How do I hint at attraction?

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#1 daishi112
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I'm 15 and the girl I'm interested in is 14. I want to, kind of, give her hints that I want to be more of a friend to her. She's very attractive, and I'm definitely not ugly. I'm just not sure the right way to let her know, should I just tell her how I feel or should I try some other things? One thing I keep doing is when our eyes meet accross a room i smile and keep the stare for about 3 seconds, then we look back.

Any advice would be appreciated greatly!

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Blow on her shoulder.
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#3 Sexy_Pirate
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I was watching MIB 2, and the female evil lady stuck her tounge in this guys ear. Do that.
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#4 daishi112
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I was watching MIB 2, and the female evil lady stuck her tounge in this guys ear. Do that.Sexy_Pirate
Ew
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#5 halo9424
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so u want to tell her u like her or tell her u'd rather be a friend?...
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#6 daishi112
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so u want to tell her u like her or tell her u'd rather be a friend?...halo9424
That I like her, more than a friend.
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flick a booger at her...then laugh
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#8 foxhound_fox
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Don't hint. Be forward.
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#9 dlp21
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Kiss her, she will get the point and she will either kiss you back or you will work out your friendship. But do it when the two of ya are alone.
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#10 daishi112
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Don't hint. Be forward.foxhound_fox
Well I was going to today actually, we were both alone sitting next to each other, but I was in a pissed off mood so I kind of shyed away from saying anything...I was just gonna be like "You know something (name)? I friggen love you". That wouldn't really be creepy right?

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#11 halo9424
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[QUOTE="halo9424"]so u want to tell her u like her or tell her u'd rather be a friend?...daishi112
That I like her, more than a friend.

laugh at everything she says when she tries to be funny but not sarcastically

also u could give her a longer then regular hug..but not too long or else ull just creep her out

rub her thigh for a second although this one is very risky..cause it depends on the girl

or give her kiss on the cheek if u have the guts

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#13 Solid_Snake1221
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hmm... I heard girls love it when you yell at them and tell all of their friend's that she is a whore. But I could be wrong.
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#14 jem_gal
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hang out with her. talk to her. talk to her friends especially!

if you're good with her friends then i think you have a better chance. be nice. don't be an ass. its really up to you on how you should tell her. either straight up or leave BIG hints.

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#15 daishi112
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[QUOTE="daishi112"][QUOTE="halo9424"]so u want to tell her u like her or tell her u'd rather be a friend?...halo9424

That I like her, more than a friend.

laugh at everything she says when she tries to be funny but not sarcastically

also u could give her a longer then regular hug..but not too long or else ull just creep her out

rub her thigh for a second although this one is very risky..cause it depends on the girl

or give her kiss on the cheek if u have the guts

I do respond to her speaking more readily and longer than other people around, like a joke or something. I've never given her a hug should I just greet her with a hug one day or ask or what? I've never had a girlfriend, and I've never even hugged a girl, i feel really lame but its the truth lol.
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Well I was going to today actually, we were both alone sitting next to each other, but I was in a pissed off mood so I kind of shyed away from saying anything...I was just gonna be like "You know something (name)? I friggen love you". That wouldn't really be creepy right?daishi112


Now that would be too forward. Just tell her you find her attractive and want to explore something more than a friendship.
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ask her to hang out with u, like a movie, become her friend then go for more
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#18 jem_gal
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aww this topic is cute. how does she respond when you're near her?

does she pay more attention to you and look at you straight in the eye? does she touch your arm when talking to you? is there any hint that she might like you too?

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#19 daishi112
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Well here's the thing, those are all really great tips, seriously that helps a LOT. But the only time I talk to her is at this place, it's group therapy for teens. It's like rehab cuz of school problems and stuff, no she's not nuts, her parents just hate her. And I'm not nuts either lol. But since it's like rehab we can't hang out, its not legal. I did tell her that when I get discharged that we'll smoke...soo I dunno about hanging out with her just yet.
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Show her your shoulder. You know what happens next. ;)
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#21 dlp21
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Oh, wow, I didn't know you've never hugged a girl before. Heh, ignore my advice for now. Seriously though, go out with her, talk with her, give her a hug and then go for the kiss. And you can get away with a hug any time you see each other for the first time for that paticular day. So just go for it...the hug that is. Then kiss later.
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Well here's the thing, those are all really great tips, seriously that helps a LOT. But the only time I talk to her is at this place, it's group therapy for teens. It's like rehab cuz of school problems and stuff, no she's not nuts, her parents just hate her. And I'm not nuts either lol. But since it's like rehab we can't hang out, its not legal. I did tell her that when I get discharged that we'll smoke...soo I dunno about hanging out with her just yet.daishi112
that completely changed my point of view on this topic... but i stand by what i said... become her friend, then go for more
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[QUOTE="halo9424"]

[QUOTE="daishi112"][QUOTE="halo9424"]so u want to tell her u like her or tell her u'd rather be a friend?...daishi112

