@always_explicit said:
@evildead6789 said:
@always_explicit said:
@evildead6789: Thats just one doom mongering hypothesis, even if that is the reality its nothing a simple change of address and school move couldnt fix.
I am a firm believer in people shaping their own destiny. If your not happy...make a change. Its very easy for us to sit on our computers and predict this kids future but the fact is his future would have been a whole lot worse had this abuse continued. Bullying is preventable in the same way that this abuse was prevented stuff like that is all changeable.
\worst case scenario and is a change of school and at worst address....certainly not a patch on continued molestation.
the internet is everywhere.
Bringing this into the media, doesn't change anything about the fact that the abuse happened and that the perpetrator got caught.
It sends a message that says perpetrators of this type of abuse not only have to fear the long arm of the law but also the justice of civilians who chance upon their foul action and decide to take matters into their own hands. You should be able to protect your family from abuse and this story reinforced the fact that people will not be punished for doing so, even if force is used. Its an important message. Also this abused child isnt named so there is no reason to assume this story will follow the child.
All your doing is making assumptions, until we see a story stating "abused boy bullied thanks to news story praising father" you really have zero point.
Its like saying any news story with a victim could lead to that victim being tormented of course it COULD, but whats the point in hypothesising every possible eventuality when actually we should be praising the positive actions that lead to a child molester getting what he deserved.
These things are known already, if somebody comes into your house to steal or murder or rape. You will always have the right to defend your home, property and family. This is just common sense. Even years ago (where i live) some jewelry guy shot a guy in the back with a shotgun. The law says he can't because he was running away and guns are even forbidden, still they set him free, it's a normal human reaction.
The assumptions i make are also made by my governement, and it's not a simple assumption, it's just plain common sense. If I follow your reasoning, you could say kids can have guns to protect themselves and then later realize they shoot each other in conflicts. They don't do this, because they already know it. It's the same with grownups though and yeah a lot of countries simply don't have the intelligence or the power to govern these matters.
It's the same here, people know this, only your government doesn't follow but it's not because it wasn't it the news that it would not happen. Child psychology is much easier than adult psychology and this is common knowledge.
And comparing any victim isn't the same with child sexual abuse. In these cases a lot of the victims feels ashamed for what thas happened, not to mention he could have acted out in the years this has happened, or he even could act out later. The human psyche is not like a computer where you can just erase the data.
The child soldier that is brought into civilization is a perfect example of this. The child soldier is forced to kill thus he becomes a killer, even if he didn't want to. When brought into civilization The child doesn't realize it isn't his fault and that he can choose not be a killer, for him it is already a part of him. Since this happened when growing up, it intertwined with him. When there's conflict, if the child soldier is somewhere in puberty, it still doesn't have the power on his own to resolve conflicts in a civilized manner, so there's a chance he kill again.
The right guidance can surely help the child soldier, but it will always be a part of him and only if he can refrain himself from killing again, the healing can begin. I'm not saying this 11 year old kid has done sexual things with other kids simply because he was forced to do it with the perpetrator, but sadly it has become a part of him, and in a lot of cases, the so called 'acting out' is very common, only guidance can help the kid to not do it or forget what he has done, and that it wasn't his fault.
When puberty hits and the hormones flare up, these events could very well be pushed out of his subconscience and make him act out. That's why the child needs the proper guidance to make sure the kid does realize it isn't his fault , even if he acted out when these events happened.
Kids are not adults, In a way they're like programmable computers, and whatever the child experiences, it will have consequences., that's why for the kids sake, this should stay with professionals , john doe shouldn't know about this and the perpetrator should be locked up and rehabilitated till the child has grown up
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