How do you turn someone down?

Okay, this is awkward. I got a message from a freind, who I like no more than that, asking me to go to Homecoming with her.

Frankly I dont want to go with her. She gets really emotional about this stuff. And I dont want to be the bad end of some karma.

What should I say?

Is it like a "friendly" thing or a "lets get it on" kinda thing?

I dont really know.

I dont really know.

ryustruck

That bad huh, well just tell her that homecoming isnt your scene and that you both should catch a movie or something.

Telling her straight out would be the best approach.

But let's come up with something more creative. Tell her you'd love to, then show up at her house late. Like, an hour late. When she gets angry at you, tell her if she doesn't lose the attitude, you'll leave. If she decides to go on with you, stop the car in the front of the school. Wait until she gets out, but you stay in the car. Then reach over, shut the door, lock it and drive off blaring DMX in your stereo. It will be legendary.

Telling her straight out would be the best approach.

But let's come up with something more creative. Tell her you'd love to, then show up at her house late. Like, an hour late. When she gets angry at you, tell her if she doesn't lose the attitude, you'll leave. If she decides to go on with you, stop the car in the front of the school. Wait until she gets out, but you stay in the car. Then reach over, shut the door, lock it and drive off blaring DMX in your stereo. It will be legendary.

funnymario

dude. unless your gonna ask someone elso just go with her to homecoming. Homecoming isn't a relationship thing. A lot of people just go with friends.

I told her straight up that I just didnt want to go with her and Im asking the one that I DO want to go with on monday.

im actually dressing up for the occasion, by coincidince. I have a Mock Constitutional Convention last hour. ryustruck

I told her straight up that I just didnt want to go with her and Im asking the one that I DO want to go with on monday.

im actually dressing up for the occasion, by coincidince. I have a Mock Constitutional Convention last hour. ryustruck

So you turned her down before you even knew that the other girl would go with you?

Politely tell her to screw off.secretsaiyan007

:lol:

Send her a msg of email and say "welcome to dumpville, population you"DriftMax

BWAHAHAHA, Awesome!

[QUOTE="ryustruck"]I told her straight up that I just didnt want to go with her and Im asking the one that I DO want to go with on monday.

im actually dressing up for the occasion, by coincidince. I have a Mock Constitutional Convention last hour. niptuckSean

So you turned her down before you even knew that the other girl would go with you?

Yeah. Because I Don't want to go with this girl, regardless if I do have a date or not. I'd rather go alone than with her.

And if the other girl turns me down, oh well, her loss.

[QUOTE="niptuckSean"]

[QUOTE="ryustruck"]I told her straight up that I just didnt want to go with her and Im asking the one that I DO want to go with on monday.

im actually dressing up for the occasion, by coincidince. I have a Mock Constitutional Convention last hour. ryustruck

So you turned her down before you even knew that the other girl would go with you?

Yeah. Because I Don't want to go with this girl, regardless if I do have a date or not. I'd rather go alone than with her.

And if the other girl turns me down, oh well, her loss.

People in OT are definitely experts with the ladies. You came to the right place for advice.