she ripped my heart out but i still love her

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#1 glaciamon
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one of my old girlfriends found me on myspace. we have been talking on there since october. we then started going out again a week ago. but with the distance between us was hurting us both. so sunday nite i walked fortysix miles to be with her. but when i got here she says she doesnt want to be with me any more. i love this girl with all my heart and now i dont know what to do. so i come to you OTers to see if any one could help me.
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#2 Rocky32189
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Find someone else. If she doesn't want to be with you, there's nothing you can do.
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#3 supa_badman
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46 miles huh?

i guess its not just your heart that hurts :P

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#4 FragStains
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You walked 46 miles in one night? I don't think so. In any event, you need to gain some perspective on life. Climb a mountain, read a book about the Universe. Then you'll realize how futile this 'love' is.
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#5 Andrew_Xavier
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one of my old girlfriends found me on myspace. we have been talking on there since october. we then started going out again a week ago. but with the distance between us was hurting us both. so sunday nite i walked fortysix miles to be with her. but when i got here she says she doesnt want to be with me any more. i love this girl with all my heart and now i dont know what to do. so i come to you OTers to see if any one could help me.glaciamon
Should have bought a scooter!
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#6 AnObscureName
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46 miles? That was stupid. Why not get a bus/taxi/train. Also move on.
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#7 Baranga
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In any event, you need to gain some perspective on life. Climb a mountain, read a book about the Universe. Then you'll realize how futile this 'love' is.FragStains

This sounds like those dumbass indie movies: "Oh, you'll die anyway, why bother with everything?"

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#8 Oleg_Huzwog
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Oh yeah? Well, I would walk 500 miles, and I would walk 500 more.
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#9 Rocky32189
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You walked 46 miles in one night?.FragStains
He must be marathon runner.
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#10 megagene
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Oh yeah? Well, I would walk 500 miles, and I would walk 500 more.Oleg_Huzwog
Just to what? :o
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[QUOTE="glaciamon"]one of my old girlfriends found me on myspace. we have been talking on there since october. we then started going out again a week ago. but with the distance between us was hurting us both. so sunday nite i walked fortysix miles to be with her. but when i got here she says she doesnt want to be with me any more. i love this girl with all my heart and now i dont know what to do. so i come to you OTers to see if any one could help me.Andrew_Xavier
Should have bought a scooter!

No, a Segway.

Chicks dig men with them Segways.

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#12 Deihjan
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Forget about her. Meditate an hour or two and think of all the bad things she's done to you, and 'breathe her out'. Keep away from your mobile and your PC for a two days time and try to get your attention fixed on a book that isn't about love or girls. Sci-fi maybe?
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#13 AnObscureName
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Oh yeah? Well, I would walk 500 miles, and I would walk 500 more.Oleg_Huzwog
You know...I don't think the Proclaimers ever did walk 500 miles. They look too Scottish. Heart failure would kick in a mile or so into the journey.
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Oh yeah? Well, I would walk 500 miles, and I would walk 500 more.Oleg_Huzwog
I get it!
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You came to the wrong place.
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#16 Andrew_Xavier
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[QUOTE="Andrew_Xavier"][QUOTE="glaciamon"]one of my old girlfriends found me on myspace. we have been talking on there since october. we then started going out again a week ago. but with the distance between us was hurting us both. so sunday nite i walked fortysix miles to be with her. but when i got here she says she doesnt want to be with me any more. i love this girl with all my heart and now i dont know what to do. so i come to you OTers to see if any one could help me.Nerd_Man

Should have bought a scooter!

No, a Segway.

Chicks dig men with them Segways.

Hah! You actually made me laugh out loud with that one, kudos!
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#17 thirteen_zombie
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People say that guys will only fall in love once. They will move on but always think about that one that got away. In all honesty I feel you man, I used to work with this girl and I could never stop thinking of her. We got close then she went crazy and all sorts of madness happened, and she moved states back home. She came back and forth from time to time and We'd get together occasionally, but in the end things went down hill and now a year later we dont talk or have any contact. I have a girlfriend that I've been with over a year now but every day That girl passes my mind. I dont know why, I dont have feelings for her like I used to, but she comes to my thoughts everyday. When I think of her I just get that lonely/angry feeling she left me with, but theres all the memories of the best too. Anyways to sum it up, You may love that girl forever and ever and ever ever never ever, but you just gotta keep on truckin'.
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#18 geodisicdome
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Walking wont win you winning.
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#19 Oleg_Huzwog
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[QUOTE="Oleg_Huzwog"]Oh yeah? Well, I would walk 500 miles, and I would walk 500 more.megagene
Just to what? :o

Just to be the man who walked 1000 miles to fall down at your door.

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[QUOTE="megagene"][QUOTE="Oleg_Huzwog"]Oh yeah? Well, I would walk 500 miles, and I would walk 500 more.Oleg_Huzwog

Just to what? :o

Just to be the man who walked 1000 miles to fall down at your door.

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do link the song :D
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Look on the bright side you burned 6808 calories in one night!
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#22 IZoMBiEI
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[QUOTE="Oleg_Huzwog"]

[QUOTE="megagene"] Just to what? :oDeihjan

Just to be the man who walked 1000 miles to fall down at your door.

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do link the song :D

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O3tNylJr7Z4

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#23 Morning_Revival
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You dated for a week, you dont love her.
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#24 esbastica
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i forgot what i was about to say,so..i use my alternate question: is she hot?
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#25 Oleg_Huzwog
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i forgot what i was about to sayesbastica

I think you were going to provide some additional nu-nu NA NAs to the background vocal track.

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#26 Montaya
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Theres this thing called an automobile or motorcycle, get one ;) 46 miles would take a couple hours though.
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#27 IZoMBiEI
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[QUOTE="esbastica"]i forgot what i was about to sayOleg_Huzwog

I think you were going to provide some additional nu-nu NA NAs to the background vocal track.

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#29 glaciamon
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i forgot what i was about to say,so..i use my alternate question: is she hot?esbastica
most pople probably wouldnt think so. but to me she is the most beautiful living organism in the universe. ill post a pic in my profile.
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#30 kemar7856
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u walked fortysix miles ok ?
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#31 esbastica
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[QUOTE="esbastica"]i forgot what i was about to say,so..i use my alternate question: is she hot?glaciamon
most pople probably wouldnt think so. but to me she is the most beautiful living organism in the universe. this is her


if so,what kind of advice do u want to hear,u've already made ur decision
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All girls want, is attention.
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#33 rcignoni
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I know how you feel, but it's time to move on. She's not the one for you.
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You walked 46 miles in one night? I don't think so. In any event, you need to gain some perspective on life. Climb a mountain, read a book about the Universe. Then you'll realize how futile this 'love' is.FragStains
I walked 5 miles in a matter of an hour an a half to get to my ex-girlfriend's house. So, using that math, that should take 13 hours? It's possible. Anyway, if you guys are that far apart, maybe you should get a car and see each other on the weekends. Also, depending on how old you guys are, maybe you guys can take turns visiting each other, and spend some time sleeping over to minimize the distance and time spent away from each other. If she really is over you, take some time to get over her, and after you're feeling better, make a plan. Make your plan to get in shape, buy a car, something to get your mind off her. My ex and I broke up about three weeks ago, and I decided to get back into shape and lose some weight and I've already dropped like 12 pounds
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#36 glaciamon
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[QUOTE="FragStains"]You walked 46 miles in one night? I don't think so. In any event, you need to gain some perspective on life. Climb a mountain, read a book about the Universe. Then you'll realize how futile this 'love' is.remmbermytitans
I walked 5 miles in a matter of an hour an a half to get to my ex-girlfriend's house. So, using that math, that should take 13 hours? It's possible. Anyway, if you guys are that far apart, maybe you should get a car and see each other on the weekends. Also, depending on how old you guys are, maybe you guys can take turns visiting each other, and spend some time sleeping over to minimize the distance and time spent away from each other. If she really is over you, take some time to get over her, and after you're feeling better, make a plan. Make your plan to get in shape, buy a car, something to get your mind off her. My ex and I broke up about three weeks ago, and I decided to get back into shape and lose some weight and I've already dropped like 12 pounds

