How long is good to stay with my GF for

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#1 sboyer2
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I like her and all but not anything where I wanna be with her forever or anything. How long should I give her 2 maybe 3 months? How long is good enough where I can dump her without being a jerk. And what should I say should I tell her I like her but not that much to be with her any extended period of time?

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#2 rawsavon
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...till you no longer want to be in a relationship with her
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#3 ethanpaige
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If that's the way you're looking at it, might as well cut it off now before she gets too attatched.

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#4 SideSwipes
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I'll tell you what I told everyone in another thread.

Slap her in the face and tell her she's fat and ugly and that you wouldn't dream of touching her with a barge poll.

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#5 frostybanana
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make her break up with you. that's the american way.
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#6 allnamestaken
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Well, it sounds like you're being dishonest right from the get-go, broseph. How does she feel about the relationship? If you haven't discussed your feelings for each other then you're just playing games. There's no OK point in which to dump a girl you don't really want to be with.
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#8 travisstaggs
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2 or 3 weeks, tops.

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#9 Wolls
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Well until it no longer feels right. Still dont try to lead her on. If you dont love her NEVER say you do to keep the relationship going.
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#10 Ninja-Hippo
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If you don't want to stay with her you should make sure she's aware that it's only a temporary thing, because its cruel to toy with peoples emotions. :)
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#11 Jacobistheman
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If you are already planning to break up with her, do it now, but you should be in the relationship as long as you are happy.

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#12 sboyer2
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Well until it no longer feels right. Still dont try to lead her on. If you dont love her NEVER say you do to keep the relationship going.Wolls
I already have I end every text with I love you just to keep her happy but I tell a lot of girls that so I'm not sure if she thinks it means anything.
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#13 Vader993
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[QUOTE="frostybanana"]make her break up with you. that's the american way.SideSwipes

Sleep with her sister and video tape it. Then leave a copy of the video lying around for her to find.

sometimes i wish there was a god,

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#14 starfox15
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It kinda sounds like your not interested anymore at this point. Just tell her how you feel and break it off.

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#15 Suzy_Q_Kazoo
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If you don't want to stay with her you should make sure she's aware that it's only a temporary thing, because its cruel to toy with peoples emotions. :)Ninja-Hippo

This. By trying to avoid being a jerk, you may be doing just that by allowing her to get attached when you're clearly not in it for the long haul.

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#16 VaguelyTagged
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just make sure you dump her via SMS

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#17 Vader993
Member since 2010 • 7533 Posts

just make sure you dump her via SMS

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thanks

i use this in the future

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#18 SideSwipes
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[QUOTE="SideSwipes"]

[QUOTE="frostybanana"]make her break up with you. that's the american way.Vader993

Sleep with her sister and video tape it. Then leave a copy of the video lying around for her to find.

sometimes i wish there was a god,

He's real. And his name is SideSwipes. 8)

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#19 sboyer2
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It kinda sounds like your not interested anymore at this point. Just tell her how you feel and break it off.

starfox15

It's only been a week I'm still interested but I dont wanna be with her that long. Maybe like a month or two depending on how I feel at the time. She's cute and all but there are better looking girls

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#20 frostybanana
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[QUOTE="starfox15"]

It kinda sounds like your not interested anymore at this point. Just tell her how you feel and break it off.

sboyer2
It's only been a week I'm still interested but I dont wanna be with her that long. Maybe like a month or two depending on how I feel at the time.

tell her you love her. then tell her she needs breast implants. it's win-win for you.
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#21 ghoklebutter
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...till you no longer want to be in a relationship with herrawsavon
/thread, etc.
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#22 Wolls
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[QUOTE="Wolls"]Well until it no longer feels right. Still dont try to lead her on. If you dont love her NEVER say you do to keep the relationship going.sboyer2
I already have I end every text with I love you just to keep her happy but I tell a lot of girls that so I'm not sure if she thinks it means anything.

You seem like a nice guy and and dont want to hurt her feelings, so id suggest you tell her now how you feel instead of dropping it on her like a bomb a few months down the line. The way i see it theres nothing wrong with only wanting to go out with someone for a while for fun, as long as you dont lead them to think otherwise.
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#23 Agent-Zero
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What? If you are going out with her just to not seem like a jerk, that kind of makes you a jerk. You are telling her this might go somewhere, when you no it isn't. You're lying to her, even though you think you are being nice.
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#24 SolidSnake35
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If you don't want to stay with her you should make sure she's aware that it's only a temporary thing, because its cruel to toy with peoples emotions. :)Ninja-Hippo
That's true. The longer you wait the worse it'll be... assuming she's into you.
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#25 F1_2004
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Wow TC you sound like a great person! But going with the theme, just try to get anything you want out of the relationship (yes, anything) until it stops working and she breaks up with you. Like someone else said, it's the American way, and it's win-win. You just end up being a douchebag in the end.
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#26 Bourbons3
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...till you no longer want to be in a relationship with herrawsavon
This.
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#27 bebop013
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[QUOTE="frostybanana"]make her break up with you. that's the american way.SideSwipes

Sleep with her sister and video tape it. Then leave a copy of the video lying around for her to find.

