If u have a romantic relationship in Second Life, is that cheating in real life?

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#1 deactivated-614fa247a87ab
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I just saw on the news a story about a single lady who is so addicted to Second Life that she even got married in it and feels connected with real feelings and emotions to her cyber-groom. But the problem is that her cyber-groom is married in real life to a real person. The psychiatrist people on the news said that's the same thing as the dude (cyber-groom) cheating on his wife in real life. What do you think?

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#2 sparton__117
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I don't think its cheating.
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#3 bluezy
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At least a little bit, yes.
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#4 Proobie44
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if you have a relationship with someone in Second Life...............something is wrong with you. Try using your REAL life.
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#5 LouieV13
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Its not cheating cause they cant actually have physicle contact
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#6 LouieV13
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You if you have a relationship with someone in Second Life...............something is wrong with you.Proobie44
Or that lol
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#7 deactivated-614fa247a87ab
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Its not cheating cause they cant actually have physicle contactLouieV13

That's what I thought until I saw how steamy they get in their cyber-world.

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#8 club-sandwich
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no, but you're epic fail at life if you date someone in the internet.
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#9 LJS9502_basic
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Depends....what do you consider cheating? Is flirting cheating? Fantasizing? A psychological connection to another?
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#10 LouieV13
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[QUOTE="LouieV13"]Its not cheating cause they cant actually have physicle contactjt222_us

That's what I thought until I saw how steamy they get in their cyber-world.

Yea I read what you can do in that game its sickening
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#11 deactivated-57e5de5e137a4
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Well, it depends on how involved he was. If he was just wasting time and not really serious about the relationship, I wouldn't say so.
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#12 SpaceMoose
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No, because if you have a romantic relationship in Second LIfe, you do not have a relationship in real life. :lol:
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#13 freshgman
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whats second life?
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#14 SpaceMoose
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whats second life?freshgman

It's like an MMO, except with no goals, no specific gameplay to speak of, and no point.

It is a glorified chatroom that, from what I heard, is full of people with some rather twisted fantasies, and I'll leave it at that.

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#15 lycrof
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It is not cheating. Now if it was one the game Red Light Center then yes it would be cheating.
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#16 o_sausage
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Having a relationship with a group of e-s on a screen is different from having a relationship with someone you can actually touch
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#17 Metakit5
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There are emotional bonds that are created from this online relationship, and emotional bonds with someone the way that it seems to be described within the context of the story (ie: They got married in a game together; one they spend any amount of time on), seems to indicate that it is cheating. Cheating per se does not need to be physical contact, but it does vary from person to person.

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#18 foxhound_fox
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It has the possibility to lead to a "real life" encounter so yes, it is adultery.
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#19 cool_baller
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It's emotional cheating.
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#20 AncientNecro
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if she has to lie about it then yes it is cheating
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#21 Putzwapputzen
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wow, shes a bad person.
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#22 CheddarLimbo
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Yeah. Yeah it's cheating.