Life is tough..

Life just got really sucky for me, alot of my friends that arent in university think "Oh, university kids have no stress they go to school they will have futures they are all good" truth is tho thats not the case. My friend in engineering punched right through the glass door of his house cause he was so frustrated over a math problem, he got a huge gash in his wrist and had to get alot of stiches. I just got the lowest mark in my whole lecture on my midterm in one of my classes, a lecture of over 100 people. Got fired from work after 2 years of solid employment from me and now I cant keep up with my bills (car, insurance, phone. school) so im selling my car, the one thing I prided over and worked so hard to get. It would really help with stress relief too. Lastly I found a really cool girl, saw her for a while, asked her out and just recently got left by her after a few weeks for no reason whatsoever. I realize now that I was a rebound and theres nothing worse than getting left behind, especially when I was really starting to fall for this girl. 

I dont know what the point of this thread is really, just needed to vent. You guys can all go ahead and post your current hardships. The pain of others may help to make yours feel less significant. 

That sucks, man.

You're indeed in a pretty tough situation but remember that as long as you're good in your health there's time and ways to improve your life.

You're indeed in a pretty tough situation but remember that as long as you're good in your health there's time and ways to improve your life.

johnd13

That sucks, but you still got alot of time to set things straight.

Life is tough and it is not fair.......

its one of the most important lessons to learn in life.

Learn it and accept it, and it then becomes less tough.

Last October I was diagnosed with Cancer, been through the hell called chemotherapy, beat it, but I'm only still in remission, I won't be considered cured for years....luckily this one is curable but no guarantee of that. 30 years younger than anyone else in my family when they got cancer.

You are going to have these peaks and valleys, but they will help create your character.

"What doesn't kill you makes you stronger" - Nietzsche

Its not that I don't acknowledge that your situations and problems suck and is really frustrating, but come to Gaza my friend and you will strangely find yourself very thankful all of a sudden.GazaAli

[QUOTE="GazaAli"]Its not that I don't acknowledge that your situations and problems suck and is really frustrating, but come to Gaza my friend and you will strangely find yourself very thankful all of a sudden.charlesdarwin55

Yeah, life is tough. I think one of the most important lessons in life is that you can't control every outcome, so instead of spending so much time and effort fighting against that, it's sometimes necessary to just go with the flow and see where that takes you.

Current hardship? I can't figure out where to go for lunch.

Current hardship? I can't figure out where to go for lunch.

worlock77

Life just got really sucky for me, alot of my friends that arent in university think "Oh, university kids have no stress they go to school they will have futures they are all good" truth is tho thats not the case. My friend in engineering punched right through the glass door of his house cause he was so frustrated over a math problem, he got a huge gash in his wrist and had to get alot of stiches. I just got the lowest mark in my whole lecture on my midterm in one of my classes, a lecture of over 100 people. Got fired from work after 2 years of solid employment from me and now I cant keep up with my bills (car, insurance, phone. school) so im selling my car, the one thing I prided over and worked so hard to get. It would really help with stress relief too. Lastly I found a really cool girl, saw her for a while, asked her out and just recently got left by her after a few weeks for no reason whatsoever. I realize now that I was a rebound and theres nothing worse than getting left behind, especially when I was really starting to fall for this girl. 

I dont know what the point of this thread is really, just needed to vent. You guys can all go ahead and post your current hardships. The pain of others may help to make yours feel less significant. 

specialzed

Sorry to hear.  Thankfully all of these things are temporary.  Stitches will heal.  Grades can come back up.  Another job can be found.  And girls are plentiful.  You'll get all of that back.  You just have to cope with the pain for now.

Just stay away from depressing songs, dude.

Life just got really sucky for me, alot of my friends that arent in university think "Oh, university kids have no stress they go to school they will have futures they are all good" truth is tho thats not the case. My friend in engineering punched right through the glass door of his house cause he was so frustrated over a math problem, he got a huge gash in his wrist and had to get alot of stiches. I just got the lowest mark in my whole lecture on my midterm in one of my classes, a lecture of over 100 people. Got fired from work after 2 years of solid employment from me and now I cant keep up with my bills (car, insurance, phone. school) so im selling my car, the one thing I prided over and worked so hard to get. It would really help with stress relief too. Lastly I found a really cool girl, saw her for a while, asked her out and just recently got left by her after a few weeks for no reason whatsoever. I realize now that I was a rebound and theres nothing worse than getting left behind, especially when I was really starting to fall for this girl. 

I dont know what the point of this thread is really, just needed to vent. You guys can all go ahead and post your current hardships. The pain of others may help to make yours feel less significant. 

specialzed

I got a paper due Friday that I've been procrastinating for a few weeks now. I lack sufficient confidence to ask girls out. I don't even know if any girls like me. It really sucks being single in college. I really hate the social norm that guys have to ask girls out. If a girl I liked asked me out, I probably wouldn't be nearly as nervous and would accept the offer of going out.I guess we're still stuck in 1950 when it comes to certain gender norms.

I suppose the best way to deal with our problems is to realize that they're temporary and usually not permanent. I hope your friend gets healed up soon. Chin up. :)

Tough times never last, but tough people will ;)

It is, but it could be a lot fucking worse. I'm very thankful that things are as they are for me...

A business partner defrauded me out of $1500 recently. :(

life is tough but start looking at the bright side of things instead of the bad. i've never had a girlfreind, imagine how lonely i am? you are a college student so things will get better for you since you have a career oriented job. some of us didn't have the pleasure of going to college. i to wish i had a girlfriend so i cant help you there. if you think your life is hard there is always someone out there who had it worse then you.

one thing you got to realize is that you create the reality that you live in. if you believe that, and realize that, you will have more control over the life that you live. anything that happens to you is because you wanted it to happen. we are constantly shifting to billions of parallel realities every second. LITERALLY. if you don't like something about your current reality then switch to the reality that you want to be in.