*fixed

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#28 PcGamingRig
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If that's the way you're looking at it, might as well cut it off now before she gets too attatched.

ethanpaige

this.

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#29 SideSwipes
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[QUOTE="SideSwipes"]

[QUOTE="frostybanana"]make her break up with you. that's the american way.bebop013

Sleep with her sister and video tape it. Then leave a copy of the video lying around for her to find.

*fixed

*Pic*

Haha, did you actually make that? :lol:

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#30 deactivated-5c37d3adcd094
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...till you no longer want to be in a relationship with herrawsavon
Nailed it first time. You obviously don't want to be in a relationship with her now, so dump her now. Don't make plans to break up with her in a few months... Better to hurt her a little now than to possibly break her heart further along the line.
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#31 Ninja-Hippo
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"]...till you no longer want to be in a relationship with herkamikaze_pigmy
Nailed it first time. You obviously don't want to be in a relationship with her now, so dump her now. Don't make plans to break up with her in a few months... Better to hurt her a little now than to possibly break her heart further along the line.

Yeah this is true. Not only that, but it's a waste of her time.
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#32 deactivated-5c37d3adcd094
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[QUOTE="bebop013"][QUOTE="SideSwipes"]Sleep with her sister and video tape it. Then leave a copy of the video lying around for her to find.SideSwipes
*fixed *Pic*

Haha, did you actually make that? :lol:

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#33 frostybanana
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[QUOTE="kamikaze_pigmy"][QUOTE="rawsavon"]...till you no longer want to be in a relationship with herNinja-Hippo
Nailed it first time. You obviously don't want to be in a relationship with her now, so dump her now. Don't make plans to break up with her in a few months... Better to hurt her a little now than to possibly break her heart further along the line.

Yeah this is true. Not only that, but it's a waste of her time.

not if she feels the same way
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#34 bebop013
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[QUOTE="SideSwipes"][QUOTE="bebop013"]*fixed *Pic*kamikaze_pigmy
Haha, did you actually make that? :lol:

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indeed

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#35 bebop013
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[QUOTE="kamikaze_pigmy"][QUOTE="SideSwipes"]Haha, did you actually make that? :lol:bebop013

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#36 tocklestein2005
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until you've spread all the seed you can spare on her.

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#37 Sword-Demon
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I end every text with I love you just to keep her happy but I tell a lot of girls that so I'm not sure if she thinks it means anything.sboyer2
It's only been a week I'm still interested but I dont wanna be with her that long. Maybe like a month or two depending on how I feel at the time. She's cute and all but there are better looking girls

sboyer2

:|

How long is good enough where I can dump her without being a jerk.

sboyer2

you are far too late for that

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#39 edinsftw
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Wow...1 week and you already told her you love her...you must be in middle school or highschool

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#40 Silverbond
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Why are you with her if you're already trying to think of things to say for when you break up with her?

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#41 Truf89
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...till you no longer want to be in a relationship with herrawsavon
That ended the thread :lol:
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#42 rawsavon
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"]...till you no longer want to be in a relationship with hermeconate
Wow, just wow rawsavon, how do you nearly always manage to just make me laugh with your straight-to-the-point clear-as-crystal comment? :lol:

My bluntness gets me in trouble IRL on a daily basis. It is only here that I manage to get away with it (excluding the occasional Mod spanking and grounding)
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#43 edinsftw
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[QUOTE="meconate"][QUOTE="rawsavon"]...till you no longer want to be in a relationship with herrawsavon
Wow, just wow rawsavon, how do you nearly always manage to just make me laugh with your straight-to-the-point clear-as-crystal comment? :lol:

My bluntness gets me in trouble IRL on a daily basis. It is only here that I manage to get away with it (excluding the occasional Mod spanking and grounding)

Same here. Apparently when my sister asks if the dress looks good and i say i dont know i think ur always ugly gets me in trouble

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#44 bloodling
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Until you find a better one.

jk lol

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#45 Good-Apollo
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Until you have no use left for her.
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#46 RACiEP
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Unless she feels the same way about the relationship, just dump her now. Otherwise you are being a complete jerk letting it continue when you know you're only looking for something temporary.

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#47 airshocker
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Faith in humanity -1.

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#48 WiiMan21
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Doesn't seem like your interested at all man, I'd end it ASAP.

let her down easy though, don't do anything that will make you or her regret any decisions.

Just be honest with whatever you say or do.

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#49 Snipes_2
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That doesn't sound very nice Thread Creator. You're planning how long you should stay with your girlfriend before you dump her?

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#50 Snipes_2
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Faith in humanity -1.

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Lol, I know :lol: