there's love.

But...it's not ok. And the sooner you know that the sooner you can accept and try to break the habit of it.

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[QUOTE="Chepocles"][QUOTE="AL_GREEN"]wtf why would you be ashamed of that sex with older woman is so much better than retarded girls our age. It's sex with an experienced partner minus the childish BSJ-man45

I think everyone noticed I used the word "someone" instead of "women". I'm just not strong enough to admitt completely what I been doing.....but I guess I need someone to tell me it's ok...as long as there's love.

But...it's not ok. And the sooner you know that the sooner you can accept and try to break the habit of it.

I think it's better than ok.

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#22 Darthkaiser
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[QUOTE="Darthkaiser"][QUOTE="J-man45"]

Honest answer: Yes. Completely.

J-man45

I was just kidding on my first post, my honest answer is: Dude! 15 Years older than you is nothing, why? because you are pretty young! 34 is still good. Just imagine you are 10 again you would be sleeping with a 25 year old chick! SCORE!!!!

Um...

 Problem?......mate?? :P
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40 is... old for you man... old for you.

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#24 F1_2004
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[QUOTE="NintendoNite"]depends on your genderChepocles
Can you explain how that would change things?

A key that opens many locks is a master key. A lock that is opened by many keys is a crappy lock. That's why.
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#25 Rutzfuz
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Well good for you. I don't think it is wrong. And why would you tell people about your sex life in the first place?

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[QUOTE="Chepocles"][QUOTE="NintendoNite"]depends on your genderF1_2004
Can you explain how that would change things?

A key that opens many locks is a master key. A lock that is opened by many keys is a crappy lock. That's why.


WIN!!!

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The older the berry, the sweeter the juice 8)

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If you were my friend IRL I would definitely fist-bump you. Man, why would you ever be ashamed of scoring with a cougar?
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#30 lazerface216
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[QUOTE="Chepocles"][QUOTE="NintendoNite"]depends on your genderF1_2004
Can you explain how that would change things?

A key that opens many locks is a master key. A lock that is opened by many keys is a crappy lock. That's why.

i like crappy locks, they're easier to open....

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#31 chrisrooR
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[QUOTE="Chepocles"][QUOTE="NintendoNite"]depends on your genderF1_2004
Can you explain how that would change things?

A key that opens many locks is a master key. A lock that is opened by many keys is a crappy lock. That's why.

:lol:I do believe that's the best post I've seen all week. Well done sir.
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#32 Chepocles
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[QUOTE="Chepocles"][QUOTE="AL_GREEN"]wtf why would you be ashamed of that sex with older woman is so much better than retarded girls our age. It's sex with an experienced partner minus the childish BSAL_GREEN

I think everyone noticed I used the word "someone" instead of "women". I'm just not strong enough to admitt completely what I been doing.....but I guess I need someone to tell me it's ok...as long as there's love.

:| Well if i get what your saying then no it's not ok. Cut that sh*t out.

Would it still be wrong if it turns into a relationship?
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#33 J-man45
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What do I think of sex with older partners? It's wrong

What do I think of sex before marriage in general? Definitely all wrong.

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#34 Darthkaiser
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[QUOTE="AL_GREEN"]

[QUOTE="Chepocles"] I think everyone noticed I used the word "someone" instead of "women". I'm just not strong enough to admitt completely what I been doing.....but I guess I need someone to tell me it's ok...as long as there's love.Chepocles

:| Well if i get what your saying then no it's not ok. Cut that sh*t out.

Would it still be wrong if it turns into a relationship?

Ok now THAT would be wrong, one casual sex every now and then is still borderline but THAT is just crossing the line til the line it'snothing but a dot I'm seriously thinking you'll be making a habit, if you don't control yourself.
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#35 clayron
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Two consenting adults can do whatever they wish. Nothing wrong with it at all.
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#36 bobaban
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I take it your a girl? Realistically, you won't be viewed in a good light. A 35 yo man, is not that bad in my eyes. Though 50 yo is too much. But do what makes you happy. I would also keep it a secret.
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#37 Darthkaiser
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Two consenting adults can do whatever they wish. Nothing wrong with it at all.clayron
He is still not 21 assuming it's the majority where he lives
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#38 Fried_Shrimp
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Nothing wrong with older women. GILF! :D
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#39 Peiner09
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[QUOTE="J-man45"]

What do I think of sex with older partners? It's wrong

What do I think of sex before marriage in general? Definitely all wrong.

Why? please do explain.
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#40 J-man45
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[QUOTE="J-man45"]

What do I think of sex with older partners? It's wrong

What do I think of sex before marriage in general? Definitely all wrong.

