I gotta share this bit of craziness in my life.
so i have this Muslima friend lets called her K. and mind you i am and so is she currently living in the USA. she's in love with this Afghani guy named Najibi, who for some reason or another has the money to travel back and forth from Kabul to Minnesota at any moment, you never get the whole story and it's always hush hush as to what exactly this Najibi fellow motives are. Nontheless she's in love with him and is being secretive with her family and friends, and it's not like her father and mother won't accept boyfriends, they do, because they've had boyfriends in the past. That's not the issue. the father has asked this Najibi guy to show up and talk to him, and everytime he has refused.
so ok, to the point. She'll in one hand bad mouth Saudi Arabia, a country that she partially grew up in as a very young child for it's treatment of women, and many of her points (not all mind you) i completely agree with and hold no fault to her. But in that SAME breath, will then talk about how Afghanistan is so much better then Saudi Arabia in it's treatment of women. to which i find completely daft, and she obviously has not the slightest clue as to what it's like in Afghanistan or has the slightest clue of the existing very strong social prohibitions placed on women.
Now i'm not saying Saudi Arabia is good to women, not at all. but it is most definently better then a place like Afghanistan.
This is like arguing that Jamaica for all it's poverty is worse then say Haiti's. Both have huge issues relating to it, but to make that comparison is really nuts.
and all i can think of it, and i believe rightly so, she is dazzled by this mysterious Najibi fellow. Who seems to change his story as to why he magically shows up in the USA.
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