So there's this guy in my class who used to try opening my shell for the first few months cuz I was shy and he was cool with me. Then he stopped trying to converse with me, I don't blame him since I was hardly contributing. Then there was these 2 times where I tried to talk to him, and I said something to him that was kind of putting down myself. For example, I asked him how his project was coming along and he said fine, and asked me how mine was. I told him I was done and then he asked me if I like how it turned out, and I said "Aww, no' . And he giggled and I just stood there with no emotion.
Then another time, I saw him sitting by himself looking at his cell and I asked him if he got a haircut, since it looked like he did and he was like "yeah, I got it last night". And I go "Oh, it looks nice", all while walking past him which would seem kind of weird. But that's how bad I am at socializing. Then the next few months, he would give me dirty looks or completely try avoiding me, or make fun of me to other guys, all because of my bad socializing.
NOW, for the last 2 weeks, he's been being all nice to me again. Asking me what stuff near us belongs to me, smiling, etc. Imean, c'mon, now I have to accept him again, but with my improved social skills. We're around 19-20 years old!! Why do people still have to act like this? Imean it would be easier to accept someone who was mean to me first and then became cool with me. But this reason is so stupid. Should I accept him again and maybe become friends? Do I mention what he did? What do you guys think?
EDIT: Do you guys think maybe the only reason he's accepting me again is because when he makes fun of me to other guys, they don't laugh or agree with him and they're the ones cool with me and that he kind of looks bad if he's the only guy picking on me? Maybe I should take advantage of his second chance since I don't have many friends?
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