Peiner09

Why? please do explain.

First of all, God ordained sex to be between a man and a woman only.

He also ordained it for marriage only.

Sexual acts other than this, called "sexual immorality" (btw this includes things such as lust as well) is addressed multiple times in the Bible.

I believe it's sin, so that's why it's wrong.

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#41 Peiner09
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[QUOTE="Peiner09"][QUOTE="J-man45"]

What do I think of sex with older partners? It's wrong

What do I think of sex before marriage in general? Definitely all wrong.

J-man45

Why? please do explain.

First of all, God ordained sex to be between a man and a woman only.

He also ordained it for marriage only.

Sexual acts other than this, called "sexual immorality" (btw this includes things such as lust as well) is addressed multiple times in the Bible.

I believe it's sin, so that's why it's wrong.

ohh. religeous belives. okay.

Wait....What does that have to do with someone being waay older?

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#42 J-man45
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[QUOTE="J-man45"]

[QUOTE="Peiner09"] Why? please do explain.Peiner09

First of all, God ordained sex to be between a man and a woman only.

He also ordained it for marriage only.

Sexual acts other than this, called "sexual immorality" (btw this includes things such as lust as well) is addressed multiple times in the Bible.

I believe it's sin, so that's why it's wrong.

ohh. religeous belives. okay.

Wait....What does that have to do with someone being waay older?

They're not married, are they? See, first I addressed the issue of the topic, "Is sex with older partners wrong?" Then I tookit further, see?

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Being wrong or not....It's to late to go back I guess. I'm in love with the person that took my innocence. If there is a god I pray he has mercy for me....as for what I did wasn't an act of evil.,,,I did what I thought was best for me.

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#44 Peiner09
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[QUOTE="J-man45"]

[QUOTE="Peiner09"]

[QUOTE="J-man45"]

First of all, God ordained sex to be between a man and a woman only.

He also ordained it for marriage only.

Sexual acts other than this, called "sexual immorality" (btw this includes things such as lust as well) is addressed multiple times in the Bible.

I believe it's sin, so that's why it's wrong.

ohh. religeous belives. okay.

Wait....What does that have to do with someone being waay older?

They're not married, are they? See, first I addressed the issue of the topic, "Is sex with older partners wrong?" Then I tookit further, see?

You said earlier in a different post that: "What do I think of sex with older partners? It's wrong " I took that as the principle of an older partner, not just this situation. If these 2 were honestly married, even with the age difference would the bible have a problem with it?
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Being wrong or not....It's to late to go back I guess. I'm in love with the person that took my innocence. If there is a god I pray he has mercy for me....as for what I did wasn't an act of evil.,,,I did what I thought was best for me.

Chepocles

Hey, you're in luck Chepocles. There's definitely a way to get right with God. In fact, there's a way to spend eternity with him forever. I can message you about it.

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#46 J-man45
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If these 2 were honestly married, even with the age difference would the bible have a problem with it?Peiner09

As to that account, no, I have not run across anywhere in the Bible that addresses that.

The reason I said older partner is because TC seemed to make it clear that they weren't married.

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#47 Peiner09
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[QUOTE="Peiner09"]If these 2 were honestly married, even with the age difference would the bible have a problem with it?J-man45


As to that account, no, I have not run across anywhere in the Bible that addresses that.


The reason I said older partner is because TC seemed to make it clear that they weren't married.

okay, thanks for clarifing.

Would you mind helping me out and answering a couple questions about christian belifes and boundries? I'm in a situation where a little knowledge could help me out abit.

I don't know very much about whats acceptable/expected.

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#48 J-man45
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Hey J-man.

Would you mind helping me out and answering a couple questions about christian belifes and boundries? I'm in a situation where a little knowledge could help me out abit.

I don't know very much about whats acceptable/expected.

Peiner09

Sure thing. Feel free to PM me about it.

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IDK, but I am 36 and my fiance is 24.

I sometimes feel like she is a hungrylioness and I am an injured wildebeest 8)

I can honestly say that I am really enjoying life right now, if you know what I mean! *wink wink* ;) ;)

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#50 Chepocles
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[QUOTE="J-man45"]

[QUOTE="Chepocles"]

Being wrong or not....It's to late to go back I guess. I'm in love with the person that took my innocence. If there is a god I pray he has mercy for me....as for what I did wasn't an act of evil.,,,I did what I thought was best for me.

Hey, you're in luck Chepocles. There's definitely a way to get right with God. In fact, there's a way to spend eternity with him forever. I can message you about it.

Sure. thanks :)