I Feel Like 1 Outta 3 Chicks I Meet Has Been Molested/Raped

:( just heard another sob story..and its the same old story too..we've heard it all before: girl is molested by her uncle at a young age. trauma, guilt, the works.

goddamn it pisses me off. these things leaves these chicks with zero self-esteem. damaged for life :evil:

what a sick world we live in

you don't have to "feel" it.

i'm pretty sure that 33% or so is the actual statistic.

here it is.

Lifetime rate of rape /attempted rape for women by race:1

• All women: 17.6%
• White women: 17.7%
• Black women: 18.8%
• Asian Pacific Islander women: 6.8%
• American Indian/Alaskan women: 34.1%
• Mixed race women: 24.4%

http://www.rainn.org/get-information/statistics/sexual-assault-victims

here it is.

Lifetime rate of rape /attempted rape for women by race:1

• All women: 17.6%
• White women: 17.7%
• Black women: 18.8%
• Asian Pacific Islander women: 6.8%
• American Indian/Alaskan women: 34.1%
• Mixed race women: 24.4%

http://www.rainn.org/get-information/statistics/sexual-assault-victims

Riverwolf007

Any idea why American Indian and Alaskan women are so crazy high compared to the rest?

[QUOTE="Riverwolf007"]

here it is.

Lifetime rate of rape /attempted rape for women by race:1

• All women: 17.6%
• White women: 17.7%
• Black women: 18.8%
• Asian Pacific Islander women: 6.8%
• American Indian/Alaskan women: 34.1%
• Mixed race women: 24.4%

http://www.rainn.org/get-information/statistics/sexual-assault-victims

sSubZerOo

Any idea why American Indian and Alaskan women are so crazy high compared to the rest?

probably something horrible like the stat is the same for all races but they report it more.

[QUOTE="Riverwolf007"]

here it is.

Lifetime rate of rape /attempted rape for women by race:1

• All women: 17.6%
• White women: 17.7%
• Black women: 18.8%
• Asian Pacific Islander women: 6.8%
• American Indian/Alaskan women: 34.1%
• Mixed race women: 24.4%

http://www.rainn.org/get-information/statistics/sexual-assault-victims

sSubZerOo

Any idea why American Indian and Alaskan women are so crazy high compared to the rest?

Because the majority of Alaskan Natives still live in Alaska, and rape rates are through the roof there, across the board. I grew up in the dead center of Alaska. It's ridiculous. Pretty sure every girl I know has been raped. Most of them a couple times.

Asking women if they have been molested/rape doesn't really come up in discussion when I meet someone.

if I can be Devil's Advocate for a second, the definition of rape/molest is pretty vague.

Two drunk people hook up, that is rape.
You get slapped on the ass, that is molestation.

Those are two of the mild examples of what rape and molestation count. Obviously there are the more serious violent, forced sex rapes, in addition to childhood molestation and whatnot, but to think that these more severe cases happen to 33% of the population is fear-mongering.

Hell, by the technical definition, I've been raped three times, and molested over 10 times a week. But for all practical reasons, I dont count it as rape.

I think we are simply seeing the knee-jerk counter reaaction to tradtional thinking: 30+ years ago, it was "blame the victim" when someone got raped, "she was asking for it" and stuff like that; now, we are overly sensitive and the definition has been broadened as to not exclude anyone, even if it includes things that shouldnt be there.

if I can be Devil's Advocate for a second, the definition of rape/molest is pretty vague.

Two drunk people hook up, that is rape.
You get slapped on the ass, that is molestation.

Those are two of the mild examples of what rape and molestation count. Obviously there are the more serious violent, forced sex rapes, in addition to childhood molestation and whatnot, but to think that these more severe cases happen to 33% of the population is fear-mongering.

mrbojangles25

That really depends where you are. As I said, Alaska is terrible for that. The place is totally loaded with drunks, drug addicts, and violent criminals (many of whom came to alaska in the first place, running away from charges in other places). I know. I grew up there. I worked right in the heart of downtown Fairbanks for years and years. The rape rate there is more than 33%, i'm pretty sure, and the majority of that is, in fact, real cases of actual, violent, forced sex kind of rape. And that's why the American Indian/Alaskan rate mentioned in that earlier post is so high, compared to the others. Because the majority of the Alaskan Native population is in Alaska. And yeah, they're getting raped by drunks and drug addicts all the time.

1 out of 3 chicks have met Chuck Norris. Coincidence?

1 out of 3 chicks have met Chuck Norris. Coincidence?

hartsickdiscipl

By God, I think you're onto something.

Sure some get raped, but there are plenty who cry rape when it actually wasnt. I saw one Australian commercial that said 1/2 of females there get raped. i laughed.mingmao3046

regarding some types of molestation such as grabbing or teasing I don't know - they are very common.

HOWEVER:

you will never mistake it when you meet a REAL victim of rape - they are SO devastated that it is unmistakable.

One young Korean girl serving in the cafeteria on the Air Base - when a couple air men started making extremely rude suggestions in Korean she dropped the trays she was carrying and curled up on the floor in a ball.

I helped pick up the things and gave her a hand to sit down and got her some tea but it took a long time for her to come out of it.

she looked to me for help often after that and eventually we were a couple - but only so far because she had been raped by a G.I. and it was several years before she was comforable enough to become 'close' with a man.

eventually she had her confidence back again - after we had been together for about three years she discovered that her father was alive - part of the problem was she had thought all her family was dead - another story - the father had been working for a high official of the government who became targeted as unreliable. he and most of his associates disappeared.

regarding some types of molestation such as grabbing or teasing I don't know - they are very common.

HOWEVER:

you will never mistake it when you meet a REAL victim of rape - they are SO devastated that it is unmistakable.

One young Korean girl serving in the cafeteria on the Air Base - when a couple air men started making extremely rude suggestions in Korean she dropped the trays she was carrying and curled up on the floor in a ball.

I helped pick up the things and gave her a hand to sit down and got her some tea but it took a long time for her to come out of it.

she looked to me for help often after that and eventually we were a couple - but only so far because she had been raped by a G.I. and it was several years before she was comforable enough to become 'close' with a man.

eventually she had her confidence back again - after we had been together for about three years she discovered that her father was alive - part of the problem was she had thought all her family was dead - another story - the father had been working for a high official of the government who became targeted as unreliable. he and most of his associates disappeared.

iowastate

you should turn this into a movie. hey maybe I could direct it

My ex told me once her uncle tried to rape her but she ended up escaping... I wouldnt be surprised if she was lying to me and ended up being really raped though... idk, but she sure was sexually open minded. Thats basically why it didnt work either... she was too much of a free spirit for me likes :)

Yeah. Most of the women I have met say that they have been molested or raped. So it is much higher than 1/3 in my experience. It really sucks.ShadowDeathX

its messed up man

And every 3/3 I meet have been too!

Murderers, rapists, child molesters and other violent people need to be locked up forever. It isn't worth taking a second chance.

It happens more often than people realize.mindstorm

regarding some types of molestation such as grabbing or teasing I don't know - they are very common.

HOWEVER:

you will never mistake it when you meet a REAL victim of rape - they are SO devastated that it is unmistakable.

One young Korean girl serving in the cafeteria on the Air Base - when a couple air men started making extremely rude suggestions in Korean she dropped the trays she was carrying and curled up on the floor in a ball.

I helped pick up the things and gave her a hand to sit down and got her some tea but it took a long time for her to come out of it.

she looked to me for help often after that and eventually we were a couple - but only so far because she had been raped by a G.I. and it was several years before she was comforable enough to become 'close' with a man.

eventually she had her confidence back again - after we had been together for about three years she discovered that her father was alive - part of the problem was she had thought all her family was dead - another story - the father had been working for a high official of the government who became targeted as unreliable. he and most of his associates disappeared.

iowastate

my most recent ex-girlfriend was molested by her mom's boyfriend when she was really young..i hated when she'd tell me things about it because it made me so mad. also it made her vagina look even uglier than vaginas already do.

[QUOTE="mindstorm"]It happens more often than people realize.-Tish-

if I can be Devil's Advocate for a second, the definition of rape/molest is pretty vague.

Two drunk people hook up, that is rape.
You get slapped on the ass, that is molestation.

mrbojangles25

Most studies on the prevalance of rape don't count drunk hook-ups as rapes. What matters is whether the victim did or was able to consent.

As for slapping someone on the ass, that's probably a form of sexual harassment. And yes, slapping someone on the ass without their consent is not okay and never will be.

I think we are simply seeing the knee-jerk counter reaaction to tradtional thinking: 30+ years ago, it was "blame the victim" when someone got raped, "she was asking for it" and stuff like that; now, we are overly sensitive and the definition has been broadened as to not exclude anyone, even if it includes things that shouldnt be there.

mrbojangles25

Rape is still sexual intercourse without consent - no one is saying otherwise. It may have broadened, but not to any significant degree. And plenty of people are still blamed for being raped.

lol..OT loves the hookersKC_Hokie

[QUOTE="KC_Hokie"]lol..OT loves the hookersghoklebutter

1 out of 3 chicks have met Chuck Norris. Coincidence?

hartsickdiscipl

I have no problem with this. This is where we get most of our female porn stars and strippers from.

I have no problem with this. This is where we get most of our female porn stars and strippers from.

junglist101

cold blooded :lol:

[QUOTE="mrbojangles25"]

if I can be Devil's Advocate for a second, the definition of rape/molest is pretty vague.

Two drunk people hook up, that is rape.
You get slapped on the ass, that is molestation.

ghoklebutter

Most studies on the prevalance of rape don't count drunk hook-ups as rapes. What matters is whether the victim did or was able to consent.

As for slapping someone on the ass, that's probably a form of sexual harassment. And yes, slapping someone on the ass without their consent is not okay and never will be.

I think we are simply seeing the knee-jerk counter reaaction to tradtional thinking: 30+ years ago, it was "blame the victim" when someone got raped, "she was asking for it" and stuff like that; now, we are overly sensitive and the definition has been broadened as to not exclude anyone, even if it includes things that shouldnt be there.

mrbojangles25

Rape is still sexual intercourse without consent - no one is saying otherwise. It may have broadened, but not to any significant degree. And plenty of people are still blamed for being raped.

I have no problem with this. This is where we get most of our female porn stars and strippers from.

junglist101

Oh man, made my night.

Do these studies query or find out whether it was actual rape/molestation or just a drunk night out?

Society is f***** up

Sadly in todays world one has to look out and be aware that the majority of time its simply untrue. I've seen way too many people steam rolled by families and courts in this matter without any proof.

Seen way too many girls lie about being raped, way too many overactive parents that think a hug meant something more...etc..etc
does it happen? yes. Does it happen to the degree your saying? no.