Well first of all my main question is how to deal with parents that are strict about video games...
I'm 15 and I'm in the 3rd year of high school, besides school I play the violin and also like of course videogames.
So, my parents set this rule; 'You can only play videogames in the weekend'.
So as I told I like playing videogames but my parents make it such a big deal, they got a point about saying studying is my priority but I just can' t be studying the whole time and other things like readimg just get boring after a whole day of studying.
Some background information, I study in the highest level available here (Netherlands) which is 'VWO' and have most of my classes in English and attend school for way more time than average and not to mention Greek and Latin class.
So my parents think I should spend my time on something productive and it gets humiliating to see my friends who spend much more time gaming and being much better than me and get similar grades at school.
So in the holidays they keep complaining how much time I spend gaming, first of all after having to study a lot I think that I should be allowed to play in the holidays, my parents keep saying there should be a balance but it's not fair if I have to spend my time doing productive things apart from studying during a normal school week.
Another thing is that it's winter now, so being outside is not really so nice as it might be thought and some friends went on holidays besides that it feels like I'm isolated from my friends and it's not just me, everyone seems to be doing their own stuff...
So back to my question, what I wanna know is how I should talk to them, I have already asked them and they told me get good grades in the coming Maths tests, I got a 8 and a 9.1 (out of 10) but they said no.
So, I wanna make at least an agreement that allows me more freedom in terms of gaming.
Anyways, thank you for taking the time to read this.
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