That I like her, more than a friend.

laugh at everything she says when she tries to be funny but not sarcastically

also u could give her a longer then regular hug..but not too long or else ull just creep her out

rub her thigh for a second although this one is very risky..cause it depends on the girl

or give her kiss on the cheek if u have the guts

I do respond to her speaking more readily and longer than other people around, like a joke or something. I've never given her a hug should I just greet her with a hug one day or ask or what? I've never had a girlfriend, and I've never even hugged a girl, i feel really lame but its the truth lol.

don't force a hug...ask for a hug it might sound lame but i'm sure she'd rather u ask them just give her one and she wuoldn't want one,....y'feel me?

p.s. if she doesn't want a hug i have to say ur out of luck, also has she showed that she likes u at all?

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I was watching MIB 2, and the female evil lady stuck her tounge in this guys ear. Do that.Sexy_Pirate

LMAO

i'm gonna quote that :D

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#25 daishi112
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aww this topic is cute. how does she respond when you're near her?

does she pay more attention to you and look at you straight in the eye? does she touch your arm when talking to you? is there any hint that she might like you too?

jem_gal
She does look into my eyes, doesn't touch me though. She talked to me for like 20 minutes once about just **** she goes through and I tried to show a little compassion, but I just kind of responded by saying I'm going through the same **** and I know how it feels and I feel bad for her, I kind of blew it there I guess...
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do a barrel roll. She will be quite impressed.
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Pelvic thrusts in her face
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#28 daishi112
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do a barrel roll. She will be quite impressed.whodeysay85
Oh snap for reals?
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#29 quadraleap
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...it sounds like you already are.

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#30 daishi112
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...it sounds like you already are.

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Are what?
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#31 jem_gal
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[QUOTE="daishi112"]Well here's the thing, those are all really great tips, seriously that helps a LOT. But the only time I talk to her is at this place, it's group therapy for teens. It's like rehab cuz of school problems and stuff, no she's not nuts, her parents just hate her. And I'm not nuts either lol. But since it's like rehab we can't hang out, its not legal. I did tell her that when I get discharged that we'll smoke...soo I dunno about hanging out with her just yet.1stCommando
that completely changed my point of view on this topic... but i stand by what i said... become her friend, then go for more

yeah..that changed my pov too. but yes i agree, be her friend first, coz it seems she really needs it. a girl likes a compassionate guy. well i do.

wait..so do you smoke? coz most ppl find smoking a turn off.

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[QUOTE="1stCommando"][QUOTE="daishi112"]Well here's the thing, those are all really great tips, seriously that helps a LOT. But the only time I talk to her is at this place, it's group therapy for teens. It's like rehab cuz of school problems and stuff, no she's not nuts, her parents just hate her. And I'm not nuts either lol. But since it's like rehab we can't hang out, its not legal. I did tell her that when I get discharged that we'll smoke...soo I dunno about hanging out with her just yet.jem_gal

that completely changed my point of view on this topic... but i stand by what i said... become her friend, then go for more

yeah..that changed my pov too. but yes i agree, be her friend first, coz it seems she really needs it. a girl likes a compassionate guy. well i do.

wait..so do you smoke? coz most ppl find smoking a turn off.

She smokes too. Most people in the program are involved with drugs, one kid is there for weed laced with PCP.
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#33 quadraleap
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[QUOTE="quadraleap"]

...it sounds like you already are.

daishi112

Are what?

...hinting at attraction. Body language speaks volumes.

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#35 daishi112
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[QUOTE="daishi112"][QUOTE="quadraleap"]

...it sounds like you already are.

quadraleap

Are what?

...hinting at attraction. Body language speaks volumes.

Oh, well, I'm trying :) I just don't know If she's noticing it, I guess that should be my question.
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#36 daishi112
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Bump few more replies would be cool.
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don't get advice from gamespot forums...
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#38 daishi112
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don't get advice from gamespot forums...Jayesler12
Seems to be helping so far, but I see what you mean. :)
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[QUOTE="quadraleap"][QUOTE="daishi112"][QUOTE="quadraleap"]

...it sounds like you already are.

daishi112

Are what?

...hinting at attraction. Body language speaks volumes.

Oh, well, I'm trying :) I just don't know If she's noticing it, I guess that should be my question.

If she is doing a double take too, I would say it might be mutual. Start blending verbal communication and go from there.

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Get her high and have sex with her. Seriously though, I find it funny youre in some sort of rehab and your all like we'll smoke when we get out of here lol. That tells me you really don't care about how the school is trying to help you. It seems like youre getting along fine with her though. No reason to rush things. youre only 15
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Blog it, dude. I'm pretty sure that girl advice threads are a violation of the T.O.S.
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Touch Her :P
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#43 quadraleap
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Blog it, dude. I'm pretty sure that girl advice threads are a violation of the T.O.S.
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.... is thatfrom personal experience?

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