How Do You Feel about OPEN Relationships?

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#1 kickingcarpet
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OPEN meaning you can willingly sleep around with the consent of your main lover. Personally I think its insane and would cause huge jealously issues. I read a story where a guy accepted the OPEN relationship from his girlfriend and she went and banged her ex...True he agreed but going back to ur EX is crazy. 

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#2 foxhound_fox
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Not sure how I'd feel about it until I find myself in such a situation. I enjoy monogamy and the comfort and safety it brings, but if I had a partner who was interested in branching out, I might give it a try once.
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#3 deeliman
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I don't like the idea for myself, but if others want to do it they can knock themselves out.

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#4 chaplainDMK
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Lol that chick just wanted to not feel bad for cheating. You can have an open relationship, but that was just abusing the guys trust.
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#5 RadecSupreme
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I don't feel particularly anything about them. Simply a practice I would not commit to. No interest in polygamy.

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#7 deactivated-5b1e62582e305
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I envy those people who have completely separated sex from love.

Open relationships are interesting but I couldn't do it so props to those who can.

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#8 Jimn_tonic
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it's like drinking and driving; it sounds like the best of both worlds, but it's probably going to end horribly, and may end up hurting innocent people.

It's best just to keep the sexual "open-ness" between you and your lover, meaning trying new things when it comes to sex, and communicating with eachother about it.

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#9 GamerForca
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It's not for me. I'm perfectly content with a monogamous relationship, plus I'd think that I'd end up with the raw end of the deal. Even a moderately hot girl would be able to take much more advantage of that situation than I would.. up to a certain age..
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#10 The_Lipscomb
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I like it lol

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#11 DrvoJavorovo
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I don't like the idea for myself, but if others want to do it they can knock themselves out.

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#13 nomsayin
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No.

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#14 Fightingfan
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Don't understand the point in relationships at this point in time in my life.
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#15 Fightingfan
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Don't understand the point in relationships at this point in time in my life.
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#16 mjf249
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I don't think I could ever do it, would be too weird for me.

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#17 mjf249
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I don't think I could ever do it, would be too weird for me.

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#18 THE_DRUGGIE
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Only if the clown gets to watch.

   
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#19 Makhaidos
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Don't believe in them. I might (MIGHT) be willing to sleep with someone else *with* my partner, but not when he's not around (and I completely expect him to feel the same way),
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#20 cheese_game619
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its the only way to go why would you only want one ass when you could have as many as you could handle plus the benefits of being in a relationship you're all just brainwashed weaklings that think about feelings and standards you made up too much
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its the only way to go why would you only want one ass when you could have as many as you could handle plus the benefits of being in a relationship you're all just brainwashed weaklings that think about feelings and standards you made up too muchcheese_game619
HERP DERP

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#22 Makhaidos
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[QUOTE="cheese_game619"]its the only way to go why would you only want one ass when you could have as many as you could handle plus the benefits of being in a relationship you're all just brainwashed weaklings that think about feelings and standards you made up too much

Here's another reason why I don't like them.
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#23 cheese_game619
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why would i have anything to do with your archaic opinion
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#24 THE_DRUGGIE
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why would i have anything to do with your archaic opinion cheese_game619

You gotta fill your heart with love, man.

LOVE

   
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#25 cheese_game619
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my way has more love
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#26 THE_DRUGGIE
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my way has more lovecheese_game619

That ain't love.

Never will be.

LOVE

You gotta fill your heeeeeeaaaAAAaart with LOVE

   
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#27 chessmaster1989
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Would not agree to one and would break up with anyone who insisted on one. If other people want to that's their business.
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#28 LJS9502_basic  Online
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Not my style....
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#29 foxhound_fox
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my way has more lovecheese_game619
And jealousy.
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#30 THE_DRUGGIE
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[QUOTE="cheese_game619"]my way has more lovefoxhound_fox
And jealousy.

And less swag.

