how would you react if someone came out to you and what would you/say

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#1 marluxia101
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i was just thinking i went to youtube and looked up videos and the comments were mean like usual

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#2 Norg
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Came out ... what do u mean ???? LOL

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#3 CuddlesTheBunny
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If someone came outside to see me, I guess I would say hi.
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#4 michael_1234576
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If I knew the person well I think I'd already secretly know :lol:
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#5 LJS9502_basic  Online
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Pardon? You mean told me they were gay Had a friend do just that. We remained friends.

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#6 marluxia101
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if they were gay and told you there...for the people hat didnt understand:x

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#7 wiidskirby
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If someone came outside to see me, I guess I would say hi.CuddlesTheBunny

What? You were outside? That qualifies as being social, which is strictly against the ToS... or, at least that's my excuse...

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#8 clembo1990
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"I'm gay ... fine

"I'm gay and I want your babies"... ok but its pretty likely that I'm not interested

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#9 chAzN93
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we will see when it happens

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#10 luke1889
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I guess I'd be fine about it. Naught much else I could say.
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#11 Bourbons3
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Being gay I obviously wouldn't react negatively. But I might be a bit shocked, depending on who it was.
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#12 mindstorm
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I'd immediately start trying to do an exorcism upon that wretched soul. Gotta exorcise those gay demons out! ....and yes, I'm joking. I'd plainly state that I do not approve of actually entering into a homosexual relationship, but I'd give them as much love and support as possible.
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#13 Laihendi
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If he was cute, I would come out to him too :D
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#14 Funky_Llama
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Eh, one of my friends did that. I had to stifle the urge to say 'well duh', given that he was a little too... fabulous not to be gay >_>
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#15 KcurtorMas
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If it was a random person, itd be likely that I wouldnt care. If it was a good friend, id be excited for them (must be a very hard thing to do), but weary as to what they might say next. "Im gay man...and im in love with you", haha. If it was a girl, id be excited for them as well.

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#16 marluxia101
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I'd immediately start trying to do an exorcism upon that wretched soul. Gotta exorcise those gay demons out! ....and yes, I'm joking. I'd plainly state that I do not approve of actually entering into a homosexual relationship, but I'd give them as much love and support as possible.mindstorm
LOL at first i was like :o:shock: aww but your nice there needs to be more christians like you...alot i see are mean

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#17 BOO3Y
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I've had a few people come out to me first because they know I'm not one to mock. Each time I was surprised but I was happy for them, it's no big thing and youtube is a pretty crap sample of any population. :p
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#18 marluxia101
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If it was a random person, itd be likely that I wouldnt care. If it was a good friend, id be excited for them (must be a very hard thing to do), but weary as to what they might say next. "Im gay man...and im in love with you", haha. If it was a girl, id be excited for them as well.

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lol that be cutesy:P

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#19 twilightpanda
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If he was cute, I would come out to him too :DLaihendi
lol hahaha :lol: it does'nt work like that
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#20 Smoke89
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I would probably not know what to say. Something like "That is nice" or "thanks for sharing" would most likely be my reaction.

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[QUOTE="mindstorm"]I'd immediately start trying to do an exorcism upon that wretched soul. Gotta exorcise those gay demons out! ....and yes, I'm joking. I'd plainly state that I do not approve of actually entering into a homosexual relationship, but I'd give them as much love and support as possible.marluxia101

LOL at first i was like :o:shock: aww but your nice there needs to be more christians like you...alot i see are mean

Christians are mean. Don't stereotype please. Thanks.

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#22 thatpunk
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huhh?

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#23 marluxia101
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[QUOTE="Laihendi"]If he was cute, I would come out to him too :Dtwilightpanda
lol hahaha :lol: it does'nt work like that

it could...if both were gay but didnt know and liked each other

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#24 Funky_Llama
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[QUOTE="marluxia101"]

[QUOTE="mindstorm"]I'd immediately start trying to do an exorcism upon that wretched soul. Gotta exorcise those gay demons out! ....and yes, I'm joking. I'd plainly state that I do not approve of actually entering into a homosexual relationship, but I'd give them as much love and support as possible.LJS9502_basic

LOL at first i was like :o:shock: aww but your nice there needs to be more christians like you...alot i see are mean

Christians are mean. Don't stereotype please. Thanks.

'Christians are mean' is a stereotype, but 'a lot of Christians I see are mean' isn't.
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#25 marluxia101
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[QUOTE="marluxia101"]

[QUOTE="mindstorm"]I'd immediately start trying to do an exorcism upon that wretched soul. Gotta exorcise those gay demons out! ....and yes, I'm joking. I'd plainly state that I do not approve of actually entering into a homosexual relationship, but I'd give them as much love and support as possible.LJS9502_basic

LOL at first i was like :o:shock: aww but your nice there needs to be more christians like you...alot i see are mean

Christians are mean. Don't stereotype please. Thanks.

i dont stereotype its just that certain prson may take it too far...or i need to meeet more people

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#26 twilightpanda
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[QUOTE="twilightpanda"][QUOTE="Laihendi"]If he was cute, I would come out to him too :Dmarluxia101

lol hahaha :lol: it does'nt work like that

it could...if both were gay but didnt know and liked each other

ya but she is a girl :o
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I'd hit it
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#28 marluxia101
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[QUOTE="marluxia101"]

