i cant get girflfriends

i just turned 15, im currently in10th grade, and so far im the only one in my grade who hasn't had a gf or has ever been kissed. im clinically depressed but will not get meds treament because i dont think they'll be of help.... im so sure i want a gf, it's the only thing i want. now dont say i should not care about it or i must wait for it, i dont want to wait and i dont need to anyways, everyone has gf/bfs. to speak with facts, there are absolutely no girls either who havent been kissed or been in a relationship in my class. it's horrible watching someone else have someone to hold even though i just dont.. everyone deserves someone to hold. y can't i get a gf? im one of the kindes guys there, every gal or guy says that to me. ive asked out like 4 girls and all said no. i dont think im repulsive. i just really want a gf for me, it in all seriousness is the sole thing i want, i dont care about anything else. i would trade my kingdom for 1 gf.i get said that im very kind n nice, i love helping out other people. girls just honestly dont like me. y don't they? thats the sole reason why im clinically depressed its because i have to watch everybody have a relationship and kiss, but myself. if i had 1 kiss from a girl, i would shout and scream to the sky. please heeelp :'(i loathe being alone, it plain stinks, i just want somebody to hold :'( someone to tell me that they like me for being myself, and someone to love me. y wont that just happen to me ? i have friends, but thats not it, everyone has friends i just want a gf......

The word depressed is thrown about like a monkey throws its crap nowadays. So you havent got a girl friend who cares.

Abd for the record, i dont have friends so thats wrong.

The word depressed is thrown about like a monkey throws its crap nowadays. So you havent got a girl friend who cares.

Ilovegames1992

You're 15... relax.Frame_Dragger

You're 15... relax.Frame_Dragger

Seconded.

Maybe try working out , that usually does it .

Also maybe because you would scream for joy after being kissed is one of the problems you have towards acheiving your goal

You have a sonic avatar, reason alone.

Cheer up, buttercup. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and it'll probably happen sooner or later.

[QUOTE="Ilovegames1992"]

The word depressed is thrown about like a monkey throws its crap nowadays. So you havent got a girl friend who cares.

Spam_Pics

To tell you the truth, there are more serious and catastrophic things to get depressed over. Not having a girlfriend at 15 isn't one of them.

Geez. When I was 15, I was still in the "girls have cooties" phase.

You're 15... relax.Frame_Dragger

exactly! I didnt get my first gf til i was almost 17. You shouldnt worry about girlfriends right now. Just keep gaming and get good grades so you can get a scholarship for college. Girls are just a pain in the butt anyways...... in college you'll find Women are way more fun!

Abd for the record, i dont have friends so thats wrong. Ilovegames1992

high school girls don't like nice guys, they like a-holes, that's just how it is

You and my subconscious self would get along nicely.

[QUOTE="Ilovegames1992"] Abd for the record, i dont have friends so thats wrong. Spam_Pics

If anything i'm the perfect person to help you. Surely you dont want to end up like me or something. Should spur you on.

[QUOTE="Ilovegames1992"] Abd for the record, i dont have friends so thats wrong. Spam_Pics

Maybe you can have mine, just broke up with her cause she got a tattoo the size of a softball on her shoulder of some flowers....

Maybe you can have mine, just broke up with her cause she got a tattoo the size of a softball on her shoulder of some flowers....

Papadrach

I dont even believe that.

[QUOTE="Spam_Pics"][QUOTE="Ilovegames1992"] really? well i dont know anything about you[QUOTE="spazzx625"][QUOTE="Spam_Pics"][QUOTE="Ilovegames1992"] Abd for the record, i dont have friends so thats wrong. Ilovegames1992

Maybe you can have mine, just broke up with her cause she got a tattoo the size of a softball on her shoulder of some flowers....

Papadrach

sure..... that was a great excuse.... LOL. did u tell her not to do it, and she did it anyway? that would piss me off, but not a reason to dump a girl.

[QUOTE="Ilovegames1992"]

[QUOTE="Spam_Pics"] well maybe cause people think you're a loser, then you're not suitable for helping me and guys 15 is just an age, one might want to mate at 13 and the other at 35 it doesnt matter i feel like now should be the time and that im missing out greatlySpam_Pics

You possibly do.

[QUOTE="Papadrach"]

Maybe you can have mine, just broke up with her cause she got a tattoo the size of a softball on her shoulder of some flowers....

Ilovegames1992

I dont even believe that.

You and my subconscious self would get along nicely.

lancea34

It's all about how you carry yourself. No girl wants to be with a guy with no self esteem, no self worth. You can still be ugly as hell and pull off a 6 if you present yourself with confidence. Find your strengths and work to make them even better. Give yourself something to be proud of. Also, at that age, girls don't want the nice guy. Generally in all stages of life, women like some equivalent of the "bad boy type". Not necessarily a guy who beats everybody up or takes their nutter butter bars in the cafeteria, but a guy who is spontaneous.