it took 17 hours. and im already here so the weekend plan is shot. but i dont think shes really over me. so im sitting here not knowing what to do. and i dont want to be over her.
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#37 KOTORkicker
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I think you need to ask yourself if you really do love her first you know. Question that first. I've acted on impulse (Well I know it's not really impulse, but w/e) before and it only hurt me in the long run. Btw I can help you with your sig.
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All girls want, is attention. Dark-Sithious
And money.
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[QUOTE="remmbermytitans"][QUOTE="FragStains"]You walked 46 miles in one night? I don't think so. In any event, you need to gain some perspective on life. Climb a mountain, read a book about the Universe. Then you'll realize how futile this 'love' is.glaciamon
I walked 5 miles in a matter of an hour an a half to get to my ex-girlfriend's house. So, using that math, that should take 13 hours? It's possible. Anyway, if you guys are that far apart, maybe you should get a car and see each other on the weekends. Also, depending on how old you guys are, maybe you guys can take turns visiting each other, and spend some time sleeping over to minimize the distance and time spent away from each other. If she really is over you, take some time to get over her, and after you're feeling better, make a plan. Make your plan to get in shape, buy a car, something to get your mind off her. My ex and I broke up about three weeks ago, and I decided to get back into shape and lose some weight and I've already dropped like 12 pounds

it took 17 hours. and im already here so the weekend plan is shot. but i dont think shes really over me. so im sitting here not knowing what to do. and i dont want to be over her.

I think you should see a counsellor. You seem quite strange. Also did the idea of a taxi or bus not occur to you? Maybe the sight of you turning up uninvited, presumably unwashed and dripping in sweat put her off...
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[QUOTE="Dark-Sithious"]All girls want, is attention. the_foreign_guy
And money.

And that one thing that guys have. Arms, i think it is.
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it took 17 hours. and im already here so the weekend plan is shot. but i dont think shes really over me. so im sitting here not knowing what to do. and i dont want to be over her.glaciamon

Pro tip: call a taxi for the return trip.

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#42 robobie
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You dated for a week, you dont love her.Morning_Revival

^This^

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#43 g0ddyX
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We all do drastic things when were in love.
But to be honest, you'll get over as soon as you take interest in another girl.

Only way of doing that is spending time out more, looking fresh, clean etc. You'll catch someone looking at youu.
At the same time, do something new, ie go to gym, read something new, take a sport, heck even take some break dancing lessons lol.

Use this moment to look fitter and stronger.
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[QUOTE="Dark-Sithious"]All girls want, is attention. the_foreign_guy
And money.

Yes, and what do they do with the money?

Buy fancy clothing, cars, bags, fix their hair, get a boob job, you name it, so they can get even more attention.

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[QUOTE="the_foreign_guy"][QUOTE="Dark-Sithious"]All girls want, is attention. Dark-Sithious
And money.

Yes, and what do they do with the money?

Shoes ofc

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[QUOTE="remmbermytitans"][QUOTE="FragStains"]You walked 46 miles in one night? I don't think so. In any event, you need to gain some perspective on life. Climb a mountain, read a book about the Universe. Then you'll realize how futile this 'love' is.glaciamon
I walked 5 miles in a matter of an hour an a half to get to my ex-girlfriend's house. So, using that math, that should take 13 hours? It's possible. Anyway, if you guys are that far apart, maybe you should get a car and see each other on the weekends. Also, depending on how old you guys are, maybe you guys can take turns visiting each other, and spend some time sleeping over to minimize the distance and time spent away from each other. If she really is over you, take some time to get over her, and after you're feeling better, make a plan. Make your plan to get in shape, buy a car, something to get your mind off her. My ex and I broke up about three weeks ago, and I decided to get back into shape and lose some weight and I've already dropped like 12 pounds

it took 17 hours. and im already here so the weekend plan is shot. but i dont think shes really over me. so im sitting here not knowing what to do. and i dont want to be over her.

Nobody wants to get over someone they love. My ex and I went out for 27 months, and it took a week to accept that it was over, and I've been slowly getting over her, even though I really don't want to. Try to get back together with her by telling her that you still want to be together. Take note of her reaction, if she's hesitant, there may be hope. If her answer is definitive and strong, then it's over. Good luck!
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#47 glaciamon
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I think you need to ask yourself if you really do love her first you know. Question that first. I've acted on impulse (Well I know it's not really impulse, but w/e) before and it only hurt me in the long run. Btw I can help you with your sig.KOTORkicker
yes i do love her. i know everything about her. i know her deepest darkest secrets. she trusts me with everything. she says she still loves me but then why would she do this to me?

and i would really appreciate the help with the sig.

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#48 scorch-62
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For some reason that 46 miles is striking as a made up number... but anyways... I would say move on. There are more fish in the sea of love.
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#49 the_foreign_guy
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and i would really appreciate the help with the sig.

glaciamon

I got you.

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#50 Lief_Ericson
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46 miles? thats like cross county distance