I'm not trying to sound like a Billy-badass or anything, but I'm 6'3" and fill up a doorway. More or less the size of a small bear. And I have the male equivalent of RBF which makes me look like I'm in a bad mood I guess?
Idunno I like to think most people are pretty good and I've just never really encountered that many jerks because there aren't that many.
However if I was being "violated" I think the best thing to do is just speak loudly that you don't like that. In my experience, people might not get the message if you tell them directly, but if you embarrass them in a loud voice in public they tend to back off.
I pretty much look like a biker and I look intimidating,nobody screws with me and I’m being honest, I’m happier than flies on sh*t because I couldn’t fight unless my life really depended on it. I’m not tough nor strong, I just look like I’m can steam roll anyone over and normally people have told me that he/she was scared to approach me. I’m a weakling and I don’t have a temper, I’m a pretty calm and chill person.
What in the hell does that even mean? Lmao.. I wish someone would try to "violate" me.. wouldn't end up well one way or the other.
Now if you mean something like getting mugged at gunpoint I can tell you this. I had my fighting days and I don't keep much cash in my wallet and my debit cards are secure... so it wouldn't be worth dying for.
I've heard this Irish proverb that, "Strangers are friends you haven't met yet.". But in my experience a lot of people are only friendly if there is something in it for them or if it fits their inclination at the time, so I just don't get emotionally invested in people. When they sense the aura that you want your space, they will give you that space.
The truly friendly people will get to know you anyway.
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