If a girl makes you pay for every meal....

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#1 RJay123
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Is she just using you? If it's been months and she still doesn't contribute...is she just using you?

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#2 jimmyjammer69
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You'd expect her to make a half arsed offer to pay at the very least. She's not necessarily using you, but she is being inconsiderate. I'd start dropping hints.
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#3 dackchaar
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possibly....

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#4 FUBAR24
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are you dating or is she just a friend. cause if you arent tappin that she a gold digger
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#5 Never3ndingLife
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well as a gentlemen you are supposed to pay for her meal and pull her chair to sit down, its just how the system works
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#6 RJay123
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are you dating or is she just a friend. cause if you arent tappin that she a gold diggerFUBAR24
she's an ex girlfriend....who made me pay for every meal while we were dating for about 6 months....and who still makes me pay even though she's not my girlfriend anymore lol.....

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#7 jimmyjammer69
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well as a gentlemen you are supposed to pay for her meal and pull her chair to sit down, its just how the system worksNever3ndingLife
Yes, but protocol also suggests she should get her purse out or something*, or maybe say she feels uncomfortable with him paying for everything. *I meant that in a totally innocent way, but I've heard that it's reasonable to assume she's sexually interested in you if she allows you to pay for everything without a fuss :?
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#8 tester962
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[QUOTE="FUBAR24"]are you dating or is she just a friend. cause if you arent tappin that she a gold diggerRJay123

she's an ex girlfriend....who made me pay for every meal while we were dating for about 6 months....and who still makes me pay even though she's not my girlfriend anymore lol.....

if you arent dating her than no dont pay for every meal. shes using you
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#9 hedden93
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[QUOTE="FUBAR24"]are you dating or is she just a friend. cause if you arent tappin that she a gold diggerRJay123

she's an ex girlfriend....who made me pay for every meal while we were dating for about 6 months....and who still makes me pay even though she's not my girlfriend anymore lol.....

then don't pay for her. Let her starve or get a job.

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#10 jazznate
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The best strategy is to go to the bathroom when the bill comes. If it's still there tell her to take care of it and you'll be waiting outside.

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she's an ex girlfriend....who made me pay for every meal while we were dating for about 6 months....and who still makes me pay even though she's not my girlfriend anymore lol.....

RJay123
You're being used...
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#12 MuddyMaestro
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Check the credit cards. She probably needs the extra money she's charging because they're maxed out.

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[QUOTE="FUBAR24"]are you dating or is she just a friend. cause if you arent tappin that she a gold diggerRJay123

she's an ex girlfriend....who made me pay for every meal while we were dating for about 6 months....and who still makes me pay even though she's not my girlfriend anymore lol.....

well that clears things up, shes obviously using you.
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#14 FUBAR24
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[QUOTE="RJay123"]

she's an ex girlfriend....who made me pay for every meal while we were dating for about 6 months....and who still makes me pay even though she's not my girlfriend anymore lol.....

horgen123
You're being used...

yup you gotta drop her like a bad habit
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Drastic measures are needed.
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#16 foxhound_fox
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Of course she is using you. If she doesn't even offer to contribute, you can tell she is just being incredibly inconsiderate and expecting you to be the financial legs of the relationship. You have to ask yourself, are you willing to put up with that?

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#17 SevenSlain
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How is it not obvious that she's using you?

Polite girls usually offer to pay the bill, or at least get embarrassed over having someone pay for them all the time.

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#18 mrbojangles25
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yes, she is using you.

its essentially prostitution on her part, only youre exchanging goods for relationship instead of money

talk to her or get rid of her, it wont get better unless you do something though

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#19 L8erSquare
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It means your a push over. Put your foot door and stand up for yourself, if women want to be treated as equals as well as to have equal rights they should be able to equally pay for dates and be able to be drafted into the army just like men.

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#20 seker456
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shes taking advantage of da money..make her pay half atleast
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#21 corwinn01
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[QUOTE="FUBAR24"]are you dating or is she just a friend. cause if you arent tappin that she a gold diggerRJay123

she's an ex girlfriend....who made me pay for every meal while we were dating for about 6 months....and who still makes me pay even though she's not my girlfriend anymore lol.....

*shakes head*

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#22 RotaryRX7
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She actually "makes" you pay, or she just never offers? If she never offers, it's kinda 'iffy', she might just be traditional and think only the guy should pay for dinners. However, if you ask her and she says, "no, im not paying for it" then I'd dump that ***** in a hurry. Obviously, as your relationship progresses, it will only get worse...you will be paying bills, insurance, whatever...and she'll just be along for the ride.
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#23 RotaryRX7
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[QUOTE="FUBAR24"]are you dating or is she just a friend. cause if you arent tappin that she a gold diggerRJay123

she's an ex girlfriend....who made me pay for every meal while we were dating for about 6 months....and who still makes me pay even though she's not my girlfriend anymore lol.....

Wait, what??!?! Dude, where are your bollocks??? You shouldn't be giving her a free ride if she's not even dating you... :| That's just sad. :(
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#25 duxup
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[QUOTE="FUBAR24"]are you dating or is she just a friend. cause if you arent tappin that she a gold diggerRJay123

she's an ex girlfriend....who made me pay for every meal while we were dating for about 6 months....and who still makes me pay even though she's not my girlfriend anymore lol.....

Walk away dude. Save yourself a lot of time and money and walk away.
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#26 Mythomniac
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If she hasn't even offered once, added to the fact that she is your ex-gf, just stop paying for her food.
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#27 LJS9502_basic
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Tell her since you are no longer dating that you expect her to pay for own meal. Simple.