You gotta have mad swag to get your gurl to put on the maid outfit.

   
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#31 cheese_game619
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jealousy is a choice and a weakness a weakness isnt necessarily a bad thing, but its still a weakness
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#32 foxhound_fox
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[QUOTE="cheese_game619"]jealousy is a choice and a weakness a weakness isnt necessarily a bad thing, but its still a weakness

Jealousy is human nature.
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#33 SolidSnake35
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I would be reluctant to call it a relationship.
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#34 Wolf-Man2006
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NO.

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#35 Kats_RK
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It's the couple's decision but I would never be in a open relationship. 

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#36 mrbojangles25
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biologically speaking, men can procreate roughly every 72 hours on average, women every 9 months.  It is natural for men to want to fool around, and yet at the same time we are extremely protective of our "mates" in modern society (which has nothing to do with procreation, yet the instinct is still there), which is hypocritical, because the man tends to get really jealous if the woman fools around.

I find it is better to just stick to one partner.  I've seen open relationships, both willing and other, lead to nothing but trouble.

And honestly, if your partner can't satisfy you, just break up with them and find another.  To do anything else is cowardly.  There are a few minor exceptions, of course.

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#37 liberalus
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i have engaged in several open reltionships thru my life and i wish to engage in more. its a very liberating experience i suggest all of u to remove the archaic power structures that rule u and become free

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#38 cheese_game619
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[QUOTE="foxhound_fox"][QUOTE="cheese_game619"]jealousy is a choice and a weakness a weakness isnt necessarily a bad thing, but its still a weakness

Jealousy is human nature.

in todays society it wasnt human nature when humans became humans
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#39 one_plum
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I consider myself open-minded, but not that open-minded.

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#40 mrbojangles25
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[QUOTE="foxhound_fox"][QUOTE="cheese_game619"]jealousy is a choice and a weakness a weakness isnt necessarily a bad thing, but its still a weaknesscheese_game619
Jealousy is human nature.

in todays society it wasnt human nature when humans became humans

no, but back then we could just take the p**** and kill any other man that got in our way.

Ahhh the good ol' days....

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#42 foxhound_fox
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[QUOTE="cheese_game619"]in todays society it wasnt human nature when humans became humans

We also weren't capable of a lot of things back when Homo sapeins first evolved. Like complex writing systems, engineering and psychological analysis. If you want to live in the stone age, that's fine, just find others willing to live in there with you.
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#43 cheese_game619
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completely irrelevant examples my point was that monogamy is a recent societal construct you buy into it and thats fine, but you are disregarding the fact that you bought into it rather than how natural it is or isnt
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#44 Ugalde-
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I would never accept that ish with a girl I actually care about.
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#45 foxhound_fox
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you buy into it and thats fine, but you are disregarding the fact that you bought into it rather than how natural it is or isntcheese_game619
Sh!tting in a bush was natural at one point too. Now we have toilets.
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#46 GazaAli
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Its an abomination. I find it very hard to accept that some people believe it can be a part of a serious, mature and fruitful relationship. The whole concept is distorted.
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#47 cheese_game619
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[QUOTE="cheese_game619"]you buy into it and thats fine, but you are disregarding the fact that you bought into it rather than how natural it is or isntfoxhound_fox
Sh!tting in a bush was natural at one point too. Now we have toilets.

thats another irrelevant example monogamy isnt an advancement of technology or intelligence, its just how society works at this point in time
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#48 foxhound_fox
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[QUOTE="cheese_game619"]thats another irrelevant example monogamy isnt an advancement of technology or intelligence, its just how society works at this point in time

I'd say it's a societal advancement.
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#49 cheese_game619
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ok, well thats an opinion why do you think its an advancement
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#50 foxhound_fox
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[QUOTE="cheese_game619"]ok, well thats an opinion why do you think its an advancement

Not sure. Just seems like a more emotionally-centric ideal, rather than a biological one. Attesting to our evolution as a species away from out basest instincts.