@TehFuneral said:
There is this smoking hot colleague of mine whom I tried to put some moves on. I soon found out she's not interested. I also learned however that shes not interested because shes into better looking men.
A handsome guy easily hanged out with her and got to know her well in days while he wasn't even trying, while it took me a whole lot long to even be considered a "colleague" :(
There is plenty of fish in the sea sure, but this is a blow to my ego. I feel inferior >:(
Man...I know there are going to be exceptions to what I'm about to say, and that's all well and good. But listen here...
...if it took you long enough to become a 'colleague' before you decided to make a move on her, you're doing it the hard way. The best time to make a move is when you first meet a girl. She doesn't know you, you don't know her, but she's caught your eye and you're jumping on the opportunity. It is in the first few minutes after meeting that sexual tension is the highest, so take advantage of it.
By doing this you're not giving her time to make judgements about you and if she is looking it's quite likely she'll be open to some flirtation. You're also showing you're aggressive with your goals and not someone who lollygags and doubts when it comes to decision making.
That doesn't mean it's going to work out, but more often than not once you learn to pull off the immediate hook and reel your success rate will go up.
I'm not all into that alpha male shit, but it IS true that you're either the guy in front, or the guy standing in line.
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