@slvrraven9 said:
Thanks a bunch guys I really appreciate the input. I'll ask again. Either it'll be a success or I'll be put b out of my misery. Either way at least I'll know. Would definatly suck if it was a solid no though..
I hate these situations.
Well, that's not necessarily true. She could just give you another excuse. I mean, maybe she'll flatout reject you, or maybe she'll accept you, but it's also entirely possible for her to say, "oh, um...damn...I'm busy this week too."
Regardless, that's still valuable information. A one time "I'm busy" might just mean she was busy. But repeatedly saying "I'm busy" should do one of two things: either that increases the likelihood that she's just trying to avoid you, or it indicates that she's just busy as shit ALL THE TIME. Either one is probably gonna mean "forget about her, find someone else." I mean, if she's just lying to avoid spending time with you, then that obviously means that you should forget about her. And even if she's telling you the truth, repeatedly saying that she's too busy to meet with you means that you should probably ask if she's worth getting attached to. If she's ALWAYS so damn busy that she doesn't have time to hang out with you during the week, then that sort of implies that being her girlfriend might very well entail being attached to her while hardly ever getting to actually spend time with her. That might be what some people want in a partner, but not me. If I were personally in your place, I'd be like, "okay, I accept she's too busy. But if she's this busy all the time, then that's sort of a dealbreaker."
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