[QUOTE="twilightpanda"] lol hahaha :lol: it does'nt work like that twilightpanda

it could...if both were gay but didnt know and liked each other

ya but she is a girl :o

:shock: i didnt know lol well yeah...that wont work lol

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#29 twilightpanda
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I'd hit itxaos
it's you :shock:
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#30 marluxia101
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I'd hit itxaos
:shock: im going to tell your boyfriend

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#31 twilightpanda
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[QUOTE="marluxia101"]

[QUOTE="twilightpanda"][QUOTE="marluxia101"] it could...if both were gay but didnt know and liked each other

ya but she is a girl :o

:shock: i didnt know lol well yeah...that wont work lol

and she said come out off him and i was like :shock: WTF!?!
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#32 LJS9502_basic  Online
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i dont stereotype its just that certain prson may take it too far...or i need to meeet more people

marluxia101

One person so you brand the entire group.:(

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#33 AtomicBaconBits
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I really don't know.But I know I'd be proud of them for finding the courage to tell me,and I'd support them on the subject 100%.

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#34 marluxia101
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[QUOTE="marluxia101"]

[QUOTE="twilightpanda"] ya but she is a girl :otwilightpanda

:shock: i didnt know lol well yeah...that wont work lol

and she said come out off him and i was like :shock: WTF!?!

lol yea thats why i thought it was a boy

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#35 socked_feet
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I don't know? I'd probably say I'm proud of you for coming out if it was difficult for them.
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#36 marluxia101
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[QUOTE="marluxia101"]

i dont stereotype its just that certain prson may take it too far...or i need to meeet more people

LJS9502_basic

One person so you brand the entire group.:(

no NEVER i said the ones ive met,comments in the internet, and the ones from my school

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#37 twilightpanda
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[QUOTE="marluxia101"]

[QUOTE="twilightpanda"][QUOTE="marluxia101"]:shock: i didnt know lol well yeah...that wont work lol

and she said come out off him and i was like :shock: WTF!?!

lol yea thats why i thought it was a boy

lol but that sounded so wrong :lol:
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#38 LJS9502_basic  Online
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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]

[QUOTE="marluxia101"]

i dont stereotype its just that certain prson may take it too far...or i need to meeet more people

marluxia101

One person so you brand the entire group.:(

no NEVER i said the ones ive met,comments in the internet, and the ones from my school

I've encountered many Christians here that are accepting.

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#39 marluxia101
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[QUOTE="marluxia101"]

[QUOTE="twilightpanda"] and she said come out off him and i was like :shock: WTF!?!twilightpanda

lol yea thats why i thought it was a boy

lol but that sounded so wrong :lol:

oh now i see :lol:didnt notice that...youre fun im gonna stalk you:P

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#40 marluxia101
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[QUOTE="marluxia101"]

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]One person so you brand the entire group.:(

LJS9502_basic

no NEVER i said the ones ive met,comments in the internet, and the ones from my school

I've encountered many Christians here that are accepting.

yup thats why i said MOST IVE met OT has nice people overall

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#41 Theokhoth
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"Wanna hook up?"

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#42 FatalFantasy206
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Feel good about the fact they thought of me enough as a friend to be able to tell me something like that. As far as my reaction, it would be surprising, even shocking, when I think of my friends, but I would treat them the same as I always did.

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#43 twilightpanda
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"Wanna hook up?"

Theokhoth
lol ofcourse :lol:
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#44 xxxAdvocatexxx
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It Has happen to me before...

I told this person that i was gay and they told me that they were gay too. We started dating and it didn't work out...

If it was to happen again of course i will be supportive but i wouldn't think about trying to "get" with them.

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#45 shaunk89
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I'd hit itxaos

hahaha, this made me chuckle muchly. *borat style* is niiiiice

this actually happened to me...twice, but i kind of guessed the guy was gay anyway, so i wasnt overly surprised, nor did i care. one of the guys was generally a bit of a douche though, regardless of his sexuality, so i don't really talk to him any more...the other was cool, but i think he had a thing for me, so he made me feel kind of uncomfortable....

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#46 twilightpanda
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[QUOTE="marluxia101"]

[QUOTE="twilightpanda"][QUOTE="marluxia101"] lol yea thats why i thought it was a boy

lol but that sounded so wrong :lol:

oh now i see :lol:didnt notice that...youre fun im gonna stalk you:P

lol please don't stalk me :cry: i have alot of people who are stalking me here already :(
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#47 Vashn
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i'd prolly act like it didn't phase me, and get on with my day. Not that big of a deal to me

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#48 marluxia101
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[QUOTE="marluxia101"]

[QUOTE="twilightpanda"] lol but that sounded so wrong :lol:twilightpanda

oh now i see :lol:didnt notice that...youre fun im gonna stalk you:P

lol please don't stalk me :cry: i have alot of people who are stalking me here already :(

okay ill take you off my list of victims

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[QUOTE="xaos"]I'd hit itmarluxia101

:shock: im going to tell your boyfriend

Just because of a lil seven year itch? :(
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#50 twilightpanda
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[QUOTE="marluxia101"]

[QUOTE="twilightpanda"][QUOTE="marluxia101"] oh now i see :lol:didnt notice that...youre fun im gonna stalk you:P

lol please don't stalk me :cry: i have alot of people who are stalking me here already :(

okay ill take you off my list of victims

lol i don't mind hehehe :P