So bottom line, be a confident, spontaneous guy and i guarantee you luck will change.

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[QUOTE="Ilovegames1992"] So get off the Internet and start talking to girls in real life.Ilovegames1992

You possibly do.

i said i can talk to girls and i do, been rejected 4 times, i dont have problems socializing.

Spam_Pics

[QUOTE="lancea34"]

You and my subconscious self would get along nicely.

Spam_Pics

[QUOTE="Ilovegames1992"]

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[QUOTE="Ilovegames1992"] So get off the Internet and start talking to girls in real life.Spam_Pics

You possibly do.

Well if you are getting rejected odds are you are doing something wrong. Unless you are hideously deformed or only have extremely conceited girls available to you....

[QUOTE="lancea34"]

You and my subconscious self would get along nicely.

Spam_Pics

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i said i can talk to girls and i do, been rejected 4 times, i dont have problems socializing.

spazzx625

well maybe cause people think you're a loseSpam_Pics

really? i dont like humping pillows Spam_Pics

Lol what is it with people that OT tries to help? They never seem to appreciate us :P

[QUOTE="Spam_Pics"][QUOTE="lancea34"]

You and my subconscious self would get along nicely.

spazzx625

I think thats why God invented masturbation....

If you are jumping straight from woman to pillow without masturbation as a stopgap, you have problems :)

[QUOTE="Ilovegames1992"]

[QUOTE="Papadrach"]

Maybe you can have mine, just broke up with her cause she got a tattoo the size of a softball on her shoulder of some flowers....

lancea34

I dont even believe that.

[QUOTE="lancea34"][QUOTE="Ilovegames1992"]

I dont even believe that.

Papadrach

I know, women having freedom to do what they want. Yuck.

[QUOTE="lancea34"]

You and my subconscious self would get along nicely.

Spam_Pics

That's quite rude, he's just trying to help you

i'm 15 too and no girlfriend either and I don't have a problem with it. All my friends have had girlfriends but they never last because it's not the right person and they did things that they shouldn't do at 15 and 16. I'm not going to date someone who I have no intrest spending a long period of time of my life together just to say I dated a girl. Just wait for the right one or find something that makes you happy :)

[QUOTE="Ilovegames1992"]

well maybe cause people think you're a loser, then you're not suitable for helping me and guys 15 is just an age, one might want to mate at 13 and the other at 35 it doesnt matter i feel like now should be the time and that im missing out greatlySpam_Pics

[QUOTE="Spam_Pics"]well maybe cause people think you're a losezeldaluff

really? i dont like humping pillows Spam_Pics

Lol what is it with people that OT tries to help? They never seem to appreciate us :P

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[QUOTE="Ilovegames1992"] So get off the Internet and start talking to girls in real life.Frame_Dragger

I had my first girlfriend when I was well into 16 years of age, but I wanted one from about the moment I hit puberty... so what? You try, you strike out, or you're shy and don't.... etc....it's part of growing. I'm not saying that you should feel happy that you're single instead of sucking face, just that you shouldn't be "beating yourself up" over it either. RELAX.. .literally relax, and understand that 15 is YOUNG. If you're still coping with this in 1-3 years I'll be shocked.

What do you mean by that? He's obviously not coping with it now....

Start hitting the gym. At least in my high school if you were in good shape and were decent socially getting a gf was a piece of cake. That'll def help you out a lot but it isn't everything. 2 years of hitting the gym and strict dieting is what it took for girls to finally start acknowledging my existence.

Start hitting the gym. At least in my high school if you were in good shape and were decent socially getting a gf was a piece of cake. That'll def help you out a lot but it isn't everything. 2 years of hitting the gym and strict dieting is what it took for girls to finally start acknowledging my existence.

guitarman89

Man it depresses me how shallow society is.

A female friend once told me that if you want to attract girls you need to be a "bad boy"... whatever that means. :|

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Start hitting the gym. At least in my high school if you were in good shape and were decent socially getting a gf was a piece of cake. That'll def help you out a lot but it isn't everything. 2 years of hitting the gym and strict dieting is what it took for girls to finally start acknowledging my existence.

Ilovegames1992

Man it depresses me how shallow society is.

[QUOTE="guitarman89"]

Start hitting the gym. At least in my high school if you were in good shape and were decent socially getting a gf was a piece of cake. That'll def help you out a lot but it isn't everything. 2 years of hitting the gym and strict dieting is what it took for girls to finally start acknowledging my existence.

Ilovegames1992

Man it depresses me how shallow society is.

yeah tell me about it. Sucks but it is what it is...

A female friend once told me that if you want to attract girls you need to be a "bad boy"... whatever that means. :|

lancea34

